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  1. Neither of these fetishes are on the outer realm of fantasy play. Both are fairly common. Just first you want a profile that mentions "kink friendly" or "domination play" Then, as mentioned here by a few of the other gentlemen, just ask. Remember they are paid for their time, not their service, so simply share that you are "into" these fetishes and ask if they "SHARE" your interests. Then make an appointment to "get together". Keep the specific details of such an encounter in private - in person verbal conversations. Most importantly, never be embarrassed to discuss your turn-ons with a professional. They can either provide or not. Generally speaking no one is going to judge. ( And if anyone does...they need to find a different profession ).
  2. Those bathroom shots are hysterical. Somebody needs to show this kid how to "tune" his photos. He looks like Popeye.
  3. "Stud muffin" needs to move his profile to Seeking Arrangements.
  4. I remember my first flight. Lobster salad / real knife and fork / glass of white wine served chilled in a real glass...and I was flying coach ! But I also paid proportionally more than I would today for the same destination . US Domestic doesn't even have an equivalent option today, even if you were to pay for it. First class travel is pointless because you're trapped in the same shitty plane that gets stuck on the tarmac and is filled up in the back with low class travelers who don't know how to behave. Small private jet transportation is outrageously expensive. There are no choices left for the well-mannered upper middle class traveler.
  5. In charge tops have always been called "Sir". "Daddy" picks up the check....so if they wanna pull out their credit card instead...I say by all means...go for it ! 😉🤣
  6. I went to a gay gym once, many years ago. The weight room was empty but the steam room was PACKED ! 😉
  7. I agree. Weird to call yourself a "daddy" at 30 when you're advertising on a website that caters to men over 50.
  8. Absolutely ! ( However I still say this recipe is too salt heavy.) Prosciutto has enough salt that you don't need to keep adding more at every step.
  9. Don't always assume that outwardly sporty demeanor means that no one sucks dick. I made that mistake all through high school and college. I had the false impression that masculine/ sporty guys are straight and the effeminate guys in musical-theatre, were gay. ( Like an idiot I thought I was some weird exception to the rule since I was neither gay nor straight ). Years later one of my teammates comes out to me as gay. I ask how long he felt that way and said "since high school" ..and then goes on to tell me about how he had sex with half the wrestling team !! All those guys who I would have sworn were 100% straight. Gaydar doesn't always work unless you're accustomed to picking from the "mostly straight" jocks.😉
  10. You're proving my point. Your fear is paralyzing you. Even in today's politically correct world, flirting isn't going to get you banned from your gym. "Fear of being labeled gay" ? I'm not even gay and being labeled gay doesn't bother me in the least. Who cares what other people label you ? It's 2022. You be you. You don't WANT to fraternize at the gym ? Don't. But to say that it doesn't happen because it's against the rules is ridiculous. You can't ban fraternizing between men.
  11. Then you could offer an educated opinion . Are these recent pix ?
  12. Some people have terrible gaydar and others have this assumption they will be beat to death if they accidentally hit on a straight guy. So Grindr is like a security blanket
  13. I didn't announce the death of my son until we requested removal of life support. Of course we knew he was already gone days before. It's definitely a matter of perspective.
  14. Agreed.. He's not all that. Where's the other half of his torso ? Very Barney Rubble.
  15. This is an example of my point. Some of you guys talk about money for service in a way that makes it clear you aren't aware there is a human being involved in this transaction.
  16. They always say the loss of a child is beyond difficult. But until you live through it, you can't imagine the level of emotional pain you have to go through. It's next level sadness that lasts for months and creeps back in from time to time for the rest of your life . None the less ...I didn't get stuck in fantasy and we did keep life support going just long enough to preserve vital organs for donation to help others. On a personal level - I do agree ..once declared braindead there was no one left inside the body that continued it's beating heart .
  17. I am not well familiar with gay porn and the performers but I did come across Quentin Gainz somewhere online and thought *wow* this guy is everything I like in a guy. Wish he worked outside the studio.
  18. My oldest son had a massive stroke a few years ago and was declared brain dead. So I can tell you from personal experience brain dead doesn't = "dead". We had the choice to continue life support so clearly they wouldn't offer if he had been declared "dead".
  19. It actually sounds a lot like what my nutritionist and doctor recommend. I start every day with an egg white/ cheese and avocado omelette. Wrap or salad for lunch One glass of wine ( two on the weekend ) and alternating fish / chicken - red meat once a week. Sugar & carbs I allow myself a cheat day once a week. I love my pastries.
  20. 🔥🔥🔥🔥💯👍🔥🔥🔥🔥
  21. Thanks for that. I hadn't heard of this. I am not sitting on thousands ...but would be frustrating on my next trip to discover my bills I keep tucked in my luggage are worthless
  22. I'm 51 and I still get the occasional gym hook up. I don't see a massive change in the habits of gay men at the gym. Yes, they definitely look at their phones too much but I don't feel anyone is completely oblivious to what's right in front of him. Of course I also am not shy. If I find someone attractive, they are well aware I am looking . Someone once gave me great advice when it comes to flirting in public. "What's the worst that can happen ? ...they just say no ! " Subtlety doesn't work in public anymore when their face is in their phone.
  23. You seem to have missed the point. He didn't bail. He was sick and he stuck around to at minimum provide the company his client was paying for. Yes we all know what we hope for when escorts are paid for their time...but some of you forget that your dealing with a live human being. Not everything works out as planned even if you PAY.
  24. I hired a nutritionist to deal with it. He recommended a high protein breakfast everyday. He said the habit of Americans to eat cereal or muffins / bagels or other carb only breakfasts with coffee is a prelude to diabetes late in life.
  25. Who said ANYTHING about a "steady diet" of fries ? I simply said my weakness for carbs is good plate of Pomme Frites. I maybe do that a few times a year.
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