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I learned my lesson in Europe many years ago when I tipped the front desk at a small hotel in Barcelona for unlocking the door to the hotel when I got back in after a late night of partying. He threw the coins on the floor back in my direction. Apparently such token gestures are offensive in certain places.

Doms for hire are generally understanding about newbies and their limits. I'm sure an aversion to actual bondage doesn't preclude a dungeon from welcoming your cash

Lonliness can be incredibly painful and confusing for some. Sadly most Americans have an aversion to psychological help when they need it most. Alcohol, drugs and "hired company," are not unusual first choices to try and cover the pain.

A simple google search brought up this resource for BDSM enthusiasts in Southern California: https://www.socabondage.com/community-resources.html

There must be some listings for BDSM masters who have a fully equipped dungeon in LA who might have this in their toy kit

"Normal" ? What's "normal" to you ? I'm sure there are plenty of people who share YOUR own level of normalcy in the matter. If you enjoy your career as a professional escort then date an escort. Then your ideas of normal will match. Alternatively if you enjoy the company of older men... switch your priority to finding an equally lonely older man with money and offer him a committed relationship in exchange for taking care of you. Relationships don't need to be two people of the same age to be "normal". You simply need two people who care about each other to cure lonliness.

I remember when Abe Vigoda used to die in the news but wasnt actually dead for years

Are you disappointed by the massage or the erotic part, or both ?

Back in NYC. $200 for an hour of excellent deep tissue work. Highly recommended for his massage skills

I did not

Certain fetish play such as "race play" can actually help heal emotional wounds by facing your fear in the context of an exciting sexual encounter. Fear intensifies orgasm and by regularly mixing sex with fear, the negative eventually gets associated with the positive. Anyone who is skilled in BDSM is adept at using a person's fear to deliver a rewarding experience.

Thank you for sharing. And might I say...a beautiful example of self awareness. A person's sexuality can often be a separate place to escape to where we explore feelings that we don't encounter in our daily lives.

I was reading the caption at the start of this conversation. Which says "Pornstar Performer ". azdr0710 filled me in about the general nature of that text

Interesting how gay men take ownership of everything that isn't heterosexual. "Queer" ?? Animals are sexual. People are sexual Society alone breaks a line between homosexual and heterosexual and society hates when you blur that line. #Little boxes

Wouldn't THAT be a refreshing change ?

"Porn Stars" ..( if this guy really is one) often charge $400 or more for their time.

.....A quality time looking at my dick, for extra money. Don't get any ideas about asking for more because I am very rough and demanding... I been to this rodeo before No thanks

I had to travel to Florida on business early this week. Got back to NYC Thursday and it was actually hotter in NYC then it was my entire time in Palm Beach FL ! So weird. 🌴

Mix and match photos. Similar look but different guys in each pic. Buyer beware

Yeah. Silly me. I certainly didn't seek them out. It was simply that they were the only one with the flight exactly at the hours I wanted to travel ..and I thought...." How bad could they be" ? Well...got my answer !

Tried a cheap flight to Florida this week ( there on business ) . Spirit Airlines is known to be awful, but I figured its a quick business trip...I could endure a little discomfort. WRONG. Just awful and what I didn't factor in was being abandoned on the tarmac for two hours with minimal airconditioning while they re-thought their flight path and "if they had enough fuel". They couldn't have done all that BEFORE we boarded ?? Lauderdale to NYC route was full of non-English language passengers who apparently have never been on board a flight before and ignored every announcement to sit down, get off their phones, use earphones for electronic games etc etc and the fellow sitting next to me unwrapped a whole smelly Burger King meal in the middle of take off and starting dropping his fries all over my lap. OK...that's not ALL the airlines "fault" per-se....but there was little to no effort to control any of this chaos by the flight attendants who were too busy selling bottles of water for $ 3.50 a piece. AVOID

I thought it was funny...but I guess all conversations need to be categorized now. LGBTQXYZMPRTVMF

Yes. I am well aware of how it all works. But thanks. I live in NYC and checked for Covid frequently.

I spent two years during the pandemic keeping my dick at home with my wife. We married as best friends so our sex life has never been *Energizer Bunny* just pleasant and comfortable. Didn't touch any male playmates throughout....so frequency was down. ( We've been married for 15 years )...so .... But. Now I am less concerned about health issues / everyone is vaccinated + boosted and the boyz are getting themselves vaxxed for the monkey pox, I am back in the saddle and more sexually active. I don't see any difference in my libido.

In certain cultures ( particularly Latin America ) there is ONLY black and blond. Anyone who DOESN'T have black hair is automatically "blond". This fellow appears to be Auburn, which isn't always an option in the checklist. Also "blonds" like myself can appear to have darker or lighter hair according to background lighting and time of the year ( summer blond ).