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Pittsburgh is a desert for escorting. It's probably the one escort who actually works there trying to protect his territory ! 😆

My wife and I married as best friends after many years of dating around. We are both bisexual and have always enjoyed active sex lives. So when neither of us found that perfect person in others we decided to do our (previously a joke) "Plan B". We love each other dearly but live on another celestial plane from some other couples . We are happy for each other even if our "fun" is found with someone else for an hour or two . Sex is merely one expression of love. And sex doesn't always equate with love. When I am with my wife it's different than a hook up with a male partner. Compartmentalizing is the way you feel you are not "cheating". You need to drop a lot of preconditioning that you may have about what makes a successful relationship.

I do love some simple foods. Roasted vegetables of any kind. Simply tossed in olive oil and sprinkled with sea salt is a favorite at my house with everyone. YES..my kids LOVE vegetables ! ( You just need to know how to cook them )

Yes. I see Marcella is Italian. I am saying the recipe is the way my ( very middle American ) mother would cook. Been there/ done that...and I dread being back in Central PA because this is the only kind of food you can find there. Salt and Pepper are the only spices they know.

I would agree. When I make a marinara, it's a light fresh sauce with chunks of tomato and served over Penne Pasta When I make "spaghetti sauce" it's thick rich sauce that does have the consistency of "gravy"...and served over spaghetti. This is definitely the distinction my ( Sicilian) mother-in-law taught me

Had to look that up. VERY typical of "Middle American" cooking. Almost no ingredients. There's probably a similar version in the Betty Crocker cook book. Personally, I grew up eating that bland -no spices kind of food, and I always hated it. Very fortunate to have met so many people from Italy here in NYC who have shared their family recipes, and introduced me to the richness of real Italian cuisine.

There are entire aisles of the grocery store where I never visit. I am always astounded at the "snack aisle"...miles of chips, crackers, pretzels, and cookies that I never buy. We eat MEALS at my house. If you need a snack, there's fruit in the bowl. The most my kids eat crap is around Halloween when we let them indulge in some candy for the holiday so they don't feel left out.

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Every election year, there's an increase of purported antisemitic attacks leading up to election day. Doesn't mean you should stop embracing your cultural background and live in fear.

Yup. I make mine with a cut of beef and some pork sausage. It's delicious. Much better than a beef Ragu.

I don't think it HAS TO suck. What "crashed" is your fantasy. Find some joy in the reality. If you have access to enjoying the company of young attractive men in exchange for compensation, then just enjoy it and stop overthinking the emotional connections you may or may not be making. There is always a degree in exploiting going on in a pay-4-play relationship. That's just the reality of it. Santa Claus doesn't exist. The Easter Bunny doesn't bring you a basket and Jesus Christ isn't saving you from evil. These are all fantasies meant to make you feel safe and happy. You're an adult now. YOU make yourself safe and happy and MONEY is the tool that gets you want to want and need to be happy.

"Gravy" is a meat sauce that's been slow cooking all day as opposed to a simple fast Marinara made in a pan.It's a term most commonly used by Sicilian-Americans...but other Italian-Amsricans have adopted the word.

Well .....at least you're not in the" grandpa" category. Transactional relationships can be complicated. You pay for a fantasy that isn't going to be fun when you start believing the fairy tale and then get slapped in the face with the truth. Prince Charming is an escort. He's there because you pay him. Escorts will choose the man who pays the most and annoys them the least ( until that dynamic changes ). DIS-inviting him and complaining to him turned your relationship into something different. It's no longer the easy alternative to old grandpa.

Oh ? Well that's not the impression you gave me. Maybe that's not the impression you had given this young man (who wasn't the favorite). Maybe you'd like to share more details about the problem as it occurred ?

He looks good for 40. But my homosexual tendencies revolve around my inability to figure out how to get boys in College.....so 40 is WAY too old for me. That would help explain why he did nothing for me, in spite of being a pleasant sort of fellow.

Cathexis: def. The investment of energy in an object, idea, or person is known as cathexis. Since the id does not distinguish between a mental image and reality, it may not lead to direct action to satisfy a need. Instead, the id may simply form an image of the desired object that is satisfying in the short term but does not fulfill the need in the long term. For example, a person who is hungry may create a mental image of a desired food rather than actually eating.

Jeezus. You really are lost, aren't you ? Now I understand why you got yourself in this pickle.

Well considering 20% of the black community doesn't have a job..."sedentary" is not unfamiliar. People of all colors who don't work and live off food stamps are typically obese.

Which makes it even MORE bizarre that you aren't aware of how much that hurts the one who's NOT "the favorite".

I fucked his husband a few times....but yeah Justin is just 🤢 . I don't understand the attraction.

The term "head sugar baby" is the equivalent of your mom saying your brother is "her favorite" .☹️

I don't mind body art, as long as it's not plastered all over the body ( and face ).

Cute guy in the pic...but only ONE pic ? Seems sketchy.

Just keep finding the comments "funny". Everyone has their type....and everyone has things they don't care for. So it's all a meat market here. You have beautiful eyes.

Interesting that he's included two pics from his younger/pretty-boy days.