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Gabriel is the guy you date. Alfie is the guy you let cum in your mouth and fuck you up the ass bareback. Lucien Laviscount is so sexy...definitely more my type.

Not really following you In my last comment I said I was interested in the sexual dynamics of power. Using superior economic situation to get a straight guy to submit to your desires. What does that have to do with love ? 🤔

I do not...But then the people I hire probably have a larger degree of choice in their decisions and less desperation than the person you described. My inquiry was about the psychological nature of the turn-on. Wanted to know if it was more about easy access to someone with good looks or more of a power trip, where your money was getting someone to be an unwilling sex slave. Sexual power dynamics interest me because the first time I ever had sex with a man, I was handcuffed and manipulated into performing oral on a State Trooper. Thanks for your reply.

Always fascinating when someone advertises as a DOM TOP yet for the right price will go total sub-pussy-boy. Big turn on.

Legitimate question : Was it a turn-on to know that you were taking advantage of their lack of self esteem and desperation ?

The two are very similar in looks....so hard to tell which is which even when they do post pix of both.

The general consensus is that "sensual" is nudity and maybe a happy ending. "Erotic" is teasing, edging and most likely a happy ending. But nothing is written in stone and all is open for interpretation.

I know that prostitution is illegal in the United States, and I know it's therefore only legal to pay for TIME. What happens between two consenting adults while otherwise contracted for time spent is a private matter and not under any contract of exchange of money for sex.

Am I the only person who thinks Patricia Fields has lost her mind ? I used to work in ( and around) the fashion industry in the 90s. So the first seasons were exciting for me to see, with Pat's usual wild, daring in costume design. Unfortunately this season was one train-wreck after the other. I found it distracting that people who supposedly worked at a high end style company looked like Circus clowns most of the time. I had a hard time letting my mind believe this was real life because of that. I DO still however want "Alfie" to fuck me. 😉

No. This is the difference between a masseur and an escort. A masseur may bring you to orgasm but you should NOT assume erotic means sex. Not saying there aren't exceptions and that escorts don't advertise as masseurs ..I am saying by NO means should you take for granted that sexual services are offered when they check "Erotic" in their profile.

In Central PA people kept their own chickens for eggs. I remember when they started the sanitation laws that made this illegal unless you were a licensed farm. People thought this was an affront to their culture. Maybe they were right to protest. My grandparents chickens were certainly cared for far better than any factory farm.

Agreed. That is the only indication that the provider is definitely open to more than a happy ending when posting on a massage site.

Absolutely NOT. Not when you're on a massage site.

Agreed I have had many romances over the years with both men and women. I always thought there was something seriously wrong with me that I couldn't "pick a side". This was beautifully written to focus on the romance more than the sexuality. I was very much that person growing up. ( Although my mid 20's went to the wild side for much of a decade ) 😈

In the United States you pay an escort for their TIME. If you have sex..great ! ..but that's not what you're paying for legally. So if you don't like the sex you can't not pay them since they did fulfill their contract for time. Walk away and pretend it was a bad date and you had paid for dinner and drinks. Same loss.

Once you're in the same room, it doesn't matter. Even if you get unsatisfactory service, the payment is still due.

No. They're not.

I've had so much sex over the years ( I live in NYC ) that most porn does absolutely nothing for me. So my small niche turn-on in film is muscular/ masculine black men gang raping a young white person. Man or woman. Growing up in Pennsylvania in the 70s it was always fascinating to drive down to Philadelphia where black men and women seems so much more in touch with their sexual self, then the up-tight conservative community where I lived. I was always envious about that and wondered what it would be like to throw myself into it.

Yup. Great show in many ways. Being bisexual myself it meant a lot to me and brought back many memories of my first boy-crush. I think the young actors did a marvelous job in their roles. With so many programs inserting full-on eroticism as part of the story...it was nice to see something sweet and innocent about affection without the fucking.

***I just told my girlfriend I am breaking up with her...but I asked if I could fuck her once in a while when I'm in the mood. *** Unlikely scenario too.

I hire people from out of town and in town and also when I am out of town. In the past 10 years I have never paid anyone a deposit and see no reason to do so except to provide revenue to scammers. I have never cancelled any appointment. But this is why providers need to foster relationships with reliable clients..not spend their whole life dealing with strangers

Ummm. What planet are YOU living on ? Covid delays affect every aspect of my business.

Correct. And I never do.

My impression is that Covid Panic has had far more effect on shortages than anything else.

Honesty ( with a drop of modesty ) is the best policy. Don't lie. Thank him for the great times and tell him you're ready to move on.