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As they say ...there's someone for everyone .

38 and "average". He seems to be going for a small niche market

ABS ? No idea what that stands for.

Thanks Good point. 👍

Thanks ! I normally don't even hire under the "escort" category. Prefer to hire for a massage first, which allows me to meet the person first. But this guy checks all the boxes for me and is only here in NYC for a visits, so I won't have time to do an initial meet up.

Hardly how that works. I was referring to a hyper-sexualized environment, where anyone would be excited, when I made it to seven ejaculations. I am simply saying that people shouldn't assume just because they can't go for more than one round, that everyone is wired the same way. I do admire the ability of escorts to get it up with old fat men, that they don't even find attractive. That's a unique skill. One ounce of fat on my choice of sexual partner, and I am limp-dicking it, and will make an excuse to leave.

I tried Scruff ...but I seem to be out of their demographic. In my 50s but still fit and clean cut. The community there is much more hairy-bear daddies and their admirers. Grindr is a mixed bag but the one constant is the prevalence toward the "quick hook-up" rather than getting to know someone. There is definitely more traffic on Grindr...but I think there's also a lot of dabblers there who like to browse but never meet.

I know a few older guys in NYC who are gay. They often recant stories of multiple bars here in the City where 50% of the place was eager young escorts and the other half admirers. Seems to me that in-person interaction was far more efficient than today's headless torsos. (Unless of course you're a size queen..and you need to SEE the goods up front) 😂

There was a party promoter in NYC who had a strict door policy of under 40 y.o. muscle guys only. The room was packed with gorgeous guys. I can't image how you could possibly hold-off from cumming ! Never occurred to me that some guys only have one load ! I just assumed ( back then) that they had a problem trying to ejaculate. What a curse to have to hold it in. I suppose with providers, they are far less turned on and the problem is more frequently getting hard / not cumming too fast.

Thanks ! I must have made a mistake on the spelling when I first did a search. Now I see the conversations.

Of course I did that first . Didn't turn up anything . Maybe there's a variation he was using previously?

Ok...so WHO has his phone number ?

Yes. Every last one. Are you always pompous and condescending or only when you drink ?

I'm guessing the dude probably IS actually mostly straight. Always a bad sign when sexual partner needs porn to get hard.

Anyone have experience with JacobTop ? https://rent.men/JacobTop/#platinum Currently in LA - Coming to NYC Jan 23 to Feb 1 Beautiful guy...but $ 400 an hour is pricey for a blind date.

I remember when lunch was $3.59 and gas was $2.00 a gallon.

Yup. I'm hypoglycemic. I basically do Keto most of the week to keep my book sugar regulated. I do vegetarian once a week as a "cleanse". I wouldn't last a month on a vegan diet.

That easy. Instagram influencers are all con artists. You want to lose weight ? Consult a professional nutritionist.

He quoted me $300. Apparently I got the "hot daddy" discount. He's working on a floating scale.

I never quoted Freud. You can stick to your antiquated scientific studies from the 80s. The fact of the matter is that current psychological theory embraces the idea of human sexuality as far more fluid than your charts from my childhood are showing. More importantly young people in their 20s are PRACTICING sexual fluidity and tossing out the labels. Nobody identifies as just "gay" anymore. It's all about bi / poly / and fluid. Where's your chart from 2022 ?

I started the thread, genius.

Totally agree

He's very pretty. Sounds high maintenance. Like all the pretty girls 😂

Santa Monica Blvd. In LA used to have as many boys for hire hanging out in the street as there are on three cities worth of guys on Rent.men. Sex work has always been an easy buck when you're young and pretty. You make more in an hour than the suckers on minimum wage make working 8 hours.

Pity. Because I would totally fuck the real guy.