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One that resembled our not-so-distant history.

Truly. Matt should call Joey (since they are friends) and tell Joey to make his own account here to tell his side of this soap opera. Also...please post more ass pics

I never hire for BFE service, but I agree with @Rudynate. THIS has always been MY understanding of the differences in repertoire. Tender, romantic and connected as opposed to my usual prefernce. Which is down-n-dirty animal sex.

SUCH an enthusiastic review !! Its almost like @Mattyfresh19 was working for Joeytheboi. (Or maybe its an unpaid postion since they are one-in-the-same). 🤔 Nice try, Joey. But we see through these. I will say, however that your pix, if authentic show a definitely desirable provider with a truly delicious ass. So no need for false advertising.

You know what else is painful ? Cost of living for a young person. I've found that certain young "straight" men, in their twenties to be rather flexible in their sexuality when the rent is due, and your wallet is open.

Absolutely. After seeing your ass pic, I was delighted to discover that you're a power bottom. 😋

Which is why you NEVER offer to pay ANYONE for sex over text, email, phone etc. It's a game of *wink*wink* where you discuss sexual interests in common. Then simply agree to meet up and agree to PAY FOR THEIR TIME. Yes, no one is dumb enough to think you're inviting them to tea, but in terms of criminality, you have limited the evidence to nothing written. SPECULATING about whether or not you were INTENDING to pay for sex is not evidence enough to convict someone. You were certainly not the first to fall for this scam. Learn from your mistake.

I think it's more nuanced than that. I agree with @Coloradoguy, that such vehement denial of drug use, while posting that one of your "interests" is drug use, is CERTAINLY suspect, while not necessarily rising to the level of "gaslighting". The young man is wise to end the discussion by removing the reference of partying from his advertisement. As @maninsoma mentions, we have ALL knows those people who suffer from addiction, that are the first to deny that their drug use "isn't a problem".

This is why I prefer to hire for a massage session before ever considering hiring anyone for an escort session. Some people just aren't going to click, and younger providers are often unprepared to fuck anything that moves. Escorting is a skill, that every cute boy doesnt necessarily have.

Good move. PNP on a profile is a definite RED FLAG for many. I would immediately pass on anyone who lists it. (Even with the very desirable description of "hungry power bottom". 🍑 ) In every business, where reviews are part of the formula, you encounter the occasional client who didn't get quite the experience, they wanted and will choose to blame the provider and exaggerate the situation. The answer to your question of how to prevent being slandered, is that you can only work to make sure the rest of your reviews stand in stark contrast. For examole: most mature adults can see through the random restaurant review, where someone complained about bad food and bad service, when multiple others said the opposite. We all know about these types of sad-sacks who are never happy with anything. You can't make them disappear, but you can give us a reason to look the other way. I agree with the comment above, that you "doth protest too much". A simple explanation of a customer who is bitter and lashing out, would have been adequate. We all know that this happens. Keep your head up, and stay above the fray.

"Party Friendly" = a hard pass for me.

Not unpopular with me. I completely agree. I love a combination session of skilled massage with an erotic finish...but I do expect THAT to cost more (usually double) what a standard therapeutic session would cost. Even if the erotic portion is 10% of the hour.

Nobody, no matter how sexy, looks THE SAME after 10 years.

He's a sexy man. The videos of him face-fucking the participants would make the price of admission worth it, if that were a guaranteed part of the session. 🍆

Being an architect. I have made one (related)observation about high school gyms. SOME high schools have a separate shower for the coach inside his office and most do NOT. In my observations about sports - SOME coaches stand on the sidelines and yell direction while others are out there actually showing you how its done. Those who are in the mud or sweating on the gym floor need to shower somewhere. In the 1950s to the 1980s it would seem that nobody really gave much thought to a gym teacher being a pedophile.

Yes. Not ALL the gym teachers all at once, but if we were out playing football and the gym teacher was on the field working with us, he jumped in the shower to rinse off before his next class. Wrestling is a particularly sweaty sport for a gym teacher as he really does need to get down with us and participate. So that one also would rinse off after every class. There was just one big room with about 20 shower heads. The wrestling coach was a fairly young(ish) man. Italian with slightly reddish hair. Great thick body and meaty ass. Also a very nice man. Never thought much about it at the time. It was all fairly normal, but in hind-sight it does seem highly sexualized.

Yes. My gym teachers all showered in the same large shower room as the students throughout Junior High and High School ( 1980s ) But as @Pensant mentioned in HIS high school. We were an 85% Palantine German ancestry community.

You still need to be specific with your own into's. Escorts aren't mind readers. Some are better than others at "reading the room".

Escorts are hired for SEX not to be your boyfriend. So...YES if kissing is important than you should absolutely ask. Alternatively, I notice that many providers list BFE ( Boy Friend Experience ) I would assume that THIS service would have kissing as an assumption. SO it's a good starting point.

I am more attracted to the opposite. I prefer a provider who advertises as "safe only" as that indicates a more conservative approach to their health so it gives me ( a false ) sense of security about catching diseases. Completely an illusion, but it's there in my head, nonetheless. I only fuck with condoms.

Well he looked damn good in 2018. Great body. I love a good six pak.

Exactly. Everything gets interconnected now. If anyone has privacy concerns of any kind its lost when you give a provider your primary mobile number. I have META making friends suggestions of people I fucked YEARS ago. Obviously they receive the same...and therefore have my social media contacts. Any sense of anonymity that I may have wanted is gone.

Absolutely, but I would say even more so from the top. For the bottom, there’s much less friction, and it feels a lot better. Then, of course, this is the psychological thrill of taking a man’s cum inside your body. In my opinion the difference is far more psychological than physical. Lots of guys lose the moment while struggling to slip on a condom..and as far as having someone unload in your ass...yeah thats a whole pile of psychology. Intimacy, naughtiness, and danger.

I think you have the firmest grasp of the subject. The people who are declaring it "wrong" and "unprofessional" to ask.for a photo are the ones who are lost.