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There are in Los Angeles Metro, lots of gay-friendly hotels, in which you remain clothed, masked and 6’ apart in public areas. Covid reg’s may alter any hotel’s standard admittance policy. If you are planning to have guests in your room they will likely need advance notice. If you’re looking for a Gay “Friendly-Hotel” in which clothing is optional, and a general vibe of cruisiness is encouraged, you will have better luck in the Palm Springs area. No idea if Covid regs are in force, but perhaps that’s not a priority for you on this trip.

All of that, is okay for ideals and goals For a relationship that will actually last consider: Sense of humor - make each other laugh at least once every day. I cannot stress this enough, regardless of gender or orientation Loading the dishwasher wrong will never change. Get over it. My husband and I have been together 32 years. Twenty of them since May.

Does anyone who’s seen it, know the location used to shoot for the Las Vegas competition? That mid C modern lobby looked familiar. Nothing on IMDB aside from general Ontario locations...

For my taste, the fishnet gear and clothing work best modeled on someone who has round shapes, like Phatt. Or Zsa Zsa Gabor

I don’t disagree with Nico. Any young inexperienced lad can insert and rut to completion. Huzzah. It takes thoughtful preparation, however, and calculation to receive an inserted hard on, and even more adult focus, to use control of the muscles to milk and squeeze that dick while the top realizes he’s the “top” in name only...

This gifted athlete from Cuba just came out. I wish him well in the continuation of a significant gymnastic career! When watching his most recent Olympic events, I was astonished to see a gymnast with chest hair... no, actually astonished at his amazing work on the equipment, but with dirty thoughts about his chest hair.. and its rarity among the male medalists He is definitely a new source of fantasy... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Danell_Leyva

I’ve seen it only in its first theatrical release, but have met either socially or professionally all three of the actors playing the kids... it’s maybe the sweetest Spielberg epic out there.

Impossible to prove what NEVER happened, now isn’t it? (When I asked if his name was Biff, he said hell no, so that much is accurate, I’m sure.)

There isn’t much that @jeezifonly has NEVER done. Specificity required. (Forgot to include the trapeze.)

Never, Ever have I been fucked. In public.. On a Wednesday... Before Sunset... By a black man... Named Biff.

On Netflix She’s the TikTok /YT star who does material written and spoken by Trump, as she lip-syncs to it playing her own version of Trump and reporters, based only on the words. This show brilliantly takes it a step further, freeing her up from super short bits on an iPhone, and setting her as anchor of a present-day morning show named “Everything’s Fine”. Great Satire. Worth it just to see Helen Mirren play Billy Bush on the Access Hollywood tape... Other fun guests like Fred Armisen, Jon Hamm, Maya Rudolph bring layers of funny throughout. Watch it!!!

Oh good - glad to get another rec Huzz said Stephen King liked it, and we know that he doesn’t suffer trite. Getting into her whole relationship with Mother...

On Netflix. Anybody watching The Queen’s Gambit? Quirky interesting show, set against the world of competitive chess - a world I know nothing about, though I imagine several here do. Quiet intense performances so far, but I’m only in Ep 3...

I’ve only had one potential hire ask. I told him I didn’t have one, but I could send him a link to a courtroom artist’s sketch. Never heard back ??

My imaginary boyfriend waxed his taint this afternoon, did the dinner dishes, just walked the dog, has set up the massage table, and will be dessert when he gets back from dropping off his ballot.

It may be one part of the coupling scenario that demands planned spontaneity. I never get so much as a legit spa massage without being sparkling clean, myself.

I know y’all live for these ... “real” women But I think the damage already done by Reality TV is something we’re stuck with forever That’s why I would punch Andy Cohen square in the nose if we met. But as he was laying down with a bag of peas on his face, I would totally eat his ass. Then throw a glass of wine at...somebody

Slightly veering here- there are spas that have a wet area with a table to combine bodyscrub, shower, massage. I could really get into that. Anybody experience this? Probably not in US The incall masseur who can build a home version... I’d wind up broke.

My clothes dryer vents too, but at least the lint looks different each time ?

@Jarrod_Uncut You have difficulty getting along with 80-90% of the population?? Nope, don’t buy it. You are already capable of faking sexual attraction for a couple of hours.There are lots of jobs out there that do not require getting along... just “faking” being civil and respectful. You’ve turned to this forum for advice (I’d hate to think you just come here to whine) and lots have offered it. Validation? You’ve gotten lots of that as well. Pity? Sorry, Love. ps Have you thought about studying acting?

No one is Total Anything... I wasn’t really into it when I was younger Now eating ass is a must, and I’m a Total Bottom Maybe it’s just an acquired taste, like port or truffles or bold cheese... I think a number of guys probably had one bad experience with an asshole (who didn’t know how to clean his asshole...) I’d say they don’t know what they’re missing, but maybe they do.

For initial reach out, I text: “Hey GuyWiththisname2, Rando here. saw your ad on (Sitename) today.. Drawn to your profile ..I liked ...your chill attitude. ...your look, your type really works for me ...that your experience with bodywork is exactly what I need ,,,your ink and it is worth a closer look (Be Brief specific sincere complimentary) It’s now (day and time). Serious inquiry from Me: GWM 44, 5’9 178) Looking for (X) minutes of your time at (my/your) place, Later today, Thur, 6pm til late or anytime tomorrow Fri. Please reply if you have an opening. Thx. //////////// Do not use any profanity or mention sex organs or acts. He’ll have to initiate that. No mention of fee. Mention name of day you seek, along with reference of vague today tomorrow weekend. Give major intersection nearby, neighborhood or landmark if he’s coming to you. Disclose your own stats as you like but don’t lie. If he does 2 different service levels for massage and play, and is on 2 sites, address him by the right name, whichever he uses for the service you want. If one moniker he’ll ask re massage or play. Know ahead which you want and duration offered. If who/what/when is insufficient, ask for brief voice convo for a couple clarifications. //////////// Ask for who/what /when. Top him, top you, just oral, massage with mutual touch and release, getting tied up, whatever needs to be clear you speak on the phone - this is your chance to determine if it’s a complete no-go. Agree on rate, duration - repeat it back to him. So, you set it up, confirm date start and end time, address via text. Don’t use dollar sign just digits for fee. Don’t do endless back and forth with more needs or limits or emojis. Always be prepared to end with Thx for your time, we’ll maybe get another opportunity soon IF YOU MUST CANCEL do so ASAP Don’t flake.

His RM profile is absent “stripping” and I’m like There’s an opportunity wasted... a dancer body for sure

OMG You’re living a working actor’s life, Jarrod. Consider: Sometimes you are wanted desperately, sometimes you are invisible. Costs of living go up, work is unsteady, and often requires an additional source of income to make it possible (I hear some even do sexwork... ) Most working actors are not stars - timing and the market you are in determines whether or not the career can sustain you now, let alone to middle age or beyond, and often relocation is not an option. It takes money to keep appearance and stamina up to form. Working in live theatre, you never see friends and family, as you work evenings and weekends. If you land a good Equity contract for 8 shows a week, it may be only for a couple months, perhaps in a city you hate. Or a really long run in a shitty role in a play you dislike, or you share a dressing-room with a pig... or an ex.. or both Critics are everywhere, brutal to the ego. Flakes and users abound. Promises get made and broken, and you must put lots of work and time into your own promotion. Benefits? They’re based on how often you work, if they exist at all. If better-paying on-camera work is offered while you are under contract in a play, hard choices crop up. Don’t forget an agent gets 10-15% of every buck you make!! A personal life of any sort is often tricky to balance along side the work - so many conflicts of presence and demand of focus. Why do actors go through all that - I mean, why act at all? Because they must. The process feeds their soul. The rush of getting it right (or wrong..) inspires them for the next performance, and all of it forms bonds with fellow cast and crew, to feel an intense kinship of purpose in telling a story for a short time. That’s the payoff. Is being a sex-worker what you must do to feed your soul? Find your payoff, Jarrod. You deserve it, and it may involve doing something else for income.