Reluctant Daddy

My one theatre memory was seeing Shelley Winters in The Effect of Gamma Rays back in the late 70's when I was a teen. My first visit to NY, and I was determined to meet her. I went backstage after the performance and made up some story about being mugged on my way to see the play. Not sure whether they believed it, but the stage manager took me up to her dressing room to meet her. Should was incredibly sweet, signed my program, and issued a motherly warning on being careful on the streets of the city.

I'm a sucker for his cute face and a big fan of Spider-Man.

 

[uSER=12070]@NYClocker[/uSER] @liubit :

 

Are yinz fans too?

 

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Very much!

I find his tattoo absolutely hideous, but the kid is just too damn sexy. His performances on Bel Ami videos are simply scorching hot....

I'm the exact opposite on this, and find the tattoo adds to his hotness.

On the flip side, I have a weekend scheduled with someone. The hotel I booked seems to require some sort of ID for all guests. I need to confirm that with the hotel, but I don't know if this will be a problem with him. I'll discuss this with him once I have a chance to check details with the hotel.

Have any other escorts encountered something like this, and was it an issue for you?

For $500, Kevin Warhol. It would be so worth it in my book!

I've added pics to my RM client profile. A body pic for the main, and a private face pic. I figure after enough communication back and forth with an escort, and I feel comfortable enough, I'll unlock the face if requested.

So, did you end up hiring him? And what was the end result?

It didn't happen. I contacted him several times beforehand and he never responded. His RM ad expired, so I don't think he was entirely serious about being an escort.

When someone reaches out to us, especially if they don't often hire, they are likely filled with great uncertainty and perhaps some fears or insecurities, but their desire is to move past that and be nurtured, eased and find pleasure. The last thing they need is someone telling them that they are too old, fat or a wrong fit ethnically or racially.

This is spot on. I started hiring because of those fears and insecurities. I wasn't certain how it would go, but the guys I hired didn't see me the way I see myself. There weren't any issues at all. I can't even begin to explain the feeling of being held, touched and tenderly kissed by someone who didn't treat me as old and out of shape.

And I'm often surprised by fellow client type posters saying "I'm too old for so-and-so unless I pay". Yes it's more difficult as we age to attract what we like.

I'm trying to get over this mindset but find it difficult as hell. Working on confidence, and thanks to a couple of wonderful hires, have been building it. My fear is trying it beyond the "unless I pay" wall. I don't think it would take much to crumble all I've built.

What is the problem many of you seem to have with sending pics?

I have a problem because I'm not sure where that pic may end up or how it may be used. I don't need the hassle and embarrassment of appearing on someone's tumblr blog or twitter feed as the sad old man trying to hire a 19 year old. I'm upfront when I contact an escort - my age, the fact that I'm not in shape, and that I'm not an attractive man. I think that should give them enough to help them with their decision.

I have absolutely no skills in the kitchen, so I generally order out.

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I wonder if the request for a pic is to see whether or not your worthy of being their client?

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Good lord! I wish I had a Good Ol' Boy like this near me. They all look like Duck Dynasty rejects in my neck of the woods.

if that's your intuition

I'm afraid my intuition left the building the minute I started hiring.

I'm not a Pollyanna by any stretch of the imagination, but am I being incredibly naive with this? I have a tendency to give people the benefit of doubt and think the kid doesn't really know what to do or what's expected of him in this situation.

$30 line pass / blackmail insurance premium. What a steal:rolleyes:

Lol. This kid doesn't impress me as being ambitious enough to do it. Mad for the money he can make for a 3 hour + tip, and the thought of losing it to someone more agreeable.

I texted him to let him know that I wasn't interested since there were so many conditions and uncertainties on his rate. I told him that I could find another escort willing to travel and that they'd be happy to accept the business without such a hassle. Three hours later I get a text back quoting $130 an hour, no stipulations, no pic required and a first name was sufficient.

@MikeyGMin - buying a new car was so much easier.

Seriously?

 

I'm not the one applying for a job here......

True enough.

Part of me wants to believe that he's trying to make sure he's not getting into a bad or dangerous situation. I can certainly make up a name, but the pic request is off the table.

I've been corresponding with an 18 year old advertising on RM. His hourly rate is insanely low ($100 an hour - with the question, "with or without sex?"), but he won't discuss any further until I provide him with my age (on my RM profile), my name, and pics. He's indicated that all are required before we meet. Neither his pics nor his ID are verified on the site, and he's only been a regular member for a month. I know it's not a standard request, but is it best to walk away??

Why did my eyes go the bowl of spaghetti first?

I'd settle for either version. He's just damned adorable!

As long as you are not going to go near anything metalic they will work fine, but anything metallic such as chains or other BDSM playthings have caused some havoc

Read the warnings regarding pacemakers, etc., but the thought of going near other metallic objects never crossed my mind. Thanks for the warning! They do take some getting used to, but daaaaamn!

I also bought a set of the XL strength ones because I wasn't sure what either were like. I'm pretty sure my heart stopped 2 or 3 times in the struggle to get them off.

My newfound hot-wiring has led me to purchase a pair of these magnetic marvels.

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Yes, Kevin Warhol. I think he is one of the sexiest, most sexual "new" Bel Ami boys

Curious to know if he escorts. Checked quick, but didn't see anything.