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He was totally sweet, we were laughing. 

Another red flag is last minute plan changes. Any time an escort has asked me (quite last minute) to push back the start time (sometimes even by an hour!) or, more recently, told me he'd be hosting at a completely different address at the other side of the city than the one initially confirmed, it's never been a good session. 
The last time this happened I just canceled the session, even though I did not have other plans and would have been able to accommodate the difference. But my mood had been so soured that I wouldn't have been able to enjoy it anyway. To top it off the provider got annoyed with me for not agreeing to the (very last minute) change in plans without even apologizing to me. 

Did he mean it in a funny way? Depending on how he said it, it would have killed the mood for me 😅

He didn’t do the upsell bit.  I would have been completely turned off by it as well.
I rarely ask what’s included in the price.  If they quote a rate and have erotic checked off then that’s what I’m expecting unless it’s specifically spelled out in the ad.  

It’s been working for me lately, so if it ain’t broke why fix it?  I think if you ask about payment for extra services it implies you’re OK with paying a la carte, IMHO

I think the tread is interesting. I got to read many different aspects of the issue. This is the only place where a topic like this can be discussed from all angles. It's not like NYT or WSJ or CNBC is going cover it.
Those who are tired of the topic, there are plenty of other threads to read on this forum.
 

There was an interesting exchange I saw on Instagram recently. So I know from Onlyfans creators that models that collab together don't pay each other, because every model gets a new video (new content) for their page that they can sell, making them money that way. 
An Onlyfans creator had messaged a (very sexy) man on social media, asking him to make a video with him. The man, not being an Onlyfans model himself, asked how much the creator would pay him to be part of the video (since the man didn't have an Onlyfans himself where he could sell that video to his own subs, effectively unable to monetize his performance). The creator flipped and went on a tirade on how the man should be grateful someone like him would even ask him and that the man should be paying him to have sex with him. 

There was an interesting exchange I saw on Instagram recently. So I know from Onlyfans creators that models that collab together don't pay each other, because every model gets a new video (new content) for their page that they can sell, making them money that way. 
An Onlyfans creator had messaged a (very sexy) man on social media, asking him to make a video with him. The man, not being an Onlyfans model himself, asked how much the creator would pay him to be part of the video (since the man didn't have an Onlyfans himself where he could sell that video to his own subs, effectively unable to monetize his performance). The creator flipped and went on a tirade on how the man should be grateful someone like him would even ask him and that the man should be paying him to have sex with him. 

There was an interesting exchange I saw on Instagram recently. So I know from Onlyfans creators that models that collab together don't pay each other, because every model gets a new video (new content) for their page that they can sell, making them money that way. 
An Onlyfans creator had messaged a (very sexy) man on social media, asking him to make a video with him. The man, not being an Onlyfans model himself, asked how much the creator would pay him to be part of the video (since the man didn't have an Onlyfans himself where he could sell that video to his own subs, effectively unable to monetize his performance). The creator flipped and went on a tirade on how the man should be grateful someone like him would even ask him and that the man should be paying him to have sex with him. 

Quite good. I couldn’t resist a second helping of Nicholas.

How was he? 

Don't forget our fries and waffles! 

I can't remember what his current rate is but I've met him before his rates went up so I get a special one.
He's an AWESOME bottom, really takes it well and his ass is devine. He's more top though so not sure if he's taking bottom only requests. Contact him on WhatsApp, he'll get back to you.

Another red flag is last minute plan changes. Any time an escort has asked me (quite last minute) to push back the start time (sometimes even by an hour!) or, more recently, told me he'd be hosting at a completely different address at the other side of the city than the one initially confirmed, it's never been a good session. 
The last time this happened I just canceled the session, even though I did not have other plans and would have been able to accommodate the difference. But my mood had been so soured that I wouldn't have been able to enjoy it anyway. To top it off the provider got annoyed with me for not agreeing to the (very last minute) change in plans without even apologizing to me. 

Just a compliment to the guys posting here. We make ourselves vulnerable in these situations as client or provider. I’m surprised to find myself touched by what I see as the deeply spiritual perspectives, particularly of the providers here like the post(s) quoted above. It seems like much of this is about the very human unrequited longing as the sexual desire it’s connected to. In culture(s) constantly messaging that any standard of physical beauty outside of an incredibly narrow definition is not  desirable. This was not the forum where I maybe expected to hear this kind of enlightened point of view, but I guess that’s because I never really thought about it in these clear and specific terms. Sorry to ramble. But I guess I just wanted to say kudos and thanks.

The only thing that (mildly) bothers me is the no international numbers caveat... Like why not just use WhatsApp?? The obsession with only texting in North America baffles me.

Who cares if this guy comes 3 times back to back? If I’m paying 1K I better come 3 times back to back!  

Here is my current fave in Barcelona, Junior:
Juniorcarioca - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Barcelona, Spain | RentMen
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I can heartily recommend Mateo:
https://rent.men/Mateo_Wolfxxl
He's very well hung, uncut, hairy chested and muscular (as for tall, it depends on what your reference is. He's 6'). Speaks English fluently and is a very good guy. I've seen him about 4 times now and I've been very satisfied every time. 
Keep us updated! I'd love to know who you end up hiring and what your experience is. 
 

So the provider I referenced in my review is a Brazilian whose account is presently expired.  His boyfriend is also Brazilian and well-reviewed (if you trust those reviews, and I wouldn’t).  Both are very muscular and handsome but buyer beware.  Instead, I visit Junior every time I’m in Barcelona.  He get better and better, and he is trustworthy and friendly.  Although his English is rudimentary, sign language works just as well ;0.  I also can now recommend Ryan.  I’ve drooled over his pics and I’m pleased to report that he is even better in person.  He is built everywhere and loves to be worshiped.  He is friendly, respectful and does have some limits but they didn’t prevent my very thorough session.
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RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Barcelona, Spain - Ryan_alpha: Dominant top - Hard FuckerXXL  

Thanks for all the feedback, guys. I did my homework and he has a lot of good reviews on Rent.men that seem solid (the reviewers have profiles and have interviewed many other escorts). None of them mention a discrepancy in his appearance. Even though the pictures are old, I'm guessing he's in the same shape. I'm seeing him tonight so I'll let you know how it goes. 😬

I'm not the original poster, but I had good experiences with these 2:
 
Mateo_Wolfxxl on Rent.Men
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ALEXIS_SPANISH on Rent.Men
RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men  

I'm not the original poster, but I had good experiences with these 2:
 
Mateo_Wolfxxl on Rent.Men
RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men  
ALEXIS_SPANISH on Rent.Men
RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men  

I'm not the original poster, but I had good experiences with these 2:
 
Mateo_Wolfxxl on Rent.Men
RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men  
ALEXIS_SPANISH on Rent.Men
RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men  

I'm not the original poster, but I had good experiences with these 2:
 
Mateo_Wolfxxl on Rent.Men
RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men  
ALEXIS_SPANISH on Rent.Men
RENT.MEN View my profile on Rent.Men  

This has been my experience mostly too. Great first session and every subsequent session the quality declines in some way.