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    Wolfer got a reaction from BoyGeorgeandMarilyn in Belgium   
    If you are in Brussels (or near it), I can recommend Soleil_XL. I had a couple of sessions with him. He gives a great erotic massage and the sex is also really enjoyable! 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Xtuf1865 in Why Do Prospective Clients Do This?   
    This has definitely been my experience. I've been in this hobby for nearly 11 years now... My overwhelming experience has been that providers don't seem to remember or know what they themselves put on their profile. I once was texting a provider to book him as for sex that included anal (he listed himself versatile for anal on his professional profile), in reply he told me he doesn't offer anal sex of any kind as part of his services. If I hadn't (double) checked and booked on the assumption his profile information was correct, it would have been quite a disappointing session. This has happened a number of times.
    So the reason I ask things that are already on a provider's profile is because I've had enough experiences where there was either conflicting info or what is mentioned in the profile ended up not being accurate after talking to the provider or being in the room with him.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from JB_Studio38 in Why Do Prospective Clients Do This?   
    This has definitely been my experience. I've been in this hobby for nearly 11 years now... My overwhelming experience has been that providers don't seem to remember or know what they themselves put on their profile. I once was texting a provider to book him as for sex that included anal (he listed himself versatile for anal on his professional profile), in reply he told me he doesn't offer anal sex of any kind as part of his services. If I hadn't (double) checked and booked on the assumption his profile information was correct, it would have been quite a disappointing session. This has happened a number of times.
    So the reason I ask things that are already on a provider's profile is because I've had enough experiences where there was either conflicting info or what is mentioned in the profile ended up not being accurate after talking to the provider or being in the room with him.
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    Wolfer reacted to CHIberia in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    Still 50E and he let me drop my load in his ass. He has a friend named Francisco from Argentina, more of a pocket twink, But just as eager and energetic. Charged double for bareback though.
     
    Stayed at the B Hotel. Right next to the train station and mall with fast food and a grocery store. Maybe a 5 minute walk to the sauna at most, and rooms are inexpensive and huge by European standards.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from CHIberia in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    David is amazing, I can add my recommendation for him also. He's hot, cute, friendly and eager to please.
    How much did you pay for the sessions? 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from sydneyboy in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    David is amazing, I can add my recommendation for him also. He's hot, cute, friendly and eager to please.
    How much did you pay for the sessions? 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + JamesB in Why Do Prospective Clients Do This?   
    This has definitely been my experience. I've been in this hobby for nearly 11 years now... My overwhelming experience has been that providers don't seem to remember or know what they themselves put on their profile. I once was texting a provider to book him as for sex that included anal (he listed himself versatile for anal on his professional profile), in reply he told me he doesn't offer anal sex of any kind as part of his services. If I hadn't (double) checked and booked on the assumption his profile information was correct, it would have been quite a disappointing session. This has happened a number of times.
    So the reason I ask things that are already on a provider's profile is because I've had enough experiences where there was either conflicting info or what is mentioned in the profile ended up not being accurate after talking to the provider or being in the room with him.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Ichabod in Why Do Prospective Clients Do This?   
    This has definitely been my experience. I've been in this hobby for nearly 11 years now... My overwhelming experience has been that providers don't seem to remember or know what they themselves put on their profile. I once was texting a provider to book him as for sex that included anal (he listed himself versatile for anal on his professional profile), in reply he told me he doesn't offer anal sex of any kind as part of his services. If I hadn't (double) checked and booked on the assumption his profile information was correct, it would have been quite a disappointing session. This has happened a number of times.
    So the reason I ask things that are already on a provider's profile is because I've had enough experiences where there was either conflicting info or what is mentioned in the profile ended up not being accurate after talking to the provider or being in the room with him.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from DMonDude in Why Do Prospective Clients Do This?   
    This has definitely been my experience. I've been in this hobby for nearly 11 years now... My overwhelming experience has been that providers don't seem to remember or know what they themselves put on their profile. I once was texting a provider to book him as for sex that included anal (he listed himself versatile for anal on his professional profile), in reply he told me he doesn't offer anal sex of any kind as part of his services. If I hadn't (double) checked and booked on the assumption his profile information was correct, it would have been quite a disappointing session. This has happened a number of times.
    So the reason I ask things that are already on a provider's profile is because I've had enough experiences where there was either conflicting info or what is mentioned in the profile ended up not being accurate after talking to the provider or being in the room with him.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from polysome in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    David is amazing, I can add my recommendation for him also. He's hot, cute, friendly and eager to please.
    How much did you pay for the sessions? 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + tassojunior in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    A bit sad to hear that prices are (finally) slowly starting to creep upwards. On one hand I understand it. When I first visited Barcelona and Thermas in 2018, the city hadn't yet been overrun by expats willing to pay exorbitant prices for housing and the general rise in cost of living. On the other hand Thermas was a great place to take chances on guys since you weren't out of that much money if it turned out to be a disappointment. I hope the 50 euro price point still stays a while.
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    Wolfer reacted to Elite_XL in Question To Providers & Clients About Companionship   
    It has been quite helpful to understand different perspectives on how people might view companionship. It definitely differs based on experience, personal needs, background, culture, and economic situation. 
    Important to clarify, just because the companionship is transactional, it does not mean that the provider doesn’t want to be there. It is still a job that requires emotional presence, sustained attention, and social performance.
    You don’t tell an employee that they are only at your company because of the money. If you do actually think that, you need to reevaluate some things.
    Key points drawn from this. Providers side:
    - Providers reject the idea that companionship should be free.
    - Any unpaid time is a personal choice, not an obligation or industry norm.
    - Protecting boundaries is a business necessity and an emotional safeguard.
    From the Clients Side:
    - Most clients accept and respect paying for that time.
    - Emotional discomfort arises not from the cost itself, but from what the cost symbolises.
    - Clients value off-the-clock moments.
    The dominant conclusion seems to be:
    Time is paid unless explicitly stated otherwise. Off-the-clock time is a gift, not a right. Clarity and communication preserves dignity on both sides.
    It is a sensitive topic as it sits at the intersection of money, desire, ego, fantasy, and emotional labor. Neither side wants to feel used, misunderstood, or devalued.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Poppie in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    To give you an idea, I've attached a picture of the sort of muscular body type that's represented the most at the sauna.

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    Wolfer got a reaction from LuckyLechon in NEW - Massage by Alex - LA   
    Your mileage may vary, meaning your experience might be different with him than others have had
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Thomas_Belgium in Belgium   
    ROMEO | Gay, Bi and Trans Dating and Chat | Dates. Friends. Love
    WWW.ROMEO.COM ROMEO (PlanetRomeo) is the best dating & social network for gay, bi and trans people on Web, iOS &... I've had a couple of sessions with him and they were very fun. He's sexy and friendly. He sends face pictures on request. 
     
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Thomas_Belgium in Belgium   
    It's fun and people are very open and welcoming. If you're into group stuff and being seen while having sex (there's no private cabins, only big playrooms), I can suggest going there. It can be loads of fun. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from Thomas_Belgium in Belgium   
    Have you been since it reopened? Or before? Because I think they're under new management now.
    I have been many times to sauna Macho and have never encountered an escort there. Well, small correction, I did meet a guy there who turned out later to be an escort, but he was there in his free time and wasn't charging money.
    But I've certainly never seen nor heard of any guys solliciting. Sauna Macho's main clientele skews a bit younger and in shape, I don't think they are going to pay for sex there. 
    Oasis Sauna in Brussels attracts older clientele, but then again also young guys into older men go there. 
    Have you ever hired an escort at sauna Macho? 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + Just Chuck in Giving handjobs as a client   
    I absolutely love, love, love to jerk off the provider while he jerks me off while we're facing each other and looking at each other. I find it so incredibly hot. I often will also put my legs over his so our dicks are close together. Getting each other to the tipping point like that is so hot to me. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from moonlight in Giving handjobs as a client   
    I absolutely love, love, love to jerk off the provider while he jerks me off while we're facing each other and looking at each other. I find it so incredibly hot. I often will also put my legs over his so our dicks are close together. Getting each other to the tipping point like that is so hot to me. 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from + glennnnn in How to bring up more with your masseur.   
    Because I desire both an excellent quality massage and sex in the same session. Most escorts I've been with that offered massage were often just a rubdown.
    I broach the subject in my first contact with a masseur. Masseurs I've had contact with have been open (and willing) to discuss these things upfront (but then sexwork is completely legal where I work). 
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    Wolfer got a reaction from MRK in Sniffies cruising website   
    Seeking arrangement, I assume. A website for sugardaddies to connect with sugarbabies
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    Wolfer got a reaction from DMonDude in Sniffies cruising website   
    Seeking arrangement, I assume. A website for sugardaddies to connect with sugarbabies
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    Wolfer reacted to BSR in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    Why on earth do gay men waste their hard-earned money at Disney when they could go to Thermas instead??
    When you’re looking forward something a little too much, it inevitably disappoints because your expectations are simply too high.  But Thermas actually lived up to its billing even though I had been dreaming of going for years and popping out of my cleats about this trip for weeks.
    First, Juan from Colombia.  He wasn’t really my type, but I was jumping the gun to get started with somebody.  Still had fun though.  Then Matteo from Brazil:  excellent Spanish, good kisser.  #3 was Felipe, also Brazilian:  good Spanish but his accent was so thick that I struggled to understand him.  Even more fun than Matteo.  I was about to go with Cayo (no clue how he spells it), also Brazilian, struggles with Spanish and I didn’t think to ask in English.  He’s a drop-dead gorgeous, buff, furry blond.  As we were walking down the stairs to find a room, good thing I asked instead of assuming because he quoted me 100€.  I apologized and begged off.  I went back to Felipe again, and the second time he was twice as passionate as the first.  Heck, he was more into it than I was.  I have plans to get together with him off-site Friday night.
    Because I am so used to walking around the house barefoot, I absentmindedly put the flip-flops they give you in my locker.  There’s a damn good reason for those flip-flops.  Yup, I slipped and landed flat on my can.  So I left Thermas with a very sore ass, but in a bad literal way, not a fun figurative way.
    All in all, a sh!t-ton of fun.  The whole experience — chatting up chaperos wearing just a towel, getting a peek at their goody package, getting a “free sample” from a guy when you ask him if he kisses — can’t be beat.  I’m going back to Barcelona at the end of November, Sun->Tue.  Yuppers, I plan to make it to Thermas all 3 afternoons.
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    Wolfer got a reaction from BSR in *Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!   
    So happy for you! Please report back (ask for names if you remember to do so 😉)! Wednesday is usually a good time to go too. Escorts will start arriving from 3:30pm onwards.
    Interestingly enough that sign has been taken down for a number of years now. I used to joke about it with the providers there. 
    Lockers are as safe as any standard lockers you'd find at any gym. Unique key for your locker and the providers are not allowed to go into the clients' locker room (they have their own). 
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