Wolfer

*walks back in after a day at work* Uh... Seafood, Peonies and racism? That got to a different topic quickly. Anyway, I cancelled, thanks for asking. I genuinely wonder: physically I am more attracted to hairy bodies with thick eyebrows and dark hair. Now since generally Latin, Arab and Indian men tend to have these features, it follows that, on the whole, I find myself more frequently attracted to men of those races. But if a Caucasian or Asian walks by with those features I will just as easily be attracted. Does this still make it racist? While I do have a physical type, I've also been attracted to guys of any race, body type and legal age. If a guy is hot, he's hot, I always say. I do believe, though, that for a lot of people there's an element of nurture (as opposed to nature) in one's preferences. I noticed this myself when I started binge watching Japanese and South-Korean live action tv series. I started noticing that I was finding Asian men to be more and more attractive.

I find incredibly handsome men a little intimidating. The guys I've hired who had model-type good looks weren't great experiences. One kept constantly checking himself out in the mirror. Another suddenly interrupted the sexy time to tell me off for touching his hair (seriously). This has happened quite a few times actually. Enough to make it a pet peeve of mine. It's like, we're having sex, of course some stuff is gonna get ruffled! And hair can be fixed after. I once had an amazing time with a guy who was, to me, dropdead gorgeous and he seemed totally unaware of it. Made him even hotter to me.

There's also an option for the escort to just unlock the private gallery without having to send the client a password. Is this not an option on the US side of the site? When you click that option, it even has a message pre-filled in for you ("I'm interested in your profile. Please unlock your private gallery for me. Thanks.") The escort gets a message in his inbox and all he has to do is click the link to unlock the gallery.

That's recently been my experience as well.

Actually I ended up cancelling, but also because of some other stuff: he wasn't using his own pictures in the ad (but he did send pictures of himself through private chat). His default session length was half an hour, with an hour being an option (this made me think he'd just want to rush through). Trying to iron out the details of our session through chat felt like pulling teeth and of course then he became curt. I wasn't feeling it anymore after all that.

In my experience the very best escort dates have been with those providers who asked nothing about my appearance. If they did ask something about me it was what I was into and what I liked to do in the bedroom. In contrast every single time an escort asked me for pictures or stats it was either an underwhelming or downright bad experience. It could be coincidence, but it's happened enough times now to raise a big red flag whenever I'm asked to send a picture. In a regular hookup I totally agree since men are visual. But when I'm hiring I'm looking specifically to not be judged based on my appearance. It defeats the purpose of hiring for me. Might as well go on Grindr and be ignored for free. But yes, not every provider probably can get into it with every type of client. If that is the case, it probably is better for the provider to ask for a picture and base his decision on that. But from my side, it's a pass from now on.

Sadly not where I live. Were you referring to the tiered provider or the one asking for a picture? Because I never contacted the former, just the latter. I ultimately ended up cancelling our appointment because I did start to feel like that vibe had not only subdued but had completely disappeared, from my side as well. I certainly hope so, though it's been popping up more frequently lately.

It's happening more and more now that either it states in the provider's profile that the client has to (yes, has to) send a face picture or that they've asked me for one after we work out the details to our meeting. I always had my doubts about this but would still send one. Lately though I've begun refusing to send it because, frankly, my recent experience where I was asked for a picture beforehand the session was really, really bad. Just today a provider asked me for a face picture when I asked to confirm the date. I told him that I don't send them and he asked why. I told him because of recent bad experiences and also the reason I hire escorts is not to be judged on my appearance. He told me: "Okay, if you absolutely don't want to." And then asked me for my age and became quite curt in his replies. The provider by the way told me that he likes to have a sense of who he can expect to show up but I got the feeling he has certain limits/preferences as to what type of client he'll engage with. Well, I did confirm for tonight. Hope I made the right choice. Send me some good vibes, y'all. Thanks! Although now I'm thinking of cancelling since it isn't sitting well with me. What do you guys think? But another profile really made me do a double take: This guy had multi-tiered pricing based on the client's age. For example: up to 20 years old he asks 40 dollars and so on (the older, the higher the price). I was a bit turned off by this...

Yes, many private picture can be accessed without asking the escort when you are a paid member. Is there a reason you'd rather not ask for access? Out of all access requests I've only been denied once and only once has an escort actually contacted me (in a very positive way) because I asked for access.

Bump. Any new info? He's available near where I live and physical wise he is completely my type.

I hired him while he was travelling in Europe, we met in Barcelona, so I've not been in Colombia myself. Otherwhise I'd have loved to help you out!

So apparently he retired just recently. His ads are no longer online.

Loving those moves! Cute and sexy at the same time.

My review of Raphael is up: http://www.daddysreviews.com/venue/europe/spain/raphael_laraujo_barcelona He's a regular at the sauna, a really great guy. This is his Rentmen ad: https://rentmen.eu/raphaelaraujo

I agree that beards have gone in and out of style but my perception is that before this recent resurgence of beards, the last few decades beards were mainly seen as unseemly and unkempt by the mainstream. When I was working in a fast food diner many years ago (before beards were a trend again) I was asked by a manager to be clean shaven at work as it was more appealing for customers. I didn't even have a full beard back then. I should say that I don't really go for the huge beards, even if they are well groomed. I like anything from stubble/five o' clock shadow to a thick, but still somewhat cropped, beard.

Yes, would live to hear of someone's experiences with him!

Hahaha, yes and also escorting is legal in Spain. I joked about this to one of the escorts how the clients have to give the money in the upstairs bathroom and be a little sneaky about it, while it's perfectly okay to do so in Spain. Did you have fun, by the way? Any guys that were memorable?

Oh yeah, the beard has been making a comeback for several years now what with the hipsters and the lumbersexual with their woollen shirts. Beards have definitley gone mainstream (much like tattoo's) the past decade. I love, love, love beards.

Anyone had a date with him?

These reports are so contradictory! He's swinging over to my neck of the woods and his body and face drive me wild so that's why I wanted to check. Anybody have any recent experience? The "not that into it" and "working to get the client off" and saying he's got other clients after are major, major turn offs.

#notallmen, I had to Google that one. Oh no, you're absolutely right, that's why I referenced my personal experience with one of the barricade jumping vegans and how uncomfortable it makes me feel. I've unfollowed a very good vegan friend of mine on Facebook 'cause he would keep posting things about animal abuse. BUT I don't judge them for doing that, it works for them (and hopefully makes them happy and gives them purpose) but for me it doesn't work, so I decide to stay out of that discussion.

Do you know of experiences with him as an escort, also? My experiences with porn performers is that there can be a world of difference between how they are on set/in a video as opposed to being with a client. Also Dominic is sooo hot. Good to hear he's a nice guy!

Yup, I have an Excel file where I list them by name, phone number and date that I last had sex with them.

Yes! Same for me. Although the transition for me was rather easy as I'd already stopped eating eggs and drinking milk (I'd already been vegetarian for close to 20 years). Cheese was hard, at first, but now I make my own cashew cheese (mmm-mmm). Oh please, not all of us are standing on the barricades. I once was invited to a vegan dinner party and I met one of the most annoying vegans ever. He couldn't talk about anything else but animal rights. Which can be an interesting topic, but not for the whole night and certainly not when he got super douchebag towards me when I mentioned that vegan for me was not (primarily) for the moral issue. I tend to stay away from vegan gatherings because the amount of aggression and judgement towards meat eaters hurts and scares me. I don't feel like that is a very effective way of spreading the merits of veganism. I only mention I'm vegan when I'm asked or when it's a practical necessity (when being invited for lunch or dinner, for instance).

Mutual touching.