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20 hours ago, cromagnonmale said:
cost 8k to 12k
At those rates you may be cheaper off getting a massage course in Thailand. I've heard very good things about them. Is the high cost because of the certification? Or is it just USA prices? Where I live in Europe you can get a full course (12 lessons) for about 900 dollars. Masseurs don't need certification or a license though where I live.
When I look for erotic massages, I take any claims of training in the profile with a grain of salt. Having said that, I do think being actually trained and good at massage will make it more likely to get repeat business.
When I book an erotic massage, I really do also want to get a good massage. I usually don't go back to someone who gives me a bad massage, even if the erotic elements were fun. So I think it's good to at least get SOME training. A lot can be learned by just doing a one day workshop or a weekend training. I'm sure there are options like that that don't cost 8k or upwards.
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Has anyone seen him?
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3 hours ago, JckBNimble said:
The few I've been to in NYC have never felt quite sexy. To me they feel very much like you're getting on a sterile hospital table with awful overhead lighting and then YMMV depending on the provider. But I always prefer getting a scrub before a massage, especially if I've been working all day and want to be as squeaky clean as possible before hands start exploring. In other countries however I've encountered a very different table shower experience which really set the mood.
Which other countries have you had table showers in?
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On 1/13/2024 at 12:27 PM, SouthOfTheBorder said:
I see all the comments here about coed parties at Thermas - yet, I’ve never experienced it not being open due to these events….and I go there a lot. No way this happens with any frequency.
No mention of it on their website - just says open 24/7
Yeah it's strange. Today (Monday) I arrived there at 3pm. I saw that the opening hours listed at the entrance say 24h only for a few days. On Monday it said they opened at 3pm. The receptionist also said they were just opening and that they had been closed for the party. So there's definitely parties happening, but I also can't find any advertising for them.
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Does tall Rodrigo still work there?
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Not all clients hire simply because they're horny and need to unload. The first holidays after my divorce, I enquired with a regular (at the time) if we could have a session around Christmas. I felt lonely and did not want to be with the little family I had because it would remind me of the divorce.
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I hired Wagner Vittoria when I was in Rome for a few days years ago. Google him, he's very cute. The experience was a very mixed bag. Very friendly but worked me out the door in about 30 minutes, was glued to his phone texting when we weren't actively engaged in sex.
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Did you find anyone for a good experience? I might be going to Dublin myself soon
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14 minutes ago, ZMontoff said:
Met with him again this weekend. It was even better the second time around! This guy is sooooo comfortable to be with and so into kissing and cuddling, it makes you want to stay. If you are looking for someone regular, this is someone I would highly recommend.
What's his rate?
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A provider gave me a free overnight.
Let me give the context. I was on vacation for the weekend and hired him on Friday. The session was so incredible I hired him again for 1 hour sessions on both Saturday and Sunday. He's not a clock watcher and stayed well past the hour (I tipped him 50% of his hour rate, even though where I hire, tipping is not customary).
After he'd left my hotel on Sunday, we both realized he'd left something in my room. So he comes back and I invite him to dinner. Throughout the dinner sparks are flying and as the dinner ends he has this hopeful, expectant look in his eye. But at that point my hiring budget for my vacation had been spent. I do invite him back to my hotel, but neither of us broach the subject of payment. And it was never talked about. He left in the morning (I had to catch my flight) without mentioning it. There seemed to be no indication from him that he was expecting payment or was disappointed I didn't offer when he left.
We've texted since and he appears eager to see me again (so I assume there's no bad blood from his side?).
My head was reeling the whole weekend because we connected deeply (not just sexually, we also talked for hours) and I've never been in this situation before where a provider was SO generous with his time, so I was unsure and insecure on how to handle it. And now, a day later, I feel bad. I feel like I took advantage of him (even though it wasn't intentionally).
Should I still mention it? I'm afraid that ultimately there might be resentment built up from his side.
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On 11/6/2023 at 4:31 AM, BenjaminNicholas said:
You take the classy approach and you say 'thanks for your reply and have a great day/night'
Don't ever be the guy who pivots to the haggle or complaining/rate shaming.
Just move on.
I've learned it's best to include the statement they're out of my budget (without opening up any discussion about fee reduction). I've noticed if I just said thank you and moved on, some would be upset and keep pushing why I wasn't hiring them. I would then say they're out of my budget. Now I simply thank them for the info, mention they're outside my budget and wish them a good day/evening and then move on
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On 11/2/2023 at 3:44 AM, Shin Chow said:
Thanks good to know! It was $40 tip, $60 massage - sorry for not clarifying. I'll keep the 100% standard in mind if its more than therapeutic, I don't go often as my salary isn't very high, but I like to enjoy massages every now and then.
100% tip is for absolutely exceptional level of service, not just "more than therapeutic". We all know why we go to these gay spas (and they know why we go them), if there wouldn't be an "extra service", it'd be odd.
I agree with the above poster that 40 dollars is a good tip. I only tipped 100% one time and the masseur was so taken aback that I think it doesn't happen often. But then his service has been exceptional.
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On 10/17/2023 at 4:13 AM, DMICS said:
You have to be a premium member to now see the private gallery too? (not just premium gallery)
Yup, Rentmen changed it
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10 hours ago, edinbrooklyn said:
Sadly, for me, a cold fish. I think he thought I was a cop!
The massage wasn't good or was he distracted?
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19 hours ago, RubMyThighs said:
Does he offer any extras or is he strictly therapeutic?
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I can't help you with your questions, I'm sorry. But I did want to say you have very good taste in men!
As for answers to your questions, I'm curious to know too.
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46 minutes ago, Archangel said:
Happy to report that I was able to secure a booking because of this thread. I decided to trust my gut and go with someone other than Mr. Drama.
Thanks!
Who did you end up booking?
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On 7/25/2023 at 4:31 AM, FLJock said:
He was a little heavier than his pics. Massage was deep tissue and enjoyable, but I remember him being very sweaty. Got sensual/erotic at the end but he got too excited, and well…
Did he try to upsell you during the massage for the erotic component, like with @Gooberman or was it included in the price? Did you ask beforehand?
I was interested until I heard he upsells. It is such a turn-off
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What's his rate?
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His pictures and ad might imply he also offers more erotic massages. Were these elements present in your massage? Was he nude? Was there mutual touching?
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2 hours ago, Archangel said:
Maybe if I get a share in the proceeds? A collab? 🤔
There was an interesting exchange I saw on Instagram recently. So I know from Onlyfans creators that models that collab together don't pay each other, because every model gets a new video (new content) for their page that they can sell, making them money that way.
An Onlyfans creator had messaged a (very sexy) man on social media, asking him to make a video with him. The man, not being an Onlyfans model himself, asked how much the creator would pay him to be part of the video (since the man didn't have an Onlyfans himself where he could sell that video to his own subs, effectively unable to monetize his performance). The creator flipped and went on a tirade on how the man should be grateful someone like him would even ask him and that the man should be paying him to have sex with him.
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Could you send me links to these courses via private message? I'm interested. Thanks!