Wolfer

Like if the provider was not, for any reason, living up to the agreements. For instance: doesn't look like his photos (older photos or outright catfish), promised to kiss but doesn't, shorts the time by half or more,... 

My most recent experience was a provider whom I'd booked for 2 hours. 15 minutes into the second hour he declared the session over. I did pay for the whole 2 hour session, but I'd be interested in hearing how you have handled these kinds of things? 

(I did point out we still had time but he just said "oh you're checking the time?" then just avoided the topic while he pushed me to the shower while he got dressed) 

2 hours ago, CHIberia said:

 charged around 100-120chf.

For how long? 30 minutes? Thanks for the update! I'm going to be in Zürich next weekend and I've been thinking of going but I feel like it's above my budget hahaha 😅 the entry price alone is double of that of saunas in other cities

10 hours ago, allyouknow said:

and he is now officially escorting - his new ad is up on rentmen. 

https://rentmen.eu/jose_ok

At first I was happy but then I saw he only tops 😔

While I am vers, his dick is not (yet) within my capabilities 

1 hour ago, Snbrd said:

If we think 20 bucks a month is gauging, and providers are getting hit worse, perhaps we should all look elsewhere. Is there anything we can do to make another site more attractive to all involved?

Calling Adam Smith.  

Hunqz is already an alternative that's widely used in mainland Europe. Prices, last time I checked, were about 25 euro per month for the providers. They also have a free option for providers, but this does lead to quite a few flakes and fakes (but even RM has those). 

On top of that Hunqz seems much friendlier: escorts can link to their social media straight from their profiles while RM blocks this, even censoring the sites in the bio text through autodetection. 

Accounts for clients can be free but you can't see the explicit pictures. But that's easily circumvented by escorts having private albums that can be unlocked for anyone. 

I'd highly suggest telling your providers about this website and hopefully more business can come from there. RM is just truning greedier every day. 

3 hours ago, ChasingGirth said:

Please share this escort page so we don’t waste time clicking on it browsing RM

He's not on RM as far as I know i saw his add on Hunqz.

2 hours ago, JoeMendoza said:

I was pretty lame @Wolfer - had a connection thru heathrow which turned out to be a bust - multiple cancellations, ended up taking the train to Belgium, and at that point was just too tired and jetlagged to even think about meeting with providers.

Aw I'm sorry to hear! I do hope you were able to enjoy some Belgian fries and waffles 😊

2 hours ago, Scott Virginian said:

way more revenue.

This is apparently only true for a small group of creators. Most creators earn anywhere between a couple of dozen dollars to a few hundred dollars a month from their Onlyfans. Not enough to forego other income streams. Though they are getting creative. 

I saw another profile of an escort who has an Onlyfans who explicitly states on his escort profile that when you "hire" him, you cannot touch him and you (the client!) will film him having sex with someone else. And the client pays the escort for this. He has many positive reviews, go figure. 

On the flip side, there seem to be guys who have Onlyfans but also genuinely enjoy escorting and still offer great service. 

But especially during ans right after the pandemic, Hunqz was flooded with young guys who all had demands on their profiles, as if it were Grindr. 

So I stumbled upon a provider who had this on his profile:

"I don’t respond to people I’m not interested in. And I respect if you do the same.

I love sporty guys with hairy legs! A lot into foot, dominance, long sessions, 3somes, taking pics or videos. Text me if you think we can match, it will be fun 

Be around my age or younger."

I kind of feel like he has a very different idea of what it means to be an escort?

What's the standard rates these days for hour-long engagements, if there are any? 

On 10/12/2022 at 11:27 AM, JoeMendoza said:

traveling to brussels at the end of the year... you guys have recommendations for:

• escorts
• masseurs
• gay spas
• bath houses

Hey, I'm wondering how your trip went and if you had any encounters with providers? I live near Brussels and love to hear about your experience! 

On 2/28/2023 at 4:40 AM, trusted099 said:

https://rent.men/thatbuddy
 

anyone?

Did you end up hiring him? I considered contacting him last time I was in Barcelona, but I didn't 

6 hours ago, IamAdamRose said:

I know that but…. Look at me why would someone want ME TO TOP 😂…. It just doesn’t make sense lol.

Then change it to say bottom and leave off the versatile. Plenty of escorts I know will put top/versatile because they are actually completely versatile but top attracts more clients. You've answered your own question, clients see versatile in your profile so they enquire. 

It is wasted time for all parties involved when the descriptors on the profile do not match the actual service offered. I really suggest changing it. 

On 12/24/2022 at 2:56 AM, Intosmoothmuscles said:

I Just left alpha men’s spa. I am a regular here and I have been following Rodrigo for years because I genuinely like his personality and massage . Today not only was he double booked for some reason but I ended up shortening my much needed 90min to about 60min because I was taken almost 30 min late. I had to leave on time and he had another client booked for an hour later anyway . I am an owner in the service business as well and I would like to let whoever is responsible for the double bookings know that this is one of the best ways to lose good and generous clients . Also as mentioned by others, the request on the door of the massage room for clients to tip generously was a little shocking . 

 

Is this the Rodrigo that used to work at Shangri-la? 

18 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

You might want to give him some time to mourn the loss of his boyfriend before asking him for a ride on the pony.

I was enquiring about past experiences. I'm not going to be in New York soon, but like to keep a list of potential interest. 

12 hours ago, nycmassageme said:

Jose also does sugaring hair removal. Been to see him before and he's very good. 

Ah thanks

I was thinking more along the lines of escorting services. 

Does he offer more services than only massage? 

18 hours ago, Karch said:

alien cats founded ancient Egypt

I thought this was common knowledge?? 

1 hour ago, Coolwave35 said:

Talked WAY too loud in the restaurant.

That's your turn-off? Some of us just have naturally loud voices okay 😂 I wouldn't mind especially if he has Justin Timberlake's looks. 

I'm fascinated you are still meeting with the guy who openly admitted he was using the promise of sex to manipulate. Are you not worried he'll be playing games in other areas too? I appreciate his candor, but that would be a no from me. Much more so than loud talking, hahaha. (sorry, as someone who has a loud voice themselves I just feel I need to defend us hahaha. We aren't always aware, we don't do it on purpose, it just happens 😂). 

Have you already been? All the gay stuff happens near the Yumbo shopping center. You can literally just walk from bar to bar to club to club any night of the week. 

Barcelona has a huge offering almost year round (except in July and August as most people will go on vacation then) either through Hunqz or Rentmen. 

There's sauna Thermas which is an escort sauna. 

In Belgium! I just read an article (in a paper in Dutch) that apparently there's a female sex worker in Flanders that has been getting a lot of buzz because she was answering questions about sex on Tiktok. She was getting a lot of questions from teenagers. 

Eventually schools started asking her to come and give workshops!! I'm actually so happy about this. Her style is incredibly unapologetic and open and honest. I think it's absolutely amazing that schools are contacting her. Just wanted to share this bit of good news. 

On 1/3/2023 at 9:23 AM, Jamie21 said:

who list a whole sequence of things they want done to them and ask if I’m ok to do x or y etc. They never boo

I have to admit I'm a client who gives a (not exhaustive) list when contacting because the amount of times I've been burned by assuming that the info on the profile is correct is more than I'd like. So I do mention my absolute "musts" for me to enjoy the session and ask to confirm whether this is something that is possible to provide. I then move as quickly as I can to booking if we're a match. But I've had quite a few providers leave me on read because I asked more than one question in my initial text. 

On 5/26/2022 at 3:23 PM, DBWEHO said:

I’m going to contact him. See what happens. He’s in LA now.

Did you end up meeting him? 

Anyone have any more experiences to share? 

Hush seems to charge quite a bit more than other Spas: 120 dollars for an hour. Shangri-la is at 78, or 90 with a scrub. Hush seems a stand-out with that pricing, almost double that of others. Any reason for this? Are their facilities squeaky clean? Anybody have any recent experiences?