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On 6/25/2023 at 4:11 AM, DBWEHO said:
Hire with confidence. Super sweet guy, who can fuck like a machine. He came like a fucking firehose, I would absolutely hire him again and again.
What's his rate? Does he kiss?
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Was he a good bottom? What's his hourly rate?
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Another red flag is last minute plan changes. Any time an escort has asked me (quite last minute) to push back the start time (sometimes even by an hour!) or, more recently, told me he'd be hosting at a completely different address at the other side of the city than the one initially confirmed, it's never been a good session.
The last time this happened I just canceled the session, even though I did not have other plans and would have been able to accommodate the difference. But my mood had been so soured that I wouldn't have been able to enjoy it anyway. To top it off the provider got annoyed with me for not agreeing to the (very last minute) change in plans without even apologizing to me.
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The only thing that (mildly) bothers me is the no international numbers caveat... Like why not just use WhatsApp?? The obsession with only texting in North America baffles me.
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On 6/17/2023 at 1:09 AM, AZN_NYC said:
If the pics are AI generated then 100% profile is scam, I am wondering how these photos passed the verification of RM? I saw some profiles with verified photos but the pics are obviously AI generated or even like a cartoon. For those who don't know, you need to take a camera selfie photo with your name hand-written on a piece of paper for them to validate!
I've been dabbling with AI imagery and have a decade plus experience with Photoshop and this would actually be surprisingly easy to fake (with the right skillset). The reason is, why would anyone? Because it might be easy but requires a lot of grunt work (it takes a few hours at the least).
My red flags is when I need to repeat questions. As in: I ask 2 or 3 questions and they only answer one of them and then go silent until I prod them with a repeat question (while I also simultaneously push the overall conversation along towards setting a date for a session).
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I had a lovely experience with this provider
ROMEO | Gay, Bi and Trans Dating and Chat | Dates. Friends. Love
WWW.ROMEO.COMROMEO (PlanetRomeo) is the best dating & social network for gay, bi and trans people on Web, iOS &...He travels around Europe periodically so he may not be in Lisbon when you're there
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Sad to see they're both tops 😕
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3 hours ago, sydneyboy said:
Better still publish on this forum so we can all benefit from your experience. I’m in Barcelona in a few weeks.
I'm not the original poster, but I had good experiences with these 2:
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On 6/4/2023 at 12:52 AM, Tedar2001 said:
My disappointment at Thermas is described in the Thermas thread. I like muscle guys and there were many available online (Rentmen, Hunqz and Telechapero). However, I was disappointed twice by guys with allegedly recent pics who turned out to be not in the shape and condition that had been advertised. Another Brazilian guy was absolutely gorgeous but demanded the money upfront and stopped all activity after 20 minutes; what a hustler. His boyfriend no doubt is the same because after I left a negative review on Huqz, he sent me a threatening message. One guy with stunning pics was simply not reliable (I communicated with them on WhatsApp). But my fave in Barcelona remains Junior Carioca. He is ripped, handsome, and focused on your needs. What a sweetheart. He saved my trip (twice!). My lesson: don’t rely on ad pics and be ready to walk out if they aren’t what they advertised or ask for money upfront. Hope this helps!
I frequently travel to Barcelona and would love to hear whom you had bad experiences with so I can avoid them. You can DM me.
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2 hours ago, marylander1940 said:
Really?
I'm surprised, specially considering they already know what you're into and you could become a regular.
I was equally surprised, yet it's happened twice. It's like they started seeing me as "easy money", mechanical performance, low energy and actively working me out the door as fast as possible.
For the topic of the thread: I will go long periods of not hiring. Usually after having a couple of negative experiences, I'll stop for a (long) while. I'm surprised that even regular clients will leave months between visits. But then the hobby can be expensive, so I understand
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On 6/7/2023 at 6:45 AM, arnie said:
Had only seen one guy twice prior and he was less than stellar on the second go round.
This has been my experience mostly too. Great first session and every subsequent session the quality declines in some way.
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On 5/10/2023 at 6:40 PM, Drew Collins said:
I've reached out via the RM message site. May take one for the team.....so to speak. 😉
Did you end up meeting with him?
2 minutes ago, Pittlookalike said:He only does outcalls from his Pasadena location. I asked him to come to me in the Los Angeles area and he said that was too far. Don’t know where he plans to do our calls from Pasadena if he thinks Los Angeles proper is too far.
His location says Paris, France though. Was he in the States earlier?
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On 6/4/2023 at 5:43 PM, rickx said:
Thermos best hours? I believe it is Monday through Friday, 1pm to 5PM. I believe Sunday wasn’t a good time? But always dead after 5PM>
Can someone please confirm the best hours?
That's odd hours. From personal experience the sauna Thermas is busiest on Saturday between 4pm and 7pm. After 7pm both clients and escorts start leaving fast. Sunday is usually calmer. Friday evening from 4pm till 7pm is okay too. I've never been during the week. But afternoons are quiet.
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2 hours ago, Jamie21 said:
I think if you asked for services and the masseur goes further (and you accept it) then there’s no obligation on you as the client to pay more. You might give a tip but shouldn’t feel that just because the masseur voluntarily offered extra that you should pay up.
If I go further than what my client initially agreed (and I’d be very careful to only do that if I’m sure he’s comfortable with it because people do sometimes want more once the massage has started) then it’s up to me. If a client specifically wants to fuck me or me fuck them as part of the session and it’s agreed beforehand then yes I’ll charge extra but that’s different to me volunteering extra after the session started.
That's exactly my point of view (even though I'm a client). Interestingly both Jamie and I are from across the pond (I'm from Europe, he is from the UK). It really does seem to be a difference in (tipping) culture.
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@Simon Suraci "When your masseur goes down on you or sits on your cock, recognize that he’s going way beyond the call of duty. He’s leaving money on the table by not discussing rates beforehand, and you can certainly take advantage of him that way. I wouldn’t expect the masseur to repeat that same level of service if you’re not tipping anything significant to thank him. Then again, it’s up to every masseur to operate his business as he sees fit." (sorry I have to quote it this way, the editor is messing up).
I disagree, this to me comes across as manipulative... As a client I have a set budget. I think many of the providers earn way more than I do, it's why I hate upsells and also why I talk upfront about all of my expectations (in detail, which is perfectly legal where I hire). I would be very upset if the masseur, on his own accord, escalated things without prior agreement and then demand extra payment afterwards (or give me worse service the second time because I didn't tip). I would actually feel taken advantage of as a client if a masseur were to do that to me. They hold the power because they know clients think with their dicks and it's very hard to say no in the heat of the moment. I also think that's one reason upsells often happen halfway into the session instead of upfront.
But I have this thought in general in life: don't do things for other people in the hopes they will give you something back. Inevitably this will lead to resentment and disappointment. Holding someone accountable for not returning a gesture or gift you yourself (I'm talking broadly here, not specifically about providers) chose to give unprompted doesn't sit well with me.
I have to put this into context that where I live there is no tipping custom whatsoever. Waiters don't get tipped, hotel staff don't get tipped etc. Though the tourist industry staff do know how to spot Americans and will suddenly start angling for tips hahaha.
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Just now, Lucas said:
No offense but that is complete non sense. Do not judge book by its cover and people who do not know/have not met
Cheers x
I have a similar experience to the other poster, though, and have found it not to be complete nonsense. I too avoid profiles that have these words in them. I've found that the more "exclusive" and "high class" the profile claims to be, the worse the service is.
I'm not saying this is the case for every single profile that uses these words, but there's enough experiences from different clients to at least take notice and be cautious around them.
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On 5/16/2023 at 9:23 PM, forrestreid said:
My next night in Thermas
Second Night - ThursdayThere was a bigger crowd of guys this time. Maybe 15 escorts and slightly more customers. Several escorts approached me, but none very aggressively. I had a chat with Juan, who was there again, and seemed anxious for repeat business. In general the feeling I got was that they rentboys were nearly all South American guys. However, I did not like to question too much if I wasn’t interested in them, as I didn’t want to be seen to be "leading them on", so to speak.I went for a dip in the little pool there ( a very pleasant feature which few mention in reviews) and saw a rather moody looking guy sitting in the seats in the corner at that level. He was a rather handsome, masculine, Eastern European looking kind of guy, so I went over and said hello. He was the only guy I took the initiative to approach in the Sauna.He turned out to be a Russian guy called Ivan. We we had a chat and we agreed to go to a room. The only free rooms were both very dark and small, so I decided to splash out €10.50 for a private room The main advantage this was that it had sheets on the bed, and you could turn the lights up a lot, all the better for appreciating Ivan's fine physique!Ivan told me he was straight, and top only. He had previously been a professional footballer. But now he was unemployed, and needed money, hence his working in Thermas. I am guessing that as a non-EU citizen, his legal employment options in Spain were limited also.We agreed to €60 for him to give me a massage and mutual masturbation.The massage was a bit hard for me - he told me he had been trained in proper sports massage, but I am more used to the light rubbing you get in Thai sexy massage place as a prelude to the "afters".He then offered to fuck me. However, I was not in the mood for that, so I just told him I wanted him to cum. He said that he wanted another €30 or €40 for that, so I decided not to bother (there is nothing as desire-killing, as a guy who starts to negotiate in the middle of a session). In fairness to him, however, we had not discussed it before we entered the room, and I know it would probably hinder his ability to do so with a later client. So I didn’t hold that against himInstead I just got him to wank me until I came.In the room, he seemed a little morose. I asked him if he was thinking of going back to Russia, and he said he was afraid to at the moment, with the possibility of conscription into Putin's war machine.When we ended our session though, he accepted his €60 with a big smile, and volunteered to give me his phone number so we could arrange a session outside Thermas. So I think he was happy with his 40 minutes work and remuneration overall.However, as I was flying out the next day, I couldn’t take him up on the offer.All in all, although it was not the most exciting sex experiences I have had, it was very pleasant and relaxing The rentboys all stayed out of the clients locker area, and it felt a very safe environment for both the rentboys and clients.Sounds like a lovely time! My experiences have been good overall too. Though very few stay the full 30 minutes in the room with me (usually about 15 to 20 minutes and that's with me actively slowing things down), so I'm happy you got 40 minutes both times!
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I can heartily recommend Mateo:
https://rent.men/Mateo_Wolfxxl
He's very well hung, uncut, hairy chested and muscular (as for tall, it depends on what your reference is. He's 6'). Speaks English fluently and is a very good guy. I've seen him about 4 times now and I've been very satisfied every time.
Keep us updated! I'd love to know who you end up hiring and what your experience is.
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3 hours ago, PastaLifestyle said:
Does anyone know any local forums like this for Germany or Europe in general?
Sadly I don't (I live in Europe myself) but if you find one, I'd love to hear about it! 😁
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7 hours ago, Akhaten said:
And it’s film he can sell on only fans.
This, at least, is untrue. Onlyfans implemented a very thorough and rigorous consent form policy to prohibit exactly this. Everyone in an Onlyfans video has to provide a copy of their ID, a photo and a signed consent form (I think even detailing which specific video they're giving consent for). The only exception to this is if the person in the video is already registered as a creator with Onlyfans with an account of their own.
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On 5/1/2023 at 1:03 AM, Maximus69 said:
- Clients who asks questions that are already answered if they read my ad
To be fair, there are a lot of providers who will check all boxes to show up in searches while not actually providing that particular service. One provider recently came to this board complaining clients were asking him to top because he had vers/bottom on his profile (and he was a self-described only bottom). I've learned to always, always, ALWAYS double check through text whatever info is given in the ad and have been surprised how often what is mentioned in the ad does not line up with what they are actually offering.
- Rand, MikeBiDude and Archangel
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On 4/29/2023 at 7:38 PM, Charlie said:
Brussels used to have a great gay bath house, but I haven't been there in a half century, so it may have changed🤔
There's currently 2 but I've only been to one. It's Sauna Macho and I quite enjoy it. They used the lockdown to do renovations.
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Barcelona - Sauna Thermas - It only got better!
in Europe
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