theplayerking

I consider myself metrosexual. Not super butch or jockey and not feminine, but no one is the least bit surprised to find out I’m gay. 
I think “fem” over the last few years has become a fetish identifier in ads or porn descriptions. It often involves being young, super skinny, wearing makeup, stockings, cross dressing, etc. Few guys would have self-identified as femme ten years ago, even if they were gayer than Christmas. Now you see guys using in their OlnyFans description, etc. Times have changed. 

I consider myself metrosexual. Not super butch or jockey and not feminine, but no one is the least bit surprised to find out I’m gay. 
I think “fem” over the last few years has become a fetish identifier in ads or porn descriptions. It often involves being young, super skinny, wearing makeup, stockings, cross dressing, etc. Few guys would have self-identified as femme ten years ago, even if they were gayer than Christmas. Now you see guys using in their OlnyFans description, etc. Times have changed. 

I find that guys that actually engage in group sex rarely use the word orgy, which is a much more dramatic word usually used by censorious guys for slut-shaming. Of course there are exceptions. It’s sometimes used for marketing private parties to make them sound more exciting. 

I consider myself metrosexual. Not super butch or jockey and not feminine, but no one is the least bit surprised to find out I’m gay. 
I think “fem” over the last few years has become a fetish identifier in ads or porn descriptions. It often involves being young, super skinny, wearing makeup, stockings, cross dressing, etc. Few guys would have self-identified as femme ten years ago, even if they were gayer than Christmas. Now you see guys using in their OlnyFans description, etc. Times have changed. 

I’ve not had much success with this scenario. The problem is most providers don’t like working with other providers. Why this is I don’t know, but it’s led to some lame experiences where some of the guys had to leave early despite my being detailed about the scenario and what to expect. 
I’ve also tried it with letting the initial provider choose his own playmates, which I assumed be fun and easy for him. Most don’t have anyone at hand and usually find some random guy online. I also find guys are much more honest about their preferences and limitations in a one-on-one, but are less so when in a group. I’m very specific about wanting versatile guys that will flip fuck with everyone. They agree initially, but then show up and say they don’t get fucked much and only want to top, etc. 
Some providers specialize in group play and will note it in their ads. I don’t bother anymore with providers that aren’t totally into the scenario but it just doesn’t work out. 

I’ve not had much success with this scenario. The problem is most providers don’t like working with other providers. Why this is I don’t know, but it’s led to some lame experiences where some of the guys had to leave early despite my being detailed about the scenario and what to expect. 
I’ve also tried it with letting the initial provider choose his own playmates, which I assumed be fun and easy for him. Most don’t have anyone at hand and usually find some random guy online. I also find guys are much more honest about their preferences and limitations in a one-on-one, but are less so when in a group. I’m very specific about wanting versatile guys that will flip fuck with everyone. They agree initially, but then show up and say they don’t get fucked much and only want to top, etc. 
Some providers specialize in group play and will note it in their ads. I don’t bother anymore with providers that aren’t totally into the scenario but it just doesn’t work out. 

I’ve not had much success with this scenario. The problem is most providers don’t like working with other providers. Why this is I don’t know, but it’s led to some lame experiences where some of the guys had to leave early despite my being detailed about the scenario and what to expect. 
I’ve also tried it with letting the initial provider choose his own playmates, which I assumed be fun and easy for him. Most don’t have anyone at hand and usually find some random guy online. I also find guys are much more honest about their preferences and limitations in a one-on-one, but are less so when in a group. I’m very specific about wanting versatile guys that will flip fuck with everyone. They agree initially, but then show up and say they don’t get fucked much and only want to top, etc. 
Some providers specialize in group play and will note it in their ads. I don’t bother anymore with providers that aren’t totally into the scenario but it just doesn’t work out. 

I consider myself metrosexual. Not super butch or jockey and not feminine, but no one is the least bit surprised to find out I’m gay. 
I think “fem” over the last few years has become a fetish identifier in ads or porn descriptions. It often involves being young, super skinny, wearing makeup, stockings, cross dressing, etc. Few guys would have self-identified as femme ten years ago, even if they were gayer than Christmas. Now you see guys using in their OlnyFans description, etc. Times have changed. 

I’ve not had much success with this scenario. The problem is most providers don’t like working with other providers. Why this is I don’t know, but it’s led to some lame experiences where some of the guys had to leave early despite my being detailed about the scenario and what to expect. 
I’ve also tried it with letting the initial provider choose his own playmates, which I assumed be fun and easy for him. Most don’t have anyone at hand and usually find some random guy online. I also find guys are much more honest about their preferences and limitations in a one-on-one, but are less so when in a group. I’m very specific about wanting versatile guys that will flip fuck with everyone. They agree initially, but then show up and say they don’t get fucked much and only want to top, etc. 
Some providers specialize in group play and will note it in their ads. I don’t bother anymore with providers that aren’t totally into the scenario but it just doesn’t work out. 

I tend to book at the last minute for the same day so I use a shotgun approach as most guys are not available on short notice. 

The trick for the Taj Mahal is to go a dawn right when it opens. It’s the coolest part of the day and there are no crowds. 

The trick for the Taj Mahal is to go a dawn right when it opens. It’s the coolest part of the day and there are no crowds. 

The trick for the Taj Mahal is to go a dawn right when it opens. It’s the coolest part of the day and there are no crowds. 

The trick for the Taj Mahal is to go a dawn right when it opens. It’s the coolest part of the day and there are no crowds. 

Absolutely, but I would say even more so from the top. For the bottom, there’s much less friction, and it feels a lot better. Then, of course, this is the psychological thrill of taking a man’s cum inside your body.

What if we take this to its logical conclusion? Say you hire a provider that is a total top. Is it reasonable to expect him to get fucked just because you’re paying? Does he have no autonomy or choice over what he does with his body?
In the end, it’s a business transaction between two willing parties. If a provider has enough demand to be able to turn down business, that’s his choice. It’s obviously annoying, and painful to ones ego, but in that situation, I would just move on.

I prefer legit massages from attractive (but not drop dead gorgeous) gay men with good technique and training. I usually look for these guys on gay sites. I don’t care about happy endings as can take care of that myself if necessary. However, the best massages feel like an embrace from a friend. It’s useful to have a gay therapist (and to out myself to him) so he can dispense with the draping and not feel he has to avoid passing contact with sensitive areas that might make a straight man uncomfortable. Also, I’ve had some of these experiences turn into mutual and uncompensated hookups, which are far better than anything that could be arranged through an erotic provider.

I love talking about sex and hearing about other guy’s adventures, which is one of the reasons I’m on this and similar sites. However I keep that side very sequestered. I only share with guys I know have similar interests. 

I love talking about sex and hearing about other guy’s adventures, which is one of the reasons I’m on this and similar sites. However I keep that side very sequestered. I only share with guys I know have similar interests. 

I love talking about sex and hearing about other guy’s adventures, which is one of the reasons I’m on this and similar sites. However I keep that side very sequestered. I only share with guys I know have similar interests. 

I live on the UES and he was very accommodating for a last-minute appointment. Very strong hands and good technique. I didn’t ask for extras, but they were available. Nice guy in a very convenient location for me, will go back.

It’s faster to txt so it’s my preferred option, especially as so many providers take a while to respond. 

It’s faster to txt so it’s my preferred option, especially as so many providers take a while to respond. 

I’ve never hired a female provider, but most male providers don’t ask for any information. I’ve never had one ask. I suspect it’s because women are inherently more vulnerable in this situation. 

I went out on a limb and visited on Sunday morning and had a truly wonderful 60 min massage with Matt. The space is beautiful, In an unsuspecting office building but the entire 7th floor is clearly individual beauty/wellness spaces and very luxurious. The room itself is very calming with aromatherapy and a very nice heated bed. Truly spa level compared to the Mens spas we are used to.
The bodywork was quite good also. Very relaxing long strokes with good medium pressure. It took about 10 minutes but we really calibrated to each other nicely and he provided the perfect experience. I left very relaxed and very satisfied. I will be back. I wanted to gatekeep so I didn’t report right away, but I want them to do well and stay open so go and do the thing boys! 
 
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