theplayerking

I prefer legit massages from attractive (but not drop dead gorgeous) gay men with good technique and training. I usually look for these guys on gay sites. I don’t care about happy endings as can take care of that myself if necessary. However, the best massages feel like an embrace from a friend. It’s useful to have a gay therapist (and to out myself to him) so he can dispense with the draping and not feel he has to avoid passing contact with sensitive areas that might make a straight man uncomfortable. Also, I’ve had some of these experiences turn into mutual and uncompensated hookups, which are far better than anything that could be arranged through an erotic provider.

I love talking about sex and hearing about other guy’s adventures, which is one of the reasons I’m on this and similar sites. However I keep that side very sequestered. I only share with guys I know have similar interests. 

I love talking about sex and hearing about other guy’s adventures, which is one of the reasons I’m on this and similar sites. However I keep that side very sequestered. I only share with guys I know have similar interests. 

I love talking about sex and hearing about other guy’s adventures, which is one of the reasons I’m on this and similar sites. However I keep that side very sequestered. I only share with guys I know have similar interests. 

I live on the UES and he was very accommodating for a last-minute appointment. Very strong hands and good technique. I didn’t ask for extras, but they were available. Nice guy in a very convenient location for me, will go back.

It’s faster to txt so it’s my preferred option, especially as so many providers take a while to respond. 

It’s faster to txt so it’s my preferred option, especially as so many providers take a while to respond. 

I’ve never hired a female provider, but most male providers don’t ask for any information. I’ve never had one ask. I suspect it’s because women are inherently more vulnerable in this situation. 

I went out on a limb and visited on Sunday morning and had a truly wonderful 60 min massage with Matt. The space is beautiful, In an unsuspecting office building but the entire 7th floor is clearly individual beauty/wellness spaces and very luxurious. The room itself is very calming with aromatherapy and a very nice heated bed. Truly spa level compared to the Mens spas we are used to.
The bodywork was quite good also. Very relaxing long strokes with good medium pressure. It took about 10 minutes but we really calibrated to each other nicely and he provided the perfect experience. I left very relaxed and very satisfied. I will be back. I wanted to gatekeep so I didn’t report right away, but I want them to do well and stay open so go and do the thing boys! 
 
feel free to DM for more details, but please give the respect to respond after I do!!

Many providers avoid cumming unless you specifically request it ahead of time. Even then, when he say that it’s difficult for them to cum in the moment. If cum play is really important to you, you need to let him know and make sure he’s prepared. Maybe schedule the last appointment of the day.

Many providers avoid cumming unless you specifically request it ahead of time. Even then, when he say that it’s difficult for them to cum in the moment. If cum play is really important to you, you need to let him know and make sure he’s prepared. Maybe schedule the last appointment of the day.

I love sous vide cooking. I can make dinner for 60 in my small Manhattan kitchen using sous vide, one oven and sometimes a multi cooker.  

I love sous vide cooking. I can make dinner for 60 in my small Manhattan kitchen using sous vide, one oven and sometimes a multi cooker.  

I love sous vide cooking. I can make dinner for 60 in my small Manhattan kitchen using sous vide, one oven and sometimes a multi cooker.  

I love sous vide cooking. I can make dinner for 60 in my small Manhattan kitchen using sous vide, one oven and sometimes a multi cooker.  

“Nobody knows anybody. Not that well.” 
Miller’s Crossing

“Nobody knows anybody. Not that well.” 
Miller’s Crossing

I was just in Rome and London for work and am going back in June. The Americans that vacation in Europe tend to be affluent and liberal. Europeans know this and don’t hold U.S. tourists responsible for the current geopolitical situation. 

I was just in Rome and London for work and am going back in June. The Americans that vacation in Europe tend to be affluent and liberal. Europeans know this and don’t hold U.S. tourists responsible for the current geopolitical situation. 

Agreed that you have to find the right provider, although there are some that advertise that they specialize is parties and groups. 

I’ve never hired a female provider, but most male providers don’t ask for any information. I’ve never had one ask. I suspect it’s because women are inherently more vulnerable in this situation. 

I’ve never hired a female provider, but most male providers don’t ask for any information. I’ve never had one ask. I suspect it’s because women are inherently more vulnerable in this situation. 

I’ve never hired a female provider, but most male providers don’t ask for any information. I’ve never had one ask. I suspect it’s because women are inherently more vulnerable in this situation. 

Lots of providers, even in New York and London, don’t respond. It’s just the nature of the business. 

I’ve never hired a female provider, but most male providers don’t ask for any information. I’ve never had one ask. I suspect it’s because women are inherently more vulnerable in this situation.