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I must have a super Alpha stud  that bottoms.  First and foremost the guy needs to be very physically attractive to me .  Beautiful face , big eyes, chiseled chin.  Then he needs to have big muscles , lean , and nicely proportioned.  And he needs to bottom.
One thing that doesn’t matter at all is cock size.  A masculine  stud with a small dick is an odd  turn on for me , but a big dick is impressive, either way it’s all good!
I rely on word-of-mouth or reviews that the guy is decent and reliable.  
Hiring is a very physical thing for me.  I get my friendship elsewhere.  I have had friends in life that have been truly wonderful to me, I couldn’t possibly get that from a physical transaction.  But a decent conversationalist and an engaged personality is a big plus

Thanks everyone for the input.  I’ll ask my buddy if there’s anything in particular he’d like to do, and make a list of suggestions.  Top of my list would be Hudson yards (Beehive, Observations deck, walking trails)…something active and engaging that would still allow for conversation.  One thing I nixed is Adonis club , I’d  enjoy that more by myself, without worrying that somebody would try to steal away my escort, lol!
Phileas,
Your iceland trip sounds amazing.  Sometimes I wonder how we got to a place where we’re able to do what we truly most want..  Thinking of oneself as a good host is a great framework, thanks for that.
Big n Tall,
Perhaps I need be better at discretion, lol.
Jeez,
Yes , my buddy wanted to get away from his East Coast hometown, he’s a dad with toddlers and seemed to want a break from his regular life.   I’m West Coast so I thought of NYC.  Thanks for the encouragement.
Kensington,
Central Park sounds great, I did that with my last NYC escort trip we had a very nice time.

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There are endless opportunities for conversation in my experience.  It is funny though.  Yesterday, my guest and I went snorkeling between the tectonic plates in 35° temps.  He indulged me in that side trip with apprehension.  He LOVED it!  As an accommodation to him embracing the plan, I made sure we were covering every thermal lagoon we could fit in.  We also did a 6 mile hike to get inside a volcano.  My 60+ yr old a$$ was the oldest in the group and nothing slowed us down.  We talked the whole time and enjoyed interacting with the other hikers.
If you view this arrangement as travel companionship with side benefits, it usually makes the side benefits more gratifying for each of you. 

Usually an escort's retirement is announced via formal, engraved notices. A sophisticated script font - often Florentea or Modernline - is de riguer in the case of a long-time provider. Most times the retirement is accompanied by a dinner at the local Applebee's. The dinner is by invitation-only. Guests are limited to fellow providers, gold star clients, and family members. It is closed to the general public, i.e. no gawkers, groupies, or dinner crashers.
The typical retirement gift for the Guest of Honor is a gold watch. Sometimes a gag gift will accompany the watch, such as a leather belt with a notch in it for every client who made a substantial donation to the escort's kids' education fund.
Hope this helps...
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So after years of admiration, I befriended my most favorite porn star ever, and am in process of setting up a weekend in NYC with him.  . Suggestions on how to spend the time between the sex?   Looking to do just fun stuff that might be more low-key casual, interactive and can get to know him a bit better.  Thanks in advance for any suggestions
Not going to name him because he has a family now and has been away from porn for years. He does more mundane stuff now like changing light bulbs lol.   But he’s mid-thirties now, in fantastic shape and the maturity looks great on him.

 

Thanks everyone for the input.  I’ll ask my buddy if there’s anything in particular he’d like to do, and make a list of suggestions.  Top of my list would be Hudson yards (Beehive, Observations deck, walking trails)…something active and engaging that would still allow for conversation.  One thing I nixed is Adonis club , I’d  enjoy that more by myself, without worrying that somebody would try to steal away my escort, lol!
Phileas,
Your iceland trip sounds amazing.  Sometimes I wonder how we got to a place where we’re able to do what we truly most want..  Thinking of oneself as a good host is a great framework, thanks for that.
Big n Tall,
Perhaps I need be better at discretion, lol.
Jeez,
Yes , my buddy wanted to get away from his East Coast hometown, he’s a dad with toddlers and seemed to want a break from his regular life.   I’m West Coast so I thought of NYC.  Thanks for the encouragement.
Kensington,
Central Park sounds great, I did that with my last NYC escort trip we had a very nice time.

I’ll add that I’m currently ona  week long trip with an RM that many know well (but he prefers to maintain low profile - hence nameless) We are in Iceland.  We planned the trip together over the last six weeks.  We blended our short list, I gave it to an Icelandic Gay Travel Agency and they made nearly all of it happen. 

I encourage you to act as though you’re his host giving him opportunity to short list some things that he’d like to do and involve him in the dinner reservation choices. 

I gather that the city is home for neither of you - you're on equal footing as visitors. Ask him for input - he's likely been there before - have you? Attending theatre reduces time for convo, but inspires it after. Do things you would do with any good friend.
Flea markets? Park/museum stuff? Does your agreement allow for him to have some alone/other client time? In NY simply walking down a street can inspire a mutual interest, so you'll surely figure out something fun! 
 

It's NYC! What do you want to do? Do you know his interests? 
You could see a show. You could explore cool restaurants. The weather is nice so you could head to Central Park or Union Square park.  

So after years of admiration, I befriended my most favorite porn star ever, and am in process of setting up a weekend in NYC with him.  . Suggestions on how to spend the time between the sex?   Looking to do just fun stuff that might be more low-key casual, interactive and can get to know him a bit better.  Thanks in advance for any suggestions
Not going to name him because he has a family now and has been away from porn for years. He does more mundane stuff now like changing light bulbs lol.   But he’s mid-thirties now, in fantastic shape and the maturity looks great on him.

 

Live below your means and save/invest.  

Fine then, wise-ass, indentured servant. 
You know this is not a standard business, that this is not the same as hanging Sheet-rock, right?  That the person your gagging with your cock is an actual person and the intimacy that the job entails makes both of you, not just you, vulnerable and insecure, right?  Be kind.  Be gentle in how you talk about us.
After all, how would you feel if your son were an escort and people talked about him in the same, entitled, you-will-do-what-I demand tone you seem to prefer because it's "a job"?

I met MaxME a little over a week ago in Los Angeles.  This is how it went:  I contacted him via text and he was pretty responsive.  I was upfront about what I was looking for and he was cool with it.  I asked him a few times how much he charges for his time and he always seemed to dodge the question.  Finally the day came for us to meet at an agreed upon time.  I texted that morning to confirm and he said he had other plans at the prescribed time and could I shift the time?  I explained that I was unable to do so, so he then agreed to the original time.  He then asked me if I knew the fee for his time (I felt like saying, "No because every time I ask you don't tell me," but I let it slide.  He quoted me a price of $1000.  I promptly told him that that was more than I was looking to spend.  He asked how much I was prepared to spend and I told him as much as $500.  He promptly agreed to it and then asked if I would add $60 for his travel cost.  Stupidly, I agreed.  He arrived right on time and I will say unequivocally that he is breathtaking.  Very tall, really handsome, and a flawless, muscled physique.  The experience itself sucked.  He was quite robotic and detached.  I actually had to imagine I was with someone else to get myself off.  It was awful.  He has a ton of great reviews on RM and a lot of positive commentary here as well so I am willing to accept that maybe I was the problem (although I'm not bad to look at and I know my way around a bedroom)... but it was definitely not a good experience... markedly worse that any I've had.  Fortunately, I rebounded and met up with a Colombian guy who goes by Salomonn on RMasseur: PHEE-nomenal experience and a great guy to hang with... and a body of death that he was all to happy to share with me.  He has a RMen  profile under the name YourFav.https://rent.men/YOURFAV

I met him recently in NYC. He hosted in his hotel room. As has been mentioned in this thread, he’s very high-end. His pics are accurate. He’s definitely very handsome and has a great body. I had an okay time with him, not great. I’ve met multiple escorts, and like most of them, he was quite “numb” throughout the session. A lot of staring into space, a lot of silence, very mechanical and businesslike. It felt like a transaction, not like an actual hookup. But again, I’ve felt that way with most guys I’ve met. Honestly, I don’t think I’ll see him again for those reasons. But I also wouldn’t say he wasn’t worth it.

I hired Shane Jamison about a year or so ago - incall at his place. His photos are very out of date. He’s in his 60s. I went through with it because I drove a long way (and was horny). It didn’t get better. He zoned out - possibly fell asleep. It was bad. I regret my lapses in good judgement. 

FWIW: He may have frozen his NYC ad while he travels.  Of course, the easiest way to tell if it's really him is to ask for a FaceTime session that shows the tattoo covering most of his back.

Those same pics had been used while I was in college. Now I can retire if I wanted to. Even his pics probably qualify for a pension.

Great looking bf material.

Saw scott and he is even better than he was about 8 years ago when he had a ad on Rm in San Diego area . I used to see him regularly before he left the biz … He performed Superbly  and the only guy I met on Rm who actually understated his eggplant size as he is one of the thickest o have ever had  all in all already planning a repeat 

Very cordial through messaging.  Rate is $250/hr.  

Any info on West Texas Stud?  Looks hot, mostly travels California cities.

Any info on West Texas Stud?  Looks hot, mostly travels California cities.

To add a little more variety, this guy from North Carolina is not the biggest but is one of the hottest I've ever encountered.   The body is slamming (6' and 235#) and, while he does not show it in his ad, he is one of the most handsome men I've ever got my hands on too.   https://rentmen.eu/BrianAustin