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I very much wanted to enjoy the Hacienda but I didn't. The furnishings and decor are fine, if a bit heavy for a desert resort. They are certainly more Ritz Carlton Atlanta than most of what the gay resorts in PS are offering. What shocked me, especially at this price, was the unprofessional attitude of the staff. I witnessed staff in-fighting, on the level of RuPaul's Drag Race, and that is never pleasant. Certain staff guys openly displayed a nose in the air snobbiness. They took themselves way too seriously, and not in a hospitable way. When I'm on vacation, I don't want to be around uptight priss-n-prance queens, no matter how hot they think they look. Some gay guys in service think that they're the ones who should be serviced. When I was there one March, we had the two pools to ourselves. I don't think this a place for any escort to drum up business. Other places like Santiago and Triangle attempt to cater to a higher-income customer. The staff spirit around those pool areas is more free, lively, and fun. We've seen well-known escorts on both properties. Some were having sex out in the open, and that certainly was good for business.

I've never used RentMasseur to contact a therapist, so the obvious answer would be to change whom you pay for ad hosting. I would never tolerate a 48 hour customer service call. At 96 hours, you're dead to me.

I'm game, but some naughty would need to be included. Great parties tend to cost a lot of money. Some people believe the more you spend, the more fun for the guests. High wedding budgets don't guarantee a good time. However, I'd much rather attend a party that cost 200G then go to a family wedding that cost $15K. At the very least, you might get better food and better looking waiters.

A gentleman professional would have had an honest conversation with you, telling you that after some thought he had a change of heart. It's too bad the escort wimped out and lacked good manners, but the fact that he did not own proper attire should have raised red flags. There are a number of guys in this business who don't take the business side of escorting very seriously. You don't want to invite these types to a wedding. He probably did you a favor by not showing. Attending a wedding as someone's paid guest is no easy job. Weddings can be a tough social call, even for immediate family members. Figuring out what to wear checks only one box. I can think of 9 more boxes to check before I would say yes to such an invite.

Apparently, you didn't read the TOS. Therefore, how can anyone bring a "class action" lawsuit if it states in the TOS that by joining you agree to the terms and conditions? If the TOS gives them permission to monitor member PMs, then any talk of lawsuits is laughable.

All some guys have to offer is their penis. It's very sad but true.

@corndog You've taken a peculiar form of entertainment and turned it into something helpful. The more scams that are exposed, the easier we can spot them when they're about to touch us. Thank you.

It's not fun discovering the beauty you once had a crush on turned out to be an ugly human being. IMO, entitlement is an erection killer. That said, as much as I might possibly enjoy a dinner conversation with Calvin, Valentino, and Elton, I sincerely doubt I could muster having sex with either man. A gay man who has had too much cosmetic work done is a turn-off for me. I just can't see beyond the mask. If I'm going to go older, I prefer all natural and less vanity.

Julia Roberts and Lyle Lovett were once married. The marriage may not have lasted long, but rumor has it they're still friends. I don't mind sharing my toothpaste. It's the sharing of toothbrushes that grosses me out.

I don't think it's ever a good thing to appear to obsess about someone's looks. Most people know that good looks don't last forever. If you want to place true value on a relationship, if you want to talk about spending lives together, good looks should not be the focus. In the end, I don't think anyone of substance places much value on being stamped a visual object. The concept seems very shallow, and that may not be the message of everlasting love you wish to send.

Just found out the M4M site is gone. https://www.complaintsboard.com/complaints/massage-m4mcom-website-c1016652.html Can't say I'm surprised. They seemed to have a work ethic that screamed "it's all about the money."

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There's nothing false about the happiness I feel when my ass is shaved clean, and then licked. For many years I did it myself, then a friend helped me, and now I go to someone who does it professionally, so to speak. My pubic hair is light brown, and I don't have a lot. But I don't like the look of it. I think my ass crack and balls look sexier with no hair, and my tongue likes the feel of naked. Some guys have great hair growth patterns in their ass crack, and certain colors/textures look better than others. If I liked what I had, then I would keep it. Since I don't, I remove it. I go for a shave about once every 3-4 months. No big deal. It's fun to have someone sexy do it for you.

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Does anyone wear a cock ring anymore?

I don't think he's got that "fake" look we often see in the fake ads, but the photos show a definite youthful sex appeal, which is a refreshing thing to see. His body is in great condition, looks hot in all angles, and he's got some sexy-sweet going on in the eyes. He looks like he could be fun, even as a tease. I would definitely give him a try.

Judy and Liza were major talents. Renee Zellweger? I'm not seeing that. I get that Zellweger may want to work, may need to work. I'm not seeing a kind future for her in film. Whenever a famous actress alters her famous face so famously, it usually means an end to her film career.

Do not enjoy visiting unsafe places, no matter how beautiful. Say what you will about crime in America, at least here I speak the language and know people who work in law enforcement. I wish we lived in a world where two men walking down a street holding hands in an expression of love is considered common and non-threatening. We don't live in that world, and I have no desire to lose my life displaying my inner activist. Why gay men do certain things in a foreign country that invite unwanted attention is beyond my comprehension. Are PDAs more valuable than a bullet in one's head? Not for me. If I want to express love for my partner, I'm happy to do so in private where I know he's safe from harm.

Your biggest commitment will be to tenacity. The unrelenting hurdle to overcome will be securing your own lease in a "convenient" area. It is very difficult, almost impossible, for a single person to secure a lease in Manhattan without a credit check, employment info, and minimum salary requirements. With every new year, as prices increase and inventory tightens, the restrictions increase. I know three families who said it was easier and less frustrating to purchase an apartment for their college kid than it was too rent. Good luck.

Restrictions only bother me when I don't know what they are. I prefer honesty to an unexpected surprise.

**GENEROUS MEN ONLY PLEASE...NO CHEAPSKATES NEED TO APPLY - THEY ANNOY ME** I've never seen an asterisk addiction before. His ad copy is particularly determined to offend. For a 5'10" guy (possibly shorter), he sure is packing meat. Some excessively hung guys think they can say anything and still get paid. What are the chances we can believe age 43? Is there any wonder why he refuses any and all requests for face photos?

Timothée Chalamet re-visited Jimmy Kimmel the other night: And Jimmy announced Timothée's new GQ cover: http://akns-images.eonline.com/eol_images/Entire_Site/2018114/rs_634x890-180214085345-634-timothee-chalamet-gq-021418.jpg?fit=inside%7C900:auto&output-quality=100

New Yorkers love Bernadette Peters, but I don't know any who were dying to see her as Dolly. I haven't seen the Peters' version, but the publicity stills make her look rather frumpy. Bette, on the other hand, was a different story. Dolly seemed a perfect fit for her.

For some, that's easier said than done.

Exactly. I can't believe the rudeness of some people. Not only are they rude, they assume wrongful details. Sheesh.