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Thank you, Arbimuscle. I've accepted the loss. I went to meetings. I have a better understanding of this insidious disease. The more people who talk about it, the better. Talking is the only way to fight back. It's an important part of treatment.

Good luck finding someone whose life hasn't been impacted by drugs in one way or another. As long as Matthew Rush isn't participating in this thread, you're left with speculation.

That is certainly unfortunate. I've endured my share of altered realities in my stupid youth, and I've lost quite a few loved ones to hard core addiction. My younger brother shot himself in the head to end his misery. In my honest, most sincere opinion, the perfect high for this gay man is a drug-free, full-on healthy, natural life. If I'm in pain, I want to feel the pain and work my way through it. This gay man can't be around drugs users and addicts anymore. If for any reason you have a desire to be in an altered state, we can't be friends.

I agree, I didn't find the 1st episode all that funny, but that could be because I saw every bit they did in a lead-up promo. Kinda killed every punch line. Will is wearing way too much make-up. The folks who do union make-up in TV land are mostly awful and have no talent.

It's very progressive to find spa workers who are willing to shave ass, cock, and balls. That service certainly was unheard of in my day.

I don't mind paying to watch a specific type of guy. I find a lot of free porn boring and monotonous as hell. The studio-staged stuff really makes my cock go flaccid. The younger guys are attracted to onlyfans. Some of the younger escorts are wannabe film makers, and I think some of them are very talented. Why not be creative and make money from the enjoyment of creating something?

hungyoungbrit and dillonandersonx have been keeping me very busy lately.

His video is in his MF ad. I think it's the 2nd photo. Really charming example of a terrific marketing tool. Every massage therapist should have one. 3 languages really did me in. I'm seduced.

I now see the 10-4 was in response to manmed, one minute later on Friday. It wasn't some esoteric rating after the meet. The day and the time of each post is not easy to notice and follow on this board, until the eyes can focus sharply. In my case, I needed to clean my computer glasses.

What on earth does 10-4 mean? Does anyone speak English anymore?

His photos are on CL all the time. I always wonder if someone like that actually follows through and succeeds in satisfying someone. I've been having a tough time on Craigslist lately. Way too many fakes. Faces are too important to my ability to get turned on, and so many of the guys with torso photos on CL will not exchange a face photo, no matter what the fee is. I always offer my private email address before asking and state clearly that I'm not a cop. Too many guys who want GEN want me to send a face photo first, and none of them offer a private email address. I refuse to send face photos on CL's servers. I must have asked 12 GEN guys in the last 2 months if they'd be willing to prove the torso photo is of their body. Not one guy agreed to send a selfie, displaying a peace sign with one hand. So far, I'm on empty with CL.

Wow, I thought the video was awful. The dark-haired guy seemed to be in serious pain while getting his cock sucked. That's what the expression on his face showed, too. You couldn't see "Bieber's" cock until the end of the video, and even then, his hand covered it almost the entire time. Really bad direction. I can't get Tumblr pages to open. I get this window that says "safe" is on. I've never visited Tumblr. I don't have an account. Is safe a default setting? It looks like you have to join to shut safe off. Does anyone know how this works? I really don't want to join if I don't have to. This thread is evidence of how difficult it is to find cute, muscular, blond guys in this business.

If you rent the house, does he come with it? I always fantasized about doing him.

Honestly, you can only be speaking for yourself. I'm too tall to fit on most beds. My body is too crippled, too. Can no longer lie on my stomach without a proper headrest. Way too painful. When I was younger, I didn't care much. Now, for a bed massage, I question when the bed sheets were last changed. I question the stale smell of the pillows. I question the dog, cat, and pubic hair flying up my nose. I question what went on in this bed just before my appointment. Many guys are just in HE massages for the money. They really don't care about the details like clean laundry. When I was younger, I didn't care about these things either. Now I care about everything concerning other people's germs affecting my health.

He caught my eye. too. Thanks for the head's up. Can't do non-table massages anymore. That's a deal breaker for me.

This should not be considered strange at all, and it should be taken seriously and respected by customers. Some buildings have very strict rules regarding business being conducted in the apartments. If a lease has a no-business addendum, a massage therapist could lose his/her apartment if he/she is found out. Nosy neighbors in buildings like these can be a serious pain in the ass. I know a fairly well-known therapist who got evicted from the building she had been in for more than 15 years. It was devastating to her and her business. It's always better to say nothing than to feign a fake conversation. If you say nothing, no one else can hear or imagine anything improper.

Isn't that stating the obvious? Out of respect, I prefer to keep my comments "general."

Except, people have lost all sight of boundaries. Narcissism rules, so people say whatever is on their mind, with total disregard to foot-in-mouth disease. People talk about behaving with "class," but they fail to realize actions speak louder than words. @AdamSmith I have nothing more to say.

I wonder if there's a way to get animated gifs banned from this board? They annoy me. Second to that, I wouldn't mind seeing an end to online therapy sessions. Free advice certainly is cheap advice.

I do the same thing. It amazes me how many men don't seem to know, or understand, or care what the word "respect" means. "Mutual touch" is a general indication that the guy is OK with you touching him. Sometimes it needs to be said because a lot of guys don't want to leave the "touch" door wide open, for a variety of reasons. How the "touch" is defined is a very personal decision. You show respect by asking about personal boundaries. A lot of guys respond nicely when you show them respect. They can become very generous when they realize you're not just a selfish taker.