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I imagine the Sean Cody business model does not want their business associated with escorting. We have to assume the names used by SC are all made up and provided by SC. There's an easy fix when branching out. If you decide to capitalize on your Sean Cody popularity, create a new, catchy escort name, treat it like the name of any successful business and stick with it for as long as you wish to sell that service. Naming a business is not rocket science. If you need to create new photos, keep your look similar to the one you had on SC. Fans will find you. Jack has a fairly strong look. His teeth when he smiles stand out. Jack has easily identifiable features, like his hairline. I guess one could argue no matter what name he chooses, fans will know who he is. Even so, multiple names can raise red flags. Not the way to run a successful business.

Another sign that the guy knows nothing about business. It really is too bad, because he seems to have an amazing talent. His performances are something to behold. And he seems like a really nice guy. I was very surprised to read one of his least favorite partners at Sean Cody was Randy. Jack said the chemistry was off, but you would never sense that by watching their work together. Randy was shorter, but on camera, they seemed to really enjoy each other. Then I saw the video Jack did with Blake, who was one of his favorites. OMG. There is no way Jack is straight after watching him enjoy sex with Blake. No way. If I had the money, I wouldn't mind purchasing time with Jack.

I don't think this is true anymore. Lots of straight guys have discovered the pleasure of massaging the prostate, and they made the discovery with the help of their women. Social media and Tumblr has had a huge impact on sexual exploration. Lots of women are licking man ass these days. I have a longtime straight friend. He's a handsome, fit college professor. He adores pussy and consumes a lot of it. He dated an Asian woman once and she taught him the pleasure of butt play. He loved it so much, he lets women fuck him with a strap-on. I suspect my friend is not alone in this discovery.

Jack is a fascinating performer with an interesting story. When he says he's "straight," I don't fully believe him. His dick stays hard when he's sucking cock and eating man ass. If your cock looks as though it's enjoying those activities, then you're most likely bisexual. Too bad he can't get his finances together and learn how to be a good businessman. IMO, there's no greater turn off than a fan-favorite porn star begging for money. I don't want to name names, but I once contacted a famous, younger porn star from the Midwest, and he requested a loan before our actual meet date. Needless to say, I cancelled that first time meet.

lol. I did mention there were those. I'm the opposite. I need to book at least a week in advance.

That's exactly right. Asking (forcing) the customer to work harder for his appointment can produce negative results. I understand why popular restaurants require confirmation. Profit margins in the food business can be tight, and many places can't afford to tolerate no shows/empty tables. My doctor's office calls with a reminder a day or two before my appointment. However, it takes six weeks to get an appointment, so they assume that some people forget in that amount of time. Also, the office is very popular. They book patients every 15 minutes, and they're always running behind. Their goal is get everyone in, so they don't like it when a slot time goes empty. They view that as bad for other patients. Other than that, I make other appointments but I can't think of another business that asks for a confirmation call. The appointment made is considered the confirmation to be there.

It was an attacking comment. Definitely not a smart business practice. The comment was also self-righteous and ignorant.

I have worked with a lot of gay guys in a work environment through the years. I can count on 3 fingers the number of co-workers who became friends that I could truly trust. That's 3 out of maybe 100+. Had plenty of so-called friends, though. I wish I could count the number of times I've been burned. I don't want to relive those memories. One guy, whom I didn't even know that well, attempted to get me fired. He completely made shit up about me, and to this day I do not know what his beef with me was. Whenever someone asks me about dating a coworker, based on my personal experience, I say don't do it unless you don't care about your job and the security it provides.

When I book a massage at my gym, no one has ever asked me to confirm. They have a policy, if you need to cancel, you must do so within 24 hours of the appt, otherwise they charge you for the hour. I often book a week in advance because I need a specific time, and I've come to know how popular that time slot can be. I never understood a need to confirm an appointment with one man working on one table, although some customers seem to have a constant issue with commitment. The act of confirming is added work for both parties. Depending on schedules, it can create a lot of back and forth, most of which should be unnecessary. Maybe for certain customers confirmations are necessary. If I were a MT therapist, I would be turned off by a customer asking for a confirmation call. It would suggest to me that the customer is a flake and not reliable. However, if the MT agreed to a confirmation and he failed, then you being a no show should not pose a problem. In a perfect world.

I'm still trying to recover from his last minute alteration of an appointment while still maintaining that when chopping off 45 minutes from the original appointment, he still deserved $300. I don't care how hot I think you are, that's a business arrogance my wallet cannot afford.

Prep and Truvada don't protect customers from std's. If your MT is known for penetration without a condom and he's penetrating 10 customer asses a week, how long can he possibly work before he needs to see a doctor? How long before his customers need to see a doctor, too?

I'm not a lawyer. Not sure how a jury or court of law would judge this. If you're paying a MT to give you a HE, you're agreeing to an engagement of sex for a fee. If you allow a MT to penetrate you during a massage without speaking up, it seems to me you're tacitly agreeing to a more serious engagement of sex. The part of the OP's story about the MT ejaculating only begs more questions. Where did he ejaculate? Did penetration cause him to ejaculate? How long was his cock in the ass, etc? Since the OP is not offering more detail, the intention of the thread smells of catfish, even though much of the information shared can be useful to readers.

Knowingly is the key word. If you take the OP at his word, he did not know that the MT was going to penetrate him. Even if he said no thanks after he realized what was happening, the penetration however brief can be problematic on several levels, especially absent communication. You don't need an anatomy lesson. However, some guys get loose much easier than others. All it takes is a good technique on the part of the MT. I speak from experience.

I wrote that line with a personal injury lawyer in mind, not a police officer.

Maybe it's time to address the elephant in the room. "Solicitation of prostitution is technically the request to one person by another to perform a sexual act in exchange for a fee." Criminal Law According to criminal law in the U.S., if you hire a HE massage therapist, you are hiring a prostitute. If someone hired a prostitute, and the person hired managed to penetrate the customer while they laid together naked, especially with no words spoken, I sincerely doubt the customer, with a straight face, could make a legitimate claim of rape to a police officer. If the customer paid for the appointment after the penetration, it would make the case for rape even less credible. Perhaps absurd. I'm sure some police officers would have a good laugh. The details of escort service are usually discussed between escort and customer in advance of any action. That's how many would define professional. So why is it smart to ignore communication when you hire a massage therapist who offers HE? That said, if a massage therapist decides to penetrate a customer without permission or discussion, especially without a condom, and the customer has a delayed negative health reaction to that encounter, I'm quite confident the legal ramifications for that MT could run deep and treacherous.

I said I was a bit suspicious. 50 minutes into a 90 minute massage he's still on his stomach when the MT decides to mount him. What happened in the remaining 40 minutes while he was in the "state of shock?" I can't afford to get a massage that often, and my personal experience does not suggest that "many masseurs seem not to care about sticking their fingers and tongues up there." I know that some gay guys are crazy, but I don't seek out the crazy ones. If I experienced an MT who, without conversation, indicated that he didn't care where he put his fingers and tongue, I would never revisit him. If I had to douche before every massage, I'd stop getting massage.

Even though the subject matter is interesting for conversation, I'm a bit suspicious about the OP's story as well. If a massage therapist is going to penetrate a customer without notice and without a condom, and penetration was the furthest thing from the customer's mind, what are the chances that the customer is going to be freshly douched? I don't douche before a typical massage. Suppose the customer is not fully clean and the MT decides to penetrate, what on earth happens to the massage experience when the MT's cock comes out dirty? Let's be honest, freshly showered does not mean freshly douched. Maybe you can safely massage the exterior of the butt hole when freshly showered, but how smart and safe is it to penetrate with finger, elbow, or cock without some discussion first? In a sensual massage, I like having my clean ass crack caressed. Some MT's are not shy about massaging this area. In the communication process, I tell my MT that I will arrive freshly showered. I specifically tell him my butt hole will be clean, but not douched. The thought of having fecal matter mix with the massage lotion and spread all over my body would sicken me. If I'm in the mood to bottom, and I know the MT is known for enjoying that, I tell the MT that I will arrive "fully prepared" for anything, but if he wants to penetrate me, he must wear a condom. I realize some words like douche may not be sexy and easy to say to a stranger. Some guys are really awful putting any intimate feelings into words. If communication scares you or makes you feel uncomfortable, gay nude massage may not be a safe service to explore. Speaking honestly, there are some gay guys out there (tops) who don't care about clean. I've encountered them, and they scare me. They'll stick their fingers, their tongue, or their erection into any willing hole without asking any questions. I have no interest in being touched by such men. If you don't talk to the guy you plan to get naked with, you have no idea what's on his mind. It's often said on this board and it can't be said enough, a willingness to communicate fully is the road to a perfectly safe and fully enjoyable service encounter.

I agree, interesting thread. I, too, have been in situations that caused me to freeze, and I'm not the freeze type. None of them were sexual, but the trauma made me think deeper about my reaction. I have also been with massage therapists who wanted more sexually. When that happened, even though I was in the massage cloud, I quickly became alert and pulled words together to discuss intentions. Luckily, I had no problem controlling those situations. I'm upfront with sex talk. The HE massage experience is fraught with potential danger. It's very important for the customer to know what those dangers are if he wants to protect himself. Many gay guys want silence and anticipation to be part of their massage fantasy. With this type of customer, it's impossible for the MT to read someone's mind. Without direct communication, the MT could easily turn into a very horny guy looking for his own version of HE. Some guys do not want to be penetrated, especially without a condom, or take cum in the mouth, so it's very important that those customers tell the naked MT about this limit. Customers who have certain don'ts usually have no difficulty voicing those particulars. HE massage therapists who think it's OK to penetrate a customer without permission could very easily find their lives ruined. Not worth the risk.

It seems to me A4A is a hook-up site for guys who don't use Grindr or other smartphone apps. Some horny, cruisy guys on A4A will hire, but not many, and not likely at premium prices. From what I can see, the site has never attracted moneyed customers. I've been there for years, too. Escorts who do massage can pick up extra work there, but they're the type of guy who is willing to service a customer who has a limited income and may not be looking for full blown escort service. Sometimes I just want to lie naked with a guy and dock or be very oral. Since you don't want to endure pain, you don't want to align yourself with any type of massage service, especially one that is limited to 20 minutes. If I were you, I would keep the word massage absent from all ads. There are other, more seductive ways to promote your special touch. If A4A Pro is free, then no harm having an ad there. IMO, free exposure is free advertising. 1 new customer from free advertising is better than 0.

I love going without underwear, especially in the summer. I love being out in public with other men watching my package as it moves around under my clothing. If I'm cruising a guy, I love sticking my hand in my shorts pocket and stroking my loose cock with the pocket fabric. I also will wear underwear longer than one day, as long as it isn't soiled and smelly. I wear boxers so the fabric remains loose and airy most of the time. I happen to like the smell of my junk a day or two after a shower. I've had casual sex guys tell me they like the smell and taste of my BO. I go with it sometimes.

This has to be the worst example of an erotic massage I've ever seen. Chaos is always more interested in sex. However, this is a good example of what can happen if you book with a guy who has no massage experience. The scene basically becomes a guy with an erection and a massage table. Some customers like this. They get a little sex and some oily touching at a lower rate. I prefer a massage therapist like Tyler who knows what he is doing.

It seems to me this is a very good example of a skilled erotic massage. The skill and technique remind me of a well-reviewed guy here, except that masseur frequently gets hard while working.

In the spa business we had the infamous term "gift certificate." Some totaled a $1000. Most were $300-$500. They were extremely popular at holiday time. Could easily gross $50,000+. Owners loved them. Instant money in the bank. A certain percentage would always go unredeemed. They had an expiration date. Free money. Basically, the gift certificate was a pre-pay for services yet to be rendered. Some were written out to include specific workers, but if they were not redeemed, the workers did not receive that money. If the business failed to perform the service paid for in advance, that would be seriously detrimental to the business. If the customer using the gift certificate was not happy with the service, they got a full refund. Since there's no BBB to report a shady escort, a pre-pay transaction must always be about trust. What other service person in your life would you pre-pay for?

So true. Makes me scream in horror every time.

I'm not telling anyone how to run his business. I have no skin in anyone's losing game. I'm old and experienced enough to know a poor business practice when I see one, and I'm happy to share the things I won't waste my money on. I disagree. The massage business is very much like escorting. High-end beauty salon work, too. In fact, some horny hairdressers escort on the side to make extra money. It's common for a service in these fields to run 60 minutes. Some of the work is done in private behind closed doors. Clothing is often removed. Touching and skin on skin contact is part of the service. Sex is not usually tolerated in a licensed facility, but workers are human and often very attractive. Stuff happens. I'm sure it makes you feel smarter to believe that.