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I think the escort determines what is drivable and what isnt.

I wouldn't change a thing. There are some who don't like to hire bi escorts, but there are others who find bi men extra interesting. Same with the Mormonism, same with the wife and kids.

Aww.....

I've never met him, but we've exchanged a few emails. To me, the copy in his profile doesn't reflect well on him. My email exchanges with him were decidedly more pleasant than you would think from his profile.

And make sure he files his nails.

You shouldn't expect the escort to provide any supplies. If you're going to use them, you should bring gloves. Also, you should bring two or three of those incontinence pads that they use in hospitals and nursing homes and a roll of paper towels. Also, you should supply your own lube. Be sure to provide poppers and any other substances you are planning to use.

It's willing to stay in its own comparment.

My favorite is "Most of the world's work is done by people who don't feel very well."

You're right, it is. All the more reason to make the most of it.

Here's another in San Francisco: https://rent.men/Gage_Lennox

Beware of escorts who say they have fisting experience. Generally it's only a little experience and they don't really know what they're doing. There are some though, for who you can tell from their profiles, fisting is a major service offering. You'll have better luck with these guys. Tyger is a great FF top, even though he doesn't promote himself as such.

Even those who say they "have to" hire in order to get laid have choices. It's just that they don't like the other choices available, hiring being the most palatable.

RM is thick with guys in their 40s. Guys in their 50s are considerably rarer, but still not difficult to find. I don't hire based on age. I look at the pics and read the profile. The thing that disqualifies somebody quicker than anything is if the copy in the profile is even a little bit attitude-y.

When I was a kid, my mother got our meat at an old-style meat market where they made all of their own sausage. The hot dogs she got from there were a type of sausage called "steamers." When she first started buying them, we didn't like them because we were used to grocery-store hot dogs. Eventually we got so we hated grocery store hot dogs. They actually became fashionable in the 80's. It was considered a cool thing to go to Zimmerman's meat market for a steamer.

When watching porn is involved

That might be an improvement

That's not a very good way to hide in plain sight.

Tastes changed.

Are your sure about that? I imagine many full-time escorts pay self-employment tax like most small business owners.

There was a guy in ATL some years ago who gave his age as 67. Haven't seen his profile in quite a while.

idle minds . . .

But if an escort has few or no secrets, he has pretty much neutralized the ability of someone to use his secrets against him.

Why is he clueless? Maybe you hit it off so well that he trusted you. Are you implying that his trust was misplaced? I've had escorts tell me all about themselves. I've had interactions with other escorts where they tell me nothing about themselves. When an escort reveals a lot about himself to me, I just enjoy the connection. I assume he fully knows what he's doing and is sharing the information because he wants to, and likes and trusts me, not out of cluelessness or stupidity or naivete.

It's just that they need to get out more, broaden their horizons. If you have a demanding profession, one or two pastimes that hold your interest and a few friends, there isn't time to be sleuthing escorts on the internet.