Rudynate

I've had good luck. No difficult experiences, only one no-show. I had driven across the bridge to Oakland to meet this guy. I got to his place and texted, no response. Rang the bell a couple times, faced the fact that it wasn't happening and went back to my office. When I got back, I emailed him. He responded that he had made a scheduling error. He apologized and offered a make-good at a discounted rate. I haven't yet had an inclination to make another trip to Oakland. Probably wont.

Yes, you're right and that's how he's trying to market himself, as a "regular guy." It will be interesting to see how many want to pay a premium rate for the experience. There are plenty of guys into hairy bears/cubs, but at that rate?

He's out. 350 is over my hard limit.

I think you're forgetting that he wasn't born yesterday. He's a 40 year old man, with years of experience in porn and escorting, who says in his profile that he has a multi-hour rate. I suppose it's possible that he's nutty but his social media image would say otherwise.

His profile even says that he has a multi-hour rate.

I wouldn't pay him $400.00 for a single hour - it's above my hard limit. I suspect his rate for hours after the first is considerably lower than $400.00, so that a two- or three hour session would be reasonable. I don't think he even thinks he can get $400.00. He's discouraging one-hour bookings.

Who said anything about paying him $400.00?

He makes a great beefy hairy daddy.

I asked a rep for an Italian oil producer, who was himself Italian, if Italians dipped bread in olive oil, or if that was a practice that American foodies had dreamed up. He said he had never seen it in Italy until restaurants started doing it because American tourists started asking for it.

Of course they know that it has no legal effect. Disclaimers can do a lot in a contract to limit the exposure of one or both of the parties, but they can't magically make an illegal act legal.

Maybe, maybe not. This is not some kid who doesn't know the market. I think he' s looking for the market to let him know what his price point is.

In Yiddish, I think it has a particular meaning, not just fat. I think it's like "pleasingly plump."

I have always had a mild interest in Connor, but never strong enough to make the call. I started reading his blog and was so impressed with his writing that I started to see him in a new way and began to want to meet him. By then, though, he had begun to put on weight and I reverted to my original ambivalence. I may yet meet him. Beefy daddies with hairy guts are among the multitude of types I'm attracted to.

His first-hour rate might be high to discourage one-hour appointments

Chubby

Looks like he drafted the copy in a hurry and didn't proofread. That's how my writing comes out the first time.

I only use unsalted. don't miss salted butter at all.

Good olive oil has become hard to find. It's been forever since I have had real full, fruity olive oil. Everything from the store is just kind of grassy tasting.

Was this some sort of intervention or rescue conversation? Are you certain you are the person to be having that conversation with this guy? You don't seem to know him well.

Hustler is a pejorative term that us rarely used.

At least in movies there was a distinction.

My understanding is that a gigolo gets paid to have sex with women. I find the notion of sex for hire incredibly erotic, but it's extra erotic when it involves a woman hiring a man. Dont ask me why, I couldnt tell you.

I love books and films that involve gigolos.

There's no such thing as too much time down there.