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  1. I'm in the same frame of mind as @StLouisOct.

     

    Even though unrelated to the current pandemic, I've had a couple of providers on separate occasions wondered if I'd still see them if their bodies changed drastically. One had stopped using steroids after he stopped stripping and the other had the flu and couldn't work out for weeks.

     

    I recounted this story on the forum before, but the one who stopped "juicing" I had not seen for more than a year. We had a few overnights and weekend sessions. So I wanted to see him again, but he seemed reluctant. I flat out asked him why and he said to me he didn't think I would find him attractive anymore because he lost a lot of his muscle mass. He was a bit chubby. I told him that didn't matter. I asked him did he passionately kiss the same? Yes. Did he still have the same deep sexy voice? Yes. Would he still respond to me sexually the way he did before? Yes. Would we still have fun enjoying each other's company in and out of the bedroom? Yes. The things that made spending time with him fun had not changed. Besides the great sex, he is a genuinely sweet guy.

     

    The other who had the flu kind of said the same thing as the previous provider (although he body changes were less drastic. He regained his build and definition... not that it mattered.) I still see both and will continue to. Of course my initial attraction to a lot a guys is based on their physicality. However once I'm attracted to someone, if they change drastically physically, but maintain the same personality I will continue to see them as long as they want to see me.

    Yeah, I imagine there would be a big change with the juicers. N reason to juice if you're not going to be hitting the weights. Of coarse they'll deflate like balloons.

  2. By the time the stay at home orders are lifted and gyms are reopened, most of the escorts and masseurs will not have seen a gym since they closed and will have been very limited in their working out, if they've done anything at all. If you're expecting them to match their pics, might need to wait a few weeks before that'll be the case, I would think. Anyone else thinking the same thing?

    Hiking, walking, running, and many parks have outdoor equipment to work out on. Not everyone is a couch potato.

  3. What I find pretty shocking is all the guys in Boston that are "Available Now" or on Platnium status. What are they thinking? There are only 5 who are not available. Sigh...smarten up guys.

    I imagine it will increase as this drags on. If this is the income you depend on and the bills keep coming..well.

  4. Although some similarities, nothing will ever compare with the horror of the beginning and the peak of the AIDS pandemic, before the meds came out in the early/mid 90's. Back in the 80's, getting infected with HIV was a death sentence to all infected. Add the fact that the US government virtually ignored the AIDS pandemic in the early/mid 80's added to the horror of that time. At least with COVID 19 getting the virus is not a death sentence for the majority (as acquiring HIV was in the 80's)....and with COVID 19 the US government and the world are jumping into action .....slowly in the beginning ......but not waiting years before they do anything, as they did with AIDS. I think it took then President Reagan 3 years before he even said the word AIDS. NOTHING will ever compare with the horror of AIDS in the 80's, as people will tell you who lived through it and lost friends, family, and lovers while the government virtually ignored it. Then add the stigma of having HIV/AIDS in the 80's, and there is no comparison. COVID 19 has no stigma.....is not a death sentence to most.....and is being addressed right away by the entire world. The true horror story was HIV/AIDS back in the 80's.

    I cringe when I hear the comparison. Yeah, only if instead of celebrating your diagnosis on youtube they get ostracized by family, friends, and the medical community. A slap to the face from those who only experienced it from the side lines.

     

    I imagine if someone walked into say synagogue and said Covid is our holocaust they'd get the shit kicked out of them.

  5. its really interesting to me how much emphasis there is on protecting ones self and more importantly protecting others from this virus yet this same group for 30 years was almost flippant (not everyone of course) with the hiv virus. man you would have thought sex would have come to a screeching halt for 20 of those years but it didnt. and close to 100% would have died if there wasnt medical intervention. gotta shake my head on that one.

     

    uh oh... here goes

    One effects your life maybe up .01%. Of coarse 80 or other health issues will be more. The other would effect it 100%. One is a short term bump in the road while the other would require a life time adherence. Comparing them is ridiculous.

  6. Yes, but how do you know who's clean or infected? Most folks are asymptomatic.

    Dunno. If we had a drive through testing like others or maybe at home kits it wouldn't be a big issue. Get a clean bill of health that day and go for it.

  7. Consexual sex is not social distancing, unless they are individuals already living under the same roof.

    Social distancing is about numbers. Unless he's making plans with lots of guys shaming him for one dude he likes is definitely the Mrs Kravitz award.

  8. BOTH of you are risking it. What's more important, "getting a nut" or catching/giving a virus to another?

     

    This reminds me of a film which I viewed many years back during the high peaks of the AIDS virus. ...went to a film where the main actor was a teacher. He had gotten ill (...can't remember if it were HIV or acute flu). While he was hospitalized, he left his bed to go out and fuck. His actions sickened me for his having exhibited complete irresponsibility. Could he had NOT waited until he was not ill, giving his germs, etc. to another and spreading...?

    Great analogy but why stop there? Why don't we throw in the Jewish Holocaust while were at it.

     

    If two adults wish to get together for some consensual sex that's really up to him and he sure don't need you to shame him over it.

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  9. This is about what I'd expect from BBC4.

     

    It's the same tale, told over and over again. At least Sweet Charity dressed it up with songs.

     

    Somehow, these guys (and gals) are all attracted to the things that they cannot handle.

    It is the same tale regardless if one works in the sex industry since I would include myself as a former meth addict. Will never see the end of it since humans have the same mental issues generation to generation.

  10. we have to go to either Europe or South America to find those types of escorts. On of my main considerations when booking a holiday now is the quality of that destination's escort market because I can't get what I want at home.

    So no one is good enough for you in all of North America huh. Wow. Having mile high standards must be a real bitch. I can't believe people take this shit seriously. Lol

  11. No, you have not crossed the point of no return. To tell yourself this would just be a cop-out. Taking an unknown quantity of an unknown drug from someone you didn't know obviously showed very poor judgment, but this doesn't mean you need to show poor judgment forever for the rest of your life. You can also choose to take this experience as a valuable lesson learned and as a warning. The lesson I would take from this is "I lose my good judgment in the presence of mind-altering drugs, so I need to resolve to avoid using them."

    Your story reminded me of Joe Putignano, a drug addict who wrote the autobiographical book Acrobaddict, which describes how drug addiction led him down an awful life path of horrifically sociopathic behavior. He lied, cheated, and stole from friends and family, got kicked out of college, and ended up homeless. Intoxicated, he admits he was involved in multiple hit and run car accidents, drug dealing (sold drugs while in college until he was caught and kicked out), and other egregious behavior. Whenever there was a decision point in his life, at least for the period of time in the book, he always managed to make the worst decision possible.

    He continued his behavior despite multiple arrests, homelessness, etc. He probably got away with more than most addicts could for some time because he's unbelievably handsome. I just looked up his facebook page and have noticed, to my horror, that he was admitted to and graduated from a nursing program, and now has an RN degree. Not a good place to be for someone who loses control in the presence of drugs. The book is an interesting read (although it certainly didn't elicit any sympathy from me, but rather shock that anyone could do such things). Don't go down his path. Now is the time to stop.

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    I think he was addicted to the bad boy behavior mostly. That's not the face and body of a meth addict. Whatever his problem was with meth it wasn't very long or didn't go very deep.

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    So if someone puts pnp in their ad I am reluctant to hire. However, I also make sure to try and determine if pnp is weed or stronger if I'm dead set on trying to meet that person.

    I've never heard anyone refer to weed as PNP. In the gay community it always means meth.

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    I admit I liked it but I don’t want this to happen again. At least that’s what I’m telling myself at the moment. Have I crossed the point of no return?

    Are you being serious? Addiction aka point of no return is not just one time trying something. It's doing something and not being able to stop in spite of the destruction it's causing. Usually months or years down the road when the fun stops. You tried it and liked it. Big woop. It's designed to be liked since it massively increases your dopamine levels like never before.

  14. he asked if I had a pic, so I texted one. Didn't hear back after that, but didn't think a reply was needed as we had already confirmed.

    You don't have to be a psychic to know that no response after sending your pic means no interest. Your confirmation means nothing till they "confirm" that your pic meets their requirement. The kid just assumed you'd leave it at that.

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    You may be right about him possibly being burned out. He once told me he’d have an average of 500 unread messages on his phone.

    Ha. I'd be burned out with 50 of them. They'd have to do it on a assembly line basis. I just think after awhile it would suck the soul right out of you.

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