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works for me,  I love Cum.  
 
On my face, chest, stomach, legs,butt back arms, leathers, boots .
 
I like to taste his cum and my cum - I love it when a top licks up my cum and shares it with me in a long passionate cum killed kiss, or I get to lick it off his leather gloved fingers, or made to kneel down and clean up his cum off his boots.
 
cum is wonderful and should never be wasted .
If I have a private moment, I always lick my fingers clean .....

I like to know where I am heading, so I do my best to get the address as early as possible - check Apple Maps then do street view - so I have a good idea of where I am heading to.
I was brought up to be on time (often early).
 
I guess if you really want to enjoy the session you do the preparation before hand - but then so many people are just not with it anymore 

Fetish play is important to me when I hire - its basically the main driver of my hiring pleasures.
I know that Fetish play takes some time to organise and to set up - and that is so important otherwise it just does not work.
There has to be some communication before the session - then the provider needs to work out what is going to happen, set up the scene the tools and toys as well as the clothing environment etc.
I have always believed you only get what you pay for.
If your budgets means you do a two or three hour session with a great outcome - once a year rather than 6 average or mediocre sessions - what is better .......
 
 
 

Fetish play is important to me when I hire - its basically the main driver of my hiring pleasures.
I know that Fetish play takes some time to organise and to set up - and that is so important otherwise it just does not work.
There has to be some communication before the session - then the provider needs to work out what is going to happen, set up the scene the tools and toys as well as the clothing environment etc.
I have always believed you only get what you pay for.
If your budgets means you do a two or three hour session with a great outcome - once a year rather than 6 average or mediocre sessions - what is better .......
 
 
 

Yes! I’d love McKinsey to come in and tell me how to run my business.
I’m looking forward to having a smooth talking snake oil salesman…sorry ‘partner’ present me with a 40 slide PowerPoint deck that has been produced by their overworked graduates using slides adapted from their last client (hey they might even leave their name on one of the slides).
I’d love to see them take things that I intrinsically know and re-tell them to me as if they’re new concepts for me by using fancy graphics, models and buzz words like ‘pivot’, ‘key stakeholders’, ‘agile’ and ‘channel’ so they can charge me an exorbitant fee. 
Then if I try to implement their recommendations I’ll have to watch my business fail because as everyone knows consultants consult because they can’t do real work.

 
 
 

I visited both PP and SR a few years ago.  Both are amazing cities, the food is incredible, the markets great places to shop - and the gay scene is great. 
 
Awesome places to stay and great massages are avail. with happy endings 
 
I stayed at Mens in SR they have great tour guides and tuk tuk drivers 
 
Highly recommend a visit 
 

His reviews echo my experiences in Bali - but there are plenty of opportunities on the regular apps for money boys - and if you go to the bars the money boys are very evident - pre covid the standard rate was 600 000 Rupiah per night and they expected to stay the night with you and to share breakfast with you too.
 
 

His reviews echo my experiences in Bali - but there are plenty of opportunities on the regular apps for money boys - and if you go to the bars the money boys are very evident - pre covid the standard rate was 600 000 Rupiah per night and they expected to stay the night with you and to share breakfast with you too.
 
 

I have found that the best places are either the apps - or AdamsMassage on Jalan Batu Belig in Seminyak or Banana Massage on Jalan Drupardi also in Seminyak 
 
I would not be concerned about your actions as long as its discrete - Bali is predominately Hindu rather than Muslim - no PDA but life is good in Bali 

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Always have a list, when we were working I would go to the store and do all the shopping, my husband would give me the list.  Plus I knew what we liked to eat, and would buy specials when they were available.
Now that we are retired we normally shop together - again with a list and as our preferred shop is 15 km away we tend to go once a week or once a fortnight.  We have a large walk in butlers pantry and a fridge freezer with a seperate chest freezer so we do store a lot.  Husband makes his own bread so we dont need to keep going to the store.
Our local shopping centre has a dreadful carpark so we avoid that but if we do need a couple of things we will go in there.
Shopping is a skill 
 
 

I used to work for a taxi company (a big one 3000 cabs) and noticed that when brothels (which are legal where I live) when they would ring for a cab the passengers name was alway John ....
I think the work that our professional (and not so professional) men do is very honourable work.
So therapist or something positive is the best way to refer to them.
I think of my providers as - well thats a hard one - but rent boy or rent man - or gentleman of the night - in my own mind - courtesan is a good one - or gigolo works too 
Most terms have negative slurs attached to them as society as a whole thinks of the this profession as something sleazy and bad - whereas it one of the most beautiful things someone can do for someone else 
 
 
 

As someone who has been large most of his life, I had a period where I walked a lot and swam a lot and was very trim, but that did not last.
 
I feel good about myself , self love is important, but I also am smart enough to know its not attractive to some, and of course there are the health issues.
 
The heaviest I got to was 320 pounds and currently i am slowly loosing and at 275 today.
 
When i see a new provider I always send a description, in a email or text message,  “I am a 60 year blonde bear 275 pounds looking for …..”  and take it from there.
 
If someone says does not work for me  - I thank them for the honesty and move on.
 
I have a couple of great providers who make me feel great, and we have a fun time exploring pleasure.
 
I could go to a bathhouse, pay my $25 and wander around all night, maybe get lucky, maybe get rejected, maybe end up in a cubicle giving myself a hand job.
 
Or I could spend $300-$600 with a provider and have a wonder couple of hours .
 
A lesson there for providers who are looking to improve their business.
 
I reflect back on an evening i spent in a gay B&B which was closing optional.  I spent a couple of nights there, the middle night I was the only guest, the owners were out of town and they had a guy in who was looking after the place and me.
We had chatted briefly when he arrived, i did not take much notice, i was swimming and sunbathing naked, had a walk on the property and a swim in the river that passed thru their property, i had a long relaxing outdoor shower, and thought nothing of it.
I went into town in the late afternoon, had a walk on the beach and some dinner.
When I returned the host offered me a glass of wine, and wanted to see a pic of my husband, so i grabbed my iPad and found one, he came and sat very close to me while looking at the pics.  He then suggested a moonlight swim.
I dived in first, he joined me and of course he was very handsy.
We had a fun night, drank some wine, soaked in the hot tub, played, I particularly remember bending over the balcony as he ate my ass out.
he told me that what attracted him to me, was the way I just showered that afternoon without any self consciousness.
 
The really professional providers will see past your excess weight and will discover your inner sexiness and enjoy you as a sexual being and an interesting person
 
 
 
 
 

I used to work for a taxi company (a big one 3000 cabs) and noticed that when brothels (which are legal where I live) when they would ring for a cab the passengers name was alway John ....
I think the work that our professional (and not so professional) men do is very honourable work.
So therapist or something positive is the best way to refer to them.
I think of my providers as - well thats a hard one - but rent boy or rent man - or gentleman of the night - in my own mind - courtesan is a good one - or gigolo works too 
Most terms have negative slurs attached to them as society as a whole thinks of the this profession as something sleazy and bad - whereas it one of the most beautiful things someone can do for someone else 
 
 
 

I used to work for a taxi company (a big one 3000 cabs) and noticed that when brothels (which are legal where I live) when they would ring for a cab the passengers name was alway John ....
I think the work that our professional (and not so professional) men do is very honourable work.
So therapist or something positive is the best way to refer to them.
I think of my providers as - well thats a hard one - but rent boy or rent man - or gentleman of the night - in my own mind - courtesan is a good one - or gigolo works too 
Most terms have negative slurs attached to them as society as a whole thinks of the this profession as something sleazy and bad - whereas it one of the most beautiful things someone can do for someone else 
 
 
 

I love to play with no lights...no talking..hot anonymous make out....sucking getting sucked and getting topped...group of people even better 

I love spanking a muscle ass barehanded.  Draven Navarro does indeed enjoy a good spanking but you have to vary the tempo with him.  Hard slaps with a loud sound by using a cupped hand and then when he feels comfortable, open the hand and slap so that the slap is just as hard but not as loud and because there is more area struck, it is a bit more painful.  That is when you will get the best reaction, a yelp, a moan, even a sob.  A kiss to the reddened area and a gentle massage will cool down the area and once he is comfortable again another extra hard slap.  
For me though, it is the sound of the slap that I find the most erotic, that and the sound of the moan.  It is not so much a power dynamic.  Also, I never do an over the lap spanking, standing bent over or lying face down are preferable for me.  Allows more variation in the intensity the stroke. Spanking is never the main event, so five minutes would be a long session but there may be more than one session in an encounter.  Also slapping an ass while giving oral usually leads to a jump and a particularly hard thrust which can be fun. 
Do not give up after one encounter, and spank when the fancy strikes you to strike him.  
A belt is also fun but I tend to leave that for one or two strikes as I am concerned I might really strike more than my partner enjoys.  
The redness after is a nice afterglow image.  

Always have a list, when we were working I would go to the store and do all the shopping, my husband would give me the list.  Plus I knew what we liked to eat, and would buy specials when they were available.
Now that we are retired we normally shop together - again with a list and as our preferred shop is 15 km away we tend to go once a week or once a fortnight.  We have a large walk in butlers pantry and a fridge freezer with a seperate chest freezer so we do store a lot.  Husband makes his own bread so we dont need to keep going to the store.
Our local shopping centre has a dreadful carpark so we avoid that but if we do need a couple of things we will go in there.
Shopping is a skill 
 
 

I have found that the best places are either the apps - or AdamsMassage on Jalan Batu Belig in Seminyak or Banana Massage on Jalan Drupardi also in Seminyak 
 
I would not be concerned about your actions as long as its discrete - Bali is predominately Hindu rather than Muslim - no PDA but life is good in Bali 

I live in Australia and most of the gold diggers here are from Asia. Due to our geography we see very few Eastern European or Hispanic people.
 
Gold diggers can exist in any form!!
 
The OP asked about how he could start a relationship with a man from Asia, so commenting on the perils that could occur is relevant.
 
If anyone took my comments as being racist, they certainly are not.
 
As a gay man who has been judged and badly treated by prejudice for 60 years, (as i am sure many on here have), i judge people by one criteria. “How do they treat me?” when i meet someone new I treat them with respect and dignity, if they act that way towards me, then it continues, if they back stab me or treat me dishonourably then I judge them accordingly.
 
I have met some beautiful men in Asia, who just wanted to spend time with me, for the joy they found in me, maybe it was my bear body or my blonde hair that they loved, and those memories are wonderful.
 
However many men in Asia are looking for improvement to their world. I have seen so many people bring a new lover from Asia to Australia, pay all their expenses, and just to be ripped off, the partner is out playing around when their relationship is not open, and it all ends badly.
 
So i was just saying exercise caution.
 
Life is Asia is different and more difficult that in the west, so many people see trading sex for a lifestyle improvement as a valid transaction. Its when one partner has different expectations that issues arise.
 
We have a home in Bali, which we greatly enjoyed before Covid, and hope to enjoy again when we can travel again, ( our borders are closed, we need permits (hard to get) to exist and permits to re enter then do quarantine at a cost of $4K,) but I know that most Balinese see us as walking ATM.
 
When you spend what they earn in a month on a single nice meal, or some shopping its normal for the jealousy or envy to exist.
 
I can remember many years ago, I wear a Cartier fragrance, as my signature smell, it retailed in Sydney for around $550 a bottle, so I buy it when I am in Asia. I walked into a department store in Bali, I saw it, saw the price was 880,000 rupiah, which is about $88 AUD, so I asked how many bottles they had, 6 was the answer, could I please purchase all 6 bottles, The response was do you know how expensive that is Sir, yes that’s fine. So in that one transaction i paid, the equivalent of about 5 months income to the shop assistant, but to me it was a saving of at least $2500. Its all relative.
 
I am sure I was much talked about not just in the store but in their families and friends. What the locals do not grasp is that we work hard to travel and have international holidays, at that stage of my life i was working 6 x 12 hr shifts a fortnight, as standard employment, and most fortnight’s i was working 3 x 12 hr overtime shifts, so I just worked, slept and counting the $$. Hence when we went away we shopped, clothes, shoes, etc, but the locals could not grasp that, they just saw us as rich people with plenty of money.
 
the rent boy scene in Bali is full of boys from all over Indonesia, they charge 600 000 rupiah for an overnight, you met them in the bars, but in those days the monthly income was about 1 million a month, its about 3 times that now, so they were living well. For us to buy a hot man for the night for $60 was nothing, so we do get the reputation for being walking ATM.
 
I hope the OP finds the love of his life and he does not get ripped off, hopefully our suggestions which come from a place of love and concern are considered and assessed in the spirit they are given

Some of the best sex I have had has been with little cocks.
If you don't count anal.
Met a hot guy at the west side baths in new York, he was very hot in the sack..
I guess he made up for what he Percieved as a lack somewhere else.
 
Another night in Sydney I was at KKK (Kens Karate Club) often known just as Kens. A bathhouse with an amazing reputation, I was cruising a very good looking man who had very little confidence.
 
Eventually we were in a cubical, his towel came off, about 2 inches.
 
Never one to be rude, nor give up on cruising effort, I went down on him, shortly after I was choking with a nice thick 8 inches in my throat.
 
Not a shower but def a grower.