Escort Fetish Rates

[DamizzonNYC]

Not sure if this is the right place to post this, but I'm sure someone will let me know!

I've had existing clients ask for fetish play, which in theory is excellent.  If a client is asking for something off the beaten path, that means you've made them feel safe and unjudged.

But some of the asks - let's just say - I'm super willing, but they require much more of my time and energy to prepare.  Then the balk at the raise in rates. 

Am I handling this wrong?  I'm I crazy to ask for more?

[pubic_assistance]

5 minutes ago, ModelScort said:

  Am I crazy to ask for more?

No. You're not.

But for most customers who believe they are paying for time. They think am hour is an hour...so rather than raising you hourly rate you need to explain there is additional preparation ( and maybe cost of equipment/sex toys).

I find in MY business that clients balk at big price tags but not if you break that same cost down into parts where they can more easily understand the cumulative price tag.

[BuffaloKyle]

What jumped out to me is you said "existing clients" are asking. I could see then how it could be a little jarring for you to ask for more money when they expect to pay the same. What I would suggest you do then is say, as long as it's something you'd be into, I would be down for that it would just need to be a 2 hour or 3 hour minimum appt. Then it's a win win in a way for both sides. They technically are paying the same per hour and give up more money and you get that extra money you want while giving up more of your time.

[Bargara Leatherboy]

Fetish play is important to me when I hire - its basically the main driver of my hiring pleasures.

I know that Fetish play takes some time to organise and to set up - and that is so important otherwise it just does not work.

There has to be some communication before the session - then the provider needs to work out what is going to happen, set up the scene the tools and toys as well as the clothing environment etc.

I have always believed you only get what you pay for.

If your budgets means you do a two or three hour session with a great outcome - once a year rather than 6 average or mediocre sessions - what is better .......