Jacob_b

I can sometimes (not often) see 3 clients in a day. These are massage sessions where my focus is on the client and their climax but clients often want to reciprocate and I’m fine with that. Some of my sessions are escort type sessions where the massage goes onto ‘full service’ as they say!  If it’s important to the client that I cum then I do but many clients aren’t expecting me to and that’s fine with me. I prefer that they tell me if they want me to cum.
Where it’s difficult sometimes is if the client wants me to cum in his mouth as he sucks. Unless he’s an expert at it (I’ve only met one guy who set the bar on that.. he was unbelievable ..but that’s a different story!) I struggle to cum by being sucked. I need some hand work to get me there!
It’s the specific requests that can be challenging, like “I want you to cum same time as me and shoot it on my face”. So I’m trying to get him off with one hand, work out when he’s close, get me close but not too close with the other hand, aim at his face. It’s not easy! 
 

It’s pretty fair to assume that guys who take multiple appointments per day are probably not ejaculating to all of them because they need to keep their mojo at top speed for their next client. There can be some fun and games with edging but, even then, I’m going to want to cum.  Not really convinced that not cumming repeatedly for extended periods is good for your prostate either.
 Dont want your pipes to get rusty.

I can’t imagine not coming~ I don’t see more than one client per day… So, there’s never any pressure on my end that I’ve come before I’ve seen somebody or after I’ve seen somebody… If I’m with somebody for a number of days or a month, I don’t really care how many times a day we come. sometimes it’s none and sometimes it’s eight or 10 times depending on the person and both of our stamina, mindset and personal bonds~ Usually, usually when I’m with people for days or a month or two, we’re doing other things. Shorter appointments have a different field And we pace ourselves, according to the time frame available… So, it’s very rare that I don’t come… I don’t really care if they come. Sometimes coming for them is not the point and there is no pressure there. I personally enjoy coming and I do. If that is multiple times… And they’re down with that, even better~    
If I’ve already come a number of times, then, I like certain things done to me, or I like to do certain things to the other person/persons that make it all fall into place for another kaboom

I find morning appointments are the best if you are looking for that. 

what I have learned is that there are providers with multiple appointments, so they try not to wear themselves out too much. I personally go into an appointment with a provider with that as a premise, that I am most certainly not the one and only person that they are going to see that day. I am ok with them not coming if they don't want to, for as long as I have a good experience.
Yes, the more the provide knows about what you'd like to experience, the better they can tell you if they can accommodate.

To answer your question I think it's a little bit of column "A" and a little from column "B". It really depends on the escort... his physical limitations, how horny he is, whether he's in it to have fun too, etc.. 😛 
I would say out of all the providers I met most of them orgasmed/came. I have never asked/told an provider before the fun began, "I want to see you cum."  For me personally, it kind of takes away the experience, to say that in the beginning. Although I do understand it's a very import outcome for some clients. No pun intended. So i get why people ask upfront.
I have had a few providers ask me directly if I wanted them to cum after I had already did. I'm easy going... so I usually say, "if they want to." Most have. Some don't. For me the best is when it's obvious the provider wants to cum without me prompting. Even better when I make them cum and they didn't expect it or they're in the moment. I think one of my hottest is after a long session, I orgasmed and sat up to stretch at the edge of the bed. The escort says to me, "where are you going. I want to cum too"... raging boner in hand. I reassured him I wasn't going until he was happy as well.  

Yes, please be direct.
Don't take it too personally.  If an escort has more than one appointment in a day, he may guard his ejaculations, just as a protective measure.
 

I estimate that a little over 50% of the providers I have met with came. It often gives me some questions. 
Is it sense of obligation to a client, or desire? Sometimes one? Sometimes the other? 
Sex should be fun. I don't want anyone involved to be miserable, so I am always willing to continue when any party expresses "almost there" or "could you do X." 
But, when we have the conversation about how our session will go, is it rude, or direct, to just lay out there that "I can be an active participant if you want to cum, and if you don't want to, that's fine too." 
Would providers feel less pressure and more relaxed having that knowledge from the start? 

Definitely let the gent know your intentions of cum play ahead of time!
Don’t be surprised if a provider will fake like he bust inside you!  It happens on occasion!  

It’s key, if you enjoy theatre or cinema and want to become immersed in the production. Visiting a good escort / masseur is very similar: you suspend disbelief for a while and the quality of the production / service allows you to do that. 
However some of my clients enjoy the fact that they’re ’one of many’ so to speak. They don’t want the illusion of them being the special one. They like the fact I’ve seen others same day or will be seeing others, especially if they are top. Some like me to talk about it during their session. I guess it’s the mix of insight into an intriguing illicit world and the proximity to promiscuity (real or imagined) that’s the turn on. I may have said it previously but the main sex organ is the brain: work out what gets your client going and feed his brain with that. 
 

I wouldn't say i expect it, but i definitely want them to and i like the overall experience much more if they do. Just helps sell the illusion/experience more. If they don't, (or especially if they actively pretend to cum), then i find it's a harsher reality check of what we're doing for me.
Kinda funny thing, but i remember learning here on this forum that a lot of providers who see multiple clients a day will save their orgasm for the last client of the day/night. I later found one provider and i specifically booked him last slot of the day with this in mind. But once i got to the session he told me he probably wasn't going to cum or even get hard during the session with me because he'd already came like 5 times that day lol. He apparently just cums based on who requests it (or maybe just on who ever makes him cum naturally) first come first serve.
So i learned if it's something you know you want, definitely discuss it with the provider before hand, because they all handle it differently.

The provider cumming is part of the experience for me. I communicate this when making arrangements. So far, only one failed to do so.

When you hire, do you expect the guy to cum?  Either on u, in you (either end) or not at all?  Been surprised at how many members have commented that they don't expect the guy to 💦  Seems anti-climatic (pun intended) after getting hot and heavy.  😂

When I was younger....it was a HUGE turn on to feel a guys BLAST a HUGE powerful load in my mouth. You can just sense the excitement. 
Now I am older and admittedly not as hot as I used to be, I am very blessed to find young, hot guys who DO have a daddy fetish or are just good actors. 
 
 

My boyfriend and I are often having sex with several other people per day; but, we make it a point not to discuss with each other the other men we fuck.  I prefer my escorts and masseurs to follow the same etiquette.  But I'm old fashioned that way.

I DON'T do bareback, and even if I did...I prefer to SEE a guy ejaculate ...so the performance has to be more convincing for ME as a client. Shooting across the room is a big turn-on. I just can't get into sex if the other guy is not also turned on. So it either has to be genuine, or he has to be a professional at a performative engagement. THIS is why I almost never meet an escort without having spent some time together PRIOR to a sexual encounter. I need to feel that there is SOME connection.  I can't be with someone who can't at least play the role of being interested in me. Huge turn-OFF otherwise.

Be upfront. Period. Its business, and you are paying for a service. When I hire a bottom it's always clear I will cum without a condom balls deep inside...there is never any doubt and it works well...and when I bottom I am upfront and clear the guy i hire will shoot his load balls deep inside me with no condom...and it works. Guys do say no when I inquire, some are taken back by my bluntness, but it works, and we just don't get together. We are all adults. As for taking a load inside me there are the multicummers and don't think anyone has faked it with me. The throbbing and the flood of warmth...and I always insist the seed is ground in...so when the stud pulls out its clear he really did cum...love to clean his cum off his cock...Be upfront and the assignation will be so much more relaxed and pleasurable for everyone...

The last time I hired, the provider came twice. That was quite unexpected and gratifying (I mean, he must have been having a fairly decent time too, right?--don't disillusion me if the answer is no). Ordinarily I don't expect a provider to cum, though I'm delighted to get them off if that's what they want.

I must quote this magnificent reply again... we must always treat others with respect and remember escorting is a business... literally. 

Why? Because if you are wanting a BFE, is the point that you are getting the illusion that it's a boyfriend? 
Or do you expect your boyfriend to be with multiple people per day and discuss them with you? And if you do, great, but not what most people expect, I'd guess.

Yes, I have learned to say "I love to take a guy's load in my mouth or ass" when booking, to let the escort know what I want.

Short answer yes. You are booking a provider and that is the finale you should always receive 😛

I feel like I'm in a "who's on first...", and Larry, Curly & Moe routine when it comes to that subject, hahaha.
1) Ultimately it doesn't matter if provider does or doesn't for me to have mutually agreeable hangout
2) With that said I do like it (for many reasons) that the gent does, but not a requirement at all.
3) I'm in a maddening circular reasoning loop though. That is I think, the provider thinks they need to say/pretend that they will/did, in order to fully satsify me. But I don't want them to do it if it's a chore or a hassle.
4) But it's hard to say, "I don't care if you do or don't" (like being a dick), so I say, "It's totally up to you. I'm fine either way!".
5) Then they say, "Well do you want me to?!"  
6) And i say, "Well sure i would want you to, but that's primarily based on if you genuinely really wanted to, so that's cool, but don't feel obligated at all to on my part"
7) And they say, "Well then you want me to then?".  But I interpret that they will then think everytime we hangout that it's a requirement. Which it isn't.
8 - So i say "please don't feel obligated to", Like I'm still thinking they think I need it as a requirement for a good time.
9) Then they say, "so you don't want me to?",  
10) Back to #4 - I say, "It's totally up to you, I'm fine either way" Hahaha.
 

Good questions. And quite separate from whether a client cares if their escort cums or not. 
I can see reasons for the revelation being disconcerting. Part of what some people are buying is the illusion that it's a relationship, with an accompanying illusion of exclusivity. Without the revelation it's easier for the client to maintain the illusions. Even when they know that neither is true. Knowing the reality and accepting the illusion requires holding contradictory ideas simultaneously. Being confronted with the contradiction is buzzkill? Perhaps. 
Building the ability to accept the reality of the experience in the moment, while also being able to ignore anything that's at odds with it, including being told explicitly that the escort is saving his cum for someone else, I'd suggest is a skill worth learning. Being able to simultaneously hold two (or more) contradictory ideas is sometimes necessary.

Why ?
Did you think you were in a monogamous relationship 🤔?
It's pretty clear by definition, that an ESCORT is fucking a lot of different people...and sometimes multiple people per day.