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+1 on Blessings. Amazing body all around. And a very sweet and caring guy.
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I saw this masseur recently and he’s got my vote! 
https://rentmasseur.com/Sergio_Masseur
 

+1 on Blessings. Amazing body all around. And a very sweet and caring guy.
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Hi Jon - thank you for posting this and welcome to this message board.  I hope this will be a fun and rewarding activity for you.  I wish you the best of luck!

It depends on how specific these scenarios are. If it’s simple mechanics: you want to get DP’d while getting face fucked, that’s simple enough. If you’re looking for more of a role play situation, you probably need to articulate them fairly well. 

I've been trying to think more positively about how long I might live, so last week I bought a baby tortoise.   

And..... poof.... His RM ad disappeared.
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He seems to be the real thing. Members here have given him high praise. Even BenSash. lol But seriously if I were in NYC I would give him a spin. 

I have been caring for an elderly friend/former client for that last couple years. At 90 years old he was begging me to hire him an escort because he hadn't had sex for a few years since his heart attack and didnt want to die without having one last great shag!

As opposed to Frankenstein style unnatural looking enhancements?

Ugh, that's the worst. $300 for 90 minute sensual massage that has upsells is ridiculous. 

Have also been chatting with him. Seems friendly and didn’t think his rate was exceptionally high for NYC. He is leaving town for a couple of weeks so hope to see him when he gets back. 

Pics are from a UK based fitness trainer with 67k IG followers.

I just checked out some of his porn. He seems to be a good bottom...but for $1200 I'd expect him to be bringing along one of his muscular top buddies too. 

He quoted me 400 for a fully interactive session.  One of my favorite scenarios is to dominate a Latino muscle pup, which he is.  I mentioned that I wanted to play with his nipples, fondle his crotch, rim and finally top him.  Which he agreed to.  I will just need to get a Dayuse because he can't host in Manhattan.

Escorts are in the business of finding ways to distract themselves from the usual male sexual instinct toward physical beauty. If you are worried about them being burdened, then give them a little extra to focus on. Be charming, be polite, be complimentary of THEIR beauty and be a good tipper. With all of THAT you can be an emotional gem without being a physical all-star. 

This!  I have had amazing times with guys totally out of my league and I abide by this motto.  And don't let age scare you.  I prefer younger (early to late 20s) and you might be surprised the excellent treatment you receive just showing them a little TLC!

This is it. Be confident, be nice, respectful, clean and turn up on time. Those clients are the best. Doesn’t matter what you look like it’s how you behave that’s important. 

Have also been chatting with him. Seems friendly and didn’t think his rate was exceptionally high for NYC. He is leaving town for a couple of weeks so hope to see him when he gets back. 

It's not clear in your comments ( thanks for sharing ) how much sexual history you have and with who.  The difference to a hire on a first meet is that you haven't had much time to get to know the person. An hour of chatting, with the knowledge of sex being ordered from the menu might seem awkward on your first hire. Overall this man sounds like he was considerate and professional. So you choice seemed well thought out.  The issue of preferences for sex after developing trust/intimacy is something I am conscious of in my own hook ups. I have plenty of experience with anonymous sex, group sex etc...but right now in my 50s none of that is as appealing as meeting someone and getting to know them before hitting the sheets. I am also bisexual. I am married and don't have the chance to "date" people. SO what I have found that works, is to hire someone for erotic massage on a first meet. This takes the pressure off the expectations and gives you time to get to know your provider. There have been men who I hired multiple times, learned much about them, developed a friendly professional relationship before any sexual activity was included. Sometimes it was discussed and others it was merely a product of them opening  themselves up to a more intimate session, to please me after being a good customer ( tipping well ) and showing them that I value them as a person not just a piece of meat. This takes time to develop such "relationships" and you can't always know where they will come from. But they are out there for you to enjoy. Glad you had a nice first experience. Here's hoping you will continue to find what you want in your provider(s).

No, but once I had a guy blurt out “I Love You” in the middle of a session.  We did have a really good chemistry and he’d sent some signals that made me wonder before that.  Things became awkward after that.
But a little level set might be warranted to define “what is love?”  
According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, there are three dimensions to Consummate Love: Passion, Commitment, and Intimacy.     I think humans often confuse hitting on one or two of those with love.   Personally, I’m not looking for anything with a Commitment, but I need to “like” someone I have a physical connection with (that’s Passion and Intimacy aka “Romantic Love” where I think someone might think they “love” an escort…when in fact you’re closer to friends w/benefits).  In the experience above, I had to turn down the “intimacy” a notch with the guy to be sure things didn’t heat up for him.
so, the answer to your question for me is “no”   But I seek a small number of guys that I can both like and be physically attracted to  
 

Falling in love with someone isn't an "accident". We don't schedule and plan love. It just finds its way into our consciousness. But falling "in love" with an escort is typically a false love produced by an infatuation. The physical attention you get, paired with a physical attraction are triggers for relationship material. Unfortunately when you are PAYING, its all performance, not passion. So your "love" is no more real than their acting. You feel it. Its there..but its not genuine, because true love requires a circle, not a wallet. 

https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/1462366/3some/
 

I don't know if my experience is relevant. you decide. I felt discomfort after the few-blocks walk to get mail one day about 7 years ago. That was unusual, since I'd been taking regular walks with no issues. To be on the safe side, I made an appointment with my doctor, who then scheduled a heart stress test and imagery to get more data. That made it clear: I had a serious problem with my heart, but we had time to schedule corrective surgery.
After the follow-up PT, the surgeon said I could do what I wanted as regards to exercise. I'd already been on meds for hypertension, and that continued. I think the only significant dietary change since then was that I ended up making my own meals almost all the time, and stopped the occasional fast food exception. But really, that had more to do with having to limit my sodium intake since I also had stage 3 kidney disease, which for me meant one of them was stuck in Idle, and the other was at about 85% and stable.
Exercise, sure. I've got an old BowFlex in the garage for that. Since I've started having some aches and pains, though, I've been relying more on taking ~2.5 mile walks around the neighborhood hills when it's nice out, like today.