WestGuy

What a nightmare @RadioRob. Thanks for your hard work and perseverance. 

Add me to the list of people thanking you.  Your work is greatly appreciated.  

Thank you for all you’ve been doing! It is appreciated!!!

You deserve a medal! 👏👏👏

I usually tell them what am into (which definitely includes mutual oral), and ask if they are good with all of that. I have l never had a situation where a provider didn’t come through in what we had agreed on. 

Oral skills vary wildly. If the giver is a poor sucker then I’m ’thanks for trying but no…’
I’ve a regular massage client who is expert at it. His visit to me always the same. After 10 minutes I stand at end of the table and massage his head. After a few minutes of this he lifts it up takes my cock into his mouth and sucks me to completion, with a nice creamy mouthful. The rest of the massage continues as normal to a HE for him. It’s rare for me to cum from oral alone but this guy achieves it. I try to learn from him. 

Definitely ask!  I had a guy who had “ask me” listed as his position quote me an exorbitant extra charge for providing oral… I declined.  Prior to that, I had assumed that it was a given that anyone providing escort services to men would give oral unless explicitly stated otherwise.

It depends. Usually, guys who refer to themselves as "total tops" or "Dom tops" are less likely to give oral. Guys who are "vers tops" or just "tops" tend to be orally inclined. But we also live in a world where bottoms eat ass, so if it's not indicated, you're better off asking than being disappointed. 

I’ve had the pleasure of doing this a few times with various providers. It’s challenging finding guys who are comfortable working with others so I agree that it’s best to find one who can get the others- best way to ensure they show up and everyone is comfortable with the scene 

I could recommend a provider who would not be good at organizing the event but would probably participate. A mix of providers and clients could be fun. I 

DM him and inquire 

Sash... has over 100 5 star reviews of providers just in 2025.  Many on the same day.  Crazy.

Either term is no throuple at all. 

Thats always a huge turn off... if the person who I am with needs "coaxing" to get an erection, I feel like I'm at the wrong party and I want to move on. 
I've been to enough orgies over the years to know when I'm not vibing...and I just move on to the next person. To hire someone and have them so obviously NOT into it, would be disappointing to me.
I dont care if its genuine or they're good at faking it...I expect them to appear to be turned on.  Nothing more unappealing than playing with a limp noodle.

Agree with this feedback. Cute and friendly guy. Nice body. Great passionate kisser. With me he did get hard but it took some coaxing. Definitely into bottoming. He is diligent about messaging lol. 

I totally agree with that, and what I am about to write does not mean to contradict, but offer an additional option.
I've also had tremendous luck with retaining either one guy or two guys who I know well independently -- and then also retaining another that none of us know but who we've all agreed that we like his profile.  (If there are two guys I know, I make sure they have never played with each other either.) This removes all sorts of "per-rehearsed" moves, and a lot of exploring and surprises ensue. I've never had a problem -- but have always assumed if the total unknown is a total dud, there still going to be a great time between me and the guy[s] I already know. 
(Several times, I've actually had less fun hiring people who are actual couples IRL....and seem to be in a sexual rut and say things like "we don't do that.")

I have hired multiple providers at once before - my advice is to get a provider who you have seen a few times and ask him to recruit the others for the session. They will have screened them/ worked with them before and it's the best way to arrange a group of 2-3 escorts. 
 

Sounds like I’m not the only one fantasizing about this kind of fun. &nbsp
 
Would it work best in a hotel? Does everyone bring their own provider? Trying to get a few logistics down to see if we could really do something. 

Let's get some guys together and make it cost effective and fun

Any truth to the rumor that he was personal friends with Paul Revere?
BTC
🤡

Back in the day NYSC 36th and Madison was full of action in the showers, steam room, and sauna.
How’s NYSC 41st and 3rd these days?

Quite a few providers have an OF I would start with those guys and see what they say. 

I love to play on camera.  Totally get off on it.  As long as you can convince me it's fully private. 
I think there's a lot of providers out there who feel similarly.  Just run a search on Available For Videos, and ask those guys. 
But lead with this question when you approach!  So many guys save the out-of-left-field potential deal breakers for too late in the conversation. 

This is just about the stupidest thing I have seen in a long time. Like New York does not have more pressing issues, then this. Gimme a fucking break. 

Nah.
I agree.
I expect a provider to treat me like any friendly regular business relationship.
If they cant manage five minutes of chummy banter while I get dressed, its weird and uncomfortable and they shouldn't be in the business.