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Seems fairly easy to me. It isn't like you are going out on a limb, asking about hiring him for a service he doesn't advertise. Just say that since you last hired him as a masseur you noticed he has a Rentmen ad as well and you're interested in hiring him as an escort. Just be straight-forward about it.

I think this article is helpful if someone is generally having problems playing videos. In this case, however, with only one website being problematic it seems like the issue is with that website. The easiest solution is simply to watch videos on a different website until thisvid is fixed by its administrators.

The remedy is not to let your little head take over. You have to be willing to walk away (or simply not book an appointment if the demand is presented in advance), not matter how much you'd like to spend time with the provider. There are plenty of other sexy guys to get hung up on one who has demands you don't want to meet. If you're a client who doesn't mind paying in advance, I'm not arguing that you shouldn't do so. I think most of us here, though, don't do pay in advance. I think the only exception I would make is if I was booking someone for a multiple-day appointment, but then I would only do that with someone I already knew.

Prior to moving to San Francisco in the mid 1980s, I assumed there was some truth to the stereotype that gay men had more refined tastes in a variety of ways -- food, clothing, interior design, etc. I was surprised to find a lot of horrible restaurants in the Castro -- independent restaurants that served Denny's quality food. I also assumed that, being an oppressed minority, gay men were less likely to be racist and sexist. Ha!

I've learned my lesson in that regard. Some masseurs have a rate that are equivalent to an escort rate and then don't provide much in the way of service. My biggest mistake was falling for this with a guy who had only mostly naked photos and a lot of sexually suggestive text in his ad. He kept his underwear on throughout the massage, redirected me every time I tried to touch him, and gave a poor massage to boot. It was a total waste of time and money and I think the guy knew exactly what he was doing -- intentionally misleading customers (though maybe guys who were more to his liking physically got a better experience than I did). Not saying what this guy will or won't provide...just suggesting that it's best to have more communication in advance about what a masseur's service consists of rather than making an assumption based on price or even photos and ad text.

This should be illegal everywhere. Barebacking someone without their knowledge/consent is reprehensible. If both parties agree during the heat of passion to remove the condom, that's entirely different. But a top deciding he wants to remove the condom and doing so without the knowledge of his partner is just wrong on so many levels.

And now the heyhellohi ad is gone, probably because its usefulness for him has played out after having scammed some men who in turn exposed his fraud online. Part of the problem is that it isn't easy to link a new new to an old ad, particularly if the scammer changes his phone number.

I agree that the photos are yummy, but for some reason I find myself doubting the legitimacy of the ad. Hopefully someone will contact him and report back whether the person running the ad is actually the person shown in the photos.

Now it would be interesting to find out if the owner of the property knew that porn was being shot there. Wasn't there a famous case involving Lucas Entertainment where they rented a house through AirBnB or some other website and then trashed the place while filming porn there? If the homeowner is gay and the property isn't damaged in any way, maybe he would get a kick out of knowing that these hot, young men were having sex where he lives. If not, I can imagine a homeowner not being thrilled to learn that their home was used for business purposes rather than as a vacation rental.

Rentmasseur is working for me today, but a few weeks ago I got automatically logged out and could not log back in using Firefox. I know I was typing the correct credentials and the CAPTCHA but it wouldn't work. Even while not logged in, if I clicked who was supposedly available now for my area the list was incomplete. I know this because at the same time I tested the site in Chrome and it not only let me log in but it also showed more providers as available now. I emailed their support. They replied that they were working on the issue. My problem was resolved the next day.

Part of me wants to applaud this. Another part of me just sees this as a calculated business move by someone wealthy to try to extract money from people for "designer" underwear when those same people already have access to clothing that will fit them that costs a lot less.

I know that some people do sex work who are barely getting by, and that maybe they are even doing that because they don't know what else they can do to survive, but I think most of the escorts discussed here are in a far better place in their lives financially speaking. As for how people communicate about other people, welcome to the world of online discourse. The internet brought society some good things, but elevating public discourse wasn't one of them. It's very easy to be overly nasty when hiding behind a keyboard. That being said, if you are talking about reviews I think it's perfectly legitimate that someone posts his thoughts/feelings about someone he hired who underperformed as long as he's being honest. Giving a negative review to an escort is just as legitimate as writing a negative review of a restaurant because the food wasn't good or the service was bad.

I wouldn't anticipate anything other than hanging out with him and admiring him (he lists modeling and BF experience in his RentMen ad). I know that many of us use the term "boyfriend experience" to indicate a more romantic, slower paced erotic encounter but due to Nate's not listing any physical activity maybe he has something else in mind.

I wonder what percentage of overnight or longer hires are for PnP versus just being clients who are looking for more of a "boyfriend experience" who can afford a longer session. I only have a sample of me and some knowledge of someone I used to hire regularly and I'd say his overnight and longer appointments were definitely the latter.

TMI from McCord, and Purcell does nothing for me. To each his own.

Click the Reviews link at the top of this page, then click Legacy Review Site (Formerly daddysviews.com).

A little feedback about him here with respect to his masseur ad, SkilledValentin. Also, if you go to the legacy review site and look for Julian in Orange County you will find two positive reviews from 3-5 years ago.

I'm sure it can be frustrating that people expect you to be available immediately when there is no indication that you work that way. However, there is an "available now" status on both Rentmen and Rentmasseur. I don't know what percentage of advertisers are actually available now ("now" meaning within perhaps the next half hour or hour by my standards) when they choose that status, but I know some guys are, indeed, available at short notice and others have never even responded to my inquiry. I guess I look at it like this: I used to work temporary office jobs in the late 1980s. Part of the gig was that I got ready for work and then called a few different agencies to see if they had any work for me that day. Sometimes the answer was no but frequently the answer was yes, and I'd get the job information from them and head out immediately. In other words, I was "available now" to go to work. As a client, I frequently am "available now" to head to someone's place when I contact him but I typically expect that guys aren't really available immediately. It's certainly reasonable to me that someone who says he's available now to actually need an hour or two to get ready. Or maybe even longer if he's already received other bookings for that day and just hasn't updated his ad status. From what I've read here, though, lots of providers do not have a steady stream of clients all day every day so I assume that at least some guys are at home online, already showered and basically ready to work relatively soon because they are in business and want to make money.

He's got a hot body but nothing else about that ad would inspire me to hire him. I don't know why he chose the name Depay, but it doesn't create a good image.

I don't see any equivalency to being okay with hiring escorts. Paying someone for sex is illegal, but apart from that it does not necessarily have a negative impact on one's health. Consuming enough alcohol to reach a blood alcohol level of greater than .15 is unhealthy physically and can certainly lead that person to put themselves in danger they wouldn't ordinarily accept if they were sober. And, again, I am referring to people who have been around the block enough times to have first hand experience with this and thus should be able to gauge how much is too much for themselves. It takes a lot of alcohol to reach the point where you don't know what you're doing. Young people acting recklessly is not excusable if they end up hurting someone else, but it is understandable given lack of life experience.

I doubt it was the weed. More than likely simply excess alcohol consumption. This is coming from someone who used to abuse both alcohol and marijuana. Marijuana isn't going to make you lose your memory of what happened. You won't lose your balance. The most likely adverse effect for some people is paranoia. Alcohol, on the other hand, is quite debilitating when someone consumes too much. One can definitely pass out and/or fall over. After excessive consumption, one will continue to appear functional (by that I mean they are still conscious) but seriously drunk but the next day they won't remember anything. Someone abuses alcohol to that extent is lucky if they have someone who looks out for them, making sure they get home without getting into some sort of accident. I still drink on occasion, but very little. I can count on one hand the number of times I have smoked pot over the past 20 years. Not excusing excessive "partying" by those who are young, but at least I can understand the desire to explore different substances when one is a young adult and exploring a lot of other things as well. Someone who is middle aged who gets so drunk that he cannot remember the next day what happened is just pathetic.

The only way to know what a provider offers ahead of time, I think, is to communicate. Some guys do post nude photos and provide an erotic experience. Other guys post nude photos and have high rates but don't provide the experience one might expect. If you don't want to gamble, then ask in advance what you can expect.

A little bit of chatter from about a year ago:

Glad to know that he's legit and a nice guy. I just read the interview in his ad and it's clear he's a funny guy. How refreshing that someone actually injected some personality into a Rentmen ad.

Just noticed this new ad for someone in San Francisco who is calling himself OTTOmobileMATE. His entire ad is worded using automobile language -- silly in a way but I think it's also clever.