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Are we talking about the Townhouse on 58th Street? I've never heard of this place. I'd love an excuse to get off Rentmen.
 

The bottom line here as others have said, is to have clear communication up front about what is/is not expected.
As a client, I would expect to pay for all meals, snacks, coffee, drinks, etc.  Maybe some cash so they have some mad money for the week (this should be agreed in advance).  I would also assume I would "splurge" for a few things, but those should be splurges and not expected.  It should be a nice surprise when you do pick up the bill, and the provider should be grateful.  
I could see some providers thinking they can go on a shopping spree, that's why it's important to establish boundaries up front so they know that's out of bounds.
It would also be important to discuss other things like:
- do he / you get downtime (apart) ?
- can you / he see other clients/providers or hookup while traveling together?
- is he open to hiring a 3rd if the opportunity presents?
- are substances permitted?  how about drunkenness?
- what are your expectations about sex - frequency?  limits?  on-demand?
- is PDA permitted/expected?
- what's your body clock schedule?  What time do you expect to start and end your day?  Being a morning person and being with someone who is a late sleeper (or vice versa) can be annoying
- What are your habits - gym? Naps? snacks? computer time?
- What's your activity level?  What kinds of activities or excursions will you do while traveling?  Do you have physical limits or limitations?
- what are your food likes and dislikes (or allergies), traveling with a vegan could be quite limiting
As the client, I think it's primarily your responsibility to communicate your needs/limits and where you are willing to be flexible.

...or the "drippies"  💦

Are we talking about the Townhouse on 58th Street? I've never heard of this place. I'd love an excuse to get off Rentmen.
 

Are we talking about the Townhouse on 58th Street? I've never heard of this place. I'd love an excuse to get off Rentmen.
 

That's how they trap you, but that is also your mistake. 
Sometimes when big jobs come along it is tempting to move from our normal boundaries.  While this client may be kind and generous in some ways - he at best has issues with the client/provider dynamic, and at worst is trying to get more for nothing. And the deception about the uber in order to leave you stranded in another city, what a frightful and actually scary way to behave. 
When these situations arise and people are negotiating big trips, it can be hard because you want to be flexible enough to land the big gig, but also you have to be able to walkaway afterwards (or during) feeling devalued. We have to be able to say "my daily rate is XYZ", and what happened to you on this trip is why. You need to be able to walk away from a negation. I personally price my long trips quite high because the reality is, being 'ON' 24/7 is draining, emotionally, physically and very taxing. 
Having said that - @RALLX If i was making an international trip with a client and forgot to pack my shaver, I would hope my client didn't make such a big deal of it. I have forgotten things like that. But I also wouldn't be so rude as to insist on certain brands and so forth with clothes. Good luck for your next trips and although everything should be discussed first, it is normal that a provider is not out of pocket for the trip. So drinks/food/activities are covered by the client. If the provider wants to buy themselves something while they are away, they can, and if the client wants to buy the provider gifts - they can. Gifts are never to be 'expected'.  Not by anyone with manners anyway.  

I think this situation would involve a certain amount of financial risk for the providers, depending on how many clients actually showed up.  Could be super lucrative, or could be a big flop. 
The key would be finding providers who are excited enough about group play to take the risk.  

Thanks for this great idea.i’d be interested in a NYC event.

I'm into this fantasy! I like to perform for an audience!
 
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I'm into this fantasy! I like to perform for an audience!
 
 https://rent.men/date_robert

I'm into this fantasy! I like to perform for an audience!
 
 https://rent.men/date_robert

I can travel to CT
https://rent.men/date_robert
 

I can travel to CT
https://rent.men/date_robert
 

I can travel to CT
https://rent.men/date_robert
 

This is "Date_Robert"  
@SGBK5632 Thank you for the recommendation and kind words!