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big-n-tall reacted to RadioRob in And we're back...
Greetings folks...
As you might have noticed, this site has been offline since around mid-day Tuesday. Our prior hosting provider decided that they are unable to continue hosting our website and had ended service to us. Unfortunately they did not provide any notification to me about this decision and I was forced to move the site to a new server without any sort of heads up. This includes arranging for the new hosting company, configuring the new server to meet the technical requirements, getting a copy of our current data, restoring that data (over 300GB of files), recovering the database (over 18.5 million records in that database taking up 11GB of space for the DB alone), and reconfiguring the software itself to run in the new environment.
While migrating there was also some technical issues that I ran into that required me to coordinate with Invision's technical support team. So that back and forth added additional time to the mix as well.
And to pile on further… all of this occurred while I'm traveling for my day job. So I've been doing this while in a hotel in between doing my day job on the road.
There are most likely several other things that will need to be fixed still and I'm working through them. For example, email may only be partially working. I still need to setup things like SPF and DKIM for the new server so our emails don't flag as spam. There are other settings that might need to be redone to work in the new server as well that I'm not thinking about yet. (As you might have imagined, I've not had much sleep during this whole process.)
But anyway... you get the idea. No... we're not going anywhere! This was a minor setback but we'll continue to move forward. Thank you all for your understanding and support!
Rob
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big-n-tall reacted to maninsoma in buffer body = increased donation
If the guy has good business sense, he'll figure out what price point works best for him. Just because someone gets more buff doesn't automatically mean he can command more money if he already has a negative reputation for other reasons, or if he simply lives in a market where there aren't customers who will pay a higher price. In the right market, however, if the guy is otherwise a good escort I assume that the more attractive he becomes the more money he can request.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from Danny-Darko in EAGER TO PLEASE DOESN'T BEGIN TO TELL THE TAIL. . .
I haven’t met him but he does porn under the name Michael Vente.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Who is your ‘best of the year’ so far for 2025?
Well this year I haven’t met any new providers but my regulars continue to shine. It’ll be hard to choose which one was the best because my interactions with each can be so different.
However, I did meet a new masseur who I am eager to see again.
https://rentmasseur.com/JordanJSQ
I think he has an escort ad but last time I checked it was expired. I don’t know if it’s back up.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from Existinguser in 411 on Onyxforu ?
I think he's just using Rentmen as an additional way to reach the masses to his massage services. If you read that contents of his ad, it's definitely for massage services over escorting. He's advertising just a erotic massage on both sites.
I wish he were a full service escort because his body is beautiful from head to toe. He's genuinely a sweet guy, with me anyway.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from Scholomance13 in Who is your ‘best of the year’ so far for 2025?
Well this year I haven’t met any new providers but my regulars continue to shine. It’ll be hard to choose which one was the best because my interactions with each can be so different.
However, I did meet a new masseur who I am eager to see again.
https://rentmasseur.com/JordanJSQ
I think he has an escort ad but last time I checked it was expired. I don’t know if it’s back up.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from TorontoDrew in Who is your ‘best of the year’ so far for 2025?
Well this year I haven’t met any new providers but my regulars continue to shine. It’ll be hard to choose which one was the best because my interactions with each can be so different.
However, I did meet a new masseur who I am eager to see again.
https://rentmasseur.com/JordanJSQ
I think he has an escort ad but last time I checked it was expired. I don’t know if it’s back up.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from TomKTwoZero in Who is your ‘best of the year’ so far for 2025?
Well this year I haven’t met any new providers but my regulars continue to shine. It’ll be hard to choose which one was the best because my interactions with each can be so different.
However, I did meet a new masseur who I am eager to see again.
https://rentmasseur.com/JordanJSQ
I think he has an escort ad but last time I checked it was expired. I don’t know if it’s back up.
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big-n-tall reacted to robberbaron4u in EAGER TO PLEASE DOESN'T BEGIN TO TELL THE TAIL. . .
Please! "Porn"?!? Rather, "film erotique". Let us show folk that we got kulture.
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big-n-tall reacted to DMICS in “Available For Videos” what does this mean?
This.
Could mean:
- Fine with filming for private enjoyment or content sites, socials
- Virtual sessions
- Personalized videos for clients
- Open to being hired by studios for film work
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big-n-tall reacted to Nightowl in “Available For Videos” what does this mean?
Could mean a number of things. Best to ask.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from + sf westcoaster in Onlyfans upsells
I did subscribe to one individual. When he started all his vids were non pay-per-view (ppv). He was getting frustrated and I guess not making the money he expected. So he decided to switch his longer vids to ppv. I bought one or two. Then I decided to cancel my membership because he wasn’t making enough content that was non-ppv.
Although I haven’t subscribed to anyone new, there are guys who explicitly state that all their content is non-ppv. I’d stick to those guys in the future should I decide to subscribe again.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from tallclaude in men/RauryMoore
I haven't met him but he has been listed as a dancer at the various Adonis Lounge events in the recent past.
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big-n-tall reacted to MikeThomas in Trimix Gel ?
Hmmm.... can't find him on rent.men
https://rent.men/trimixgel
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big-n-tall got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Sensual vs Erotic
I don’t expect anything other than what is stated (in their ad) or discussed with the masseur.
In my experience what happens further typically depends on the individual masseur.
I was surprised by how far some went after stating what they would or would not do. Others were strictly by the book or willing to up-charge for other things.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from maninsoma in Sensual vs Erotic
I don’t expect anything other than what is stated (in their ad) or discussed with the masseur.
In my experience what happens further typically depends on the individual masseur.
I was surprised by how far some went after stating what they would or would not do. Others were strictly by the book or willing to up-charge for other things.
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big-n-tall reacted to MuscSami in MuscSami - Relocated to Europe
Relocated permanently to London, UK.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from jmichaeliii in Sensual vs Erotic
I don’t expect anything other than what is stated (in their ad) or discussed with the masseur.
In my experience what happens further typically depends on the individual masseur.
I was surprised by how far some went after stating what they would or would not do. Others were strictly by the book or willing to up-charge for other things.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from jimbosf in Sensual vs Erotic
I don’t expect anything other than what is stated (in their ad) or discussed with the masseur.
In my experience what happens further typically depends on the individual masseur.
I was surprised by how far some went after stating what they would or would not do. Others were strictly by the book or willing to up-charge for other things.
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big-n-tall reacted to RugbyBen in Sensual vs Erotic
Unless they've specifically detailed what it entails i try and go in with no expectations.
Then what happens tend to depend on what the masseur feels like at the time.
I've certainly had masseurs go further with me than they have with others and vice versa.
The surprise of it is often the best part.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from RandyVue in Sensual vs Erotic
I don’t expect anything other than what is stated (in their ad) or discussed with the masseur.
In my experience what happens further typically depends on the individual masseur.
I was surprised by how far some went after stating what they would or would not do. Others were strictly by the book or willing to up-charge for other things.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Hiring porn stars
First and foremost, if I find a provider attractive—whether they do porn or not—I’m interested. I don’t book someone because they’re a porn actor. The only advantage porn gives me, especially amateur or non-studio content, is that it helps me see what they actually look like from all angles, what they’re capable of, and sometimes gives a glimpse into their personality.
A lot of people approach porn actors with this kind of mystique, built up from what they’ve seen on camera. But many porn actors don’t want to be put on a pedestal during an encounter—unless it’s part of the roleplay. 😊 Most of them just want to be treated normally and made to feel sexy, just like the client does. Honestly, I’ve never met a porn actor who was full of themselves or rude. In fact, echoing @ApexNomad’s point, they’ve usually been kind, respectful, and created a safe, judgment-free space—for me and vice versa. Maybe I’m just good at picking the easygoing ones. Who knows?
Another common assumption is that porn actors always charge a premium. I haven’t found that to be true. Sure, one big-name porn actor I saw regularly was probably my most expensive weekend hire—but that was mostly because I paid for his travel from Argentina. When he was already in the country, his rates were much more reasonable. In fact, his overnight/weekend rate ended up being cheaper per hour than his hourly rate. Another well-known porn actor only charged $500 per night for a weekend—and he was also a chef. One day, he even went grocery shopping just to cook for me.
I’ve been hiring since around 2007 and have met a fair number of porn actors and non-porn providers. Most of those encounters have been good to great. I can count the “meh” or bad ones on one hand. Ironically, the worst experience I ever had was with a guy who had done a few scenes for Circle Jerk Boys. On the flip side, one of the best experiences I’ve ever had was with a frequent Sean Cody model. But I don’t let either of those define my expectations. Every hire is a case-by-case situation—you either click, or you don’t.
Right now, one of my regulars is a porn actor, and we have some of the best times—both socially and in the bedroom. He’s been an incredible hire. At the end of the day, porn actors are just people. Some might be jerks, but most aren’t. I get the hesitation some folks have, especially if they’ve had one bad experience—but that doesn’t mean they’re all the same. And while some might charge premium rates, many don’t. I can definitely vouch for that.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in TheRehabJock in Los Angeles, San Diego soon.
I met this masseur 2 years ago when I was visiting San Diego. He used the name Jock Therapy. He was visiting with his significant other. In fact his SO dropped him off at my hotel and went for a drink while we were having our session. At one point the masseur asked me did I want his SO to join in the massage session. I declined. Mainly because I was still a bit green with erotic massages and wasn’t sure what to expect.
I don’t remember much about the amount of pressure but I do remember he used his whole body to massage me. He got naked immediately and he was aroused most of the session. It got fairly sexual without penetration.
He’s attractive and has a beautiful lean sculpted body (as seen in his ad pics). I’d hire him again if our paths crossed again.
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big-n-tall got a reaction from + 7829V in TheRehabJock in Los Angeles, San Diego soon.
I met this masseur 2 years ago when I was visiting San Diego. He used the name Jock Therapy. He was visiting with his significant other. In fact his SO dropped him off at my hotel and went for a drink while we were having our session. At one point the masseur asked me did I want his SO to join in the massage session. I declined. Mainly because I was still a bit green with erotic massages and wasn’t sure what to expect.
I don’t remember much about the amount of pressure but I do remember he used his whole body to massage me. He got naked immediately and he was aroused most of the session. It got fairly sexual without penetration.
He’s attractive and has a beautiful lean sculpted body (as seen in his ad pics). I’d hire him again if our paths crossed again.