Reputation from big-n-tall - The Company of Men

big-n-tall got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in Expectations after cum Wednesday at 03:13 PM

I have no real expectations, except that the provider stays the entire time agreed upon (if I or both of us climax before times up). I've only had a few guys up and go after I climax. Most stay and at least talk, some cuddle, some want to go again (because they know I can climax multiple times if properly motivated. LOL).
There has been a small number that after our session was over they want to still talk/cuddle/fool around. Those are usually regulars though. Although occasionally, a new guy will want to do one or all of the 3. One of my newer regulars, the first time we meet (after I came twice), he wanted to stay and go again. Sadly, I couldn't because I had made dinner plans with friends I hadn't seen in awhile. We had already ended our agreed upon time and yet he wanted to stay longer at no additional cost. He has become one of my favorites.
When the times up, I let the provider give indication of should I stay or I go... or if he came to me, should he stay or go.

big-n-tall got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in Running into your masseur Tuesday at 08:17 PM

I don’t recall randomly running into providers out in the wild.
However, there are a few that I’ve become rather close with and if we’re in the same town but don’t have time for a hiring situation we have sought each other out, to at least say hi.
The most recent time this happened was in July. I was in San Diego and one of my close regulars was dancing there. He had a brief opportunity to meet and I went to see him. We gave each other a hug and kiss talked a bit. Hugged each other goodbye and he was on his way back to his dancing gig.
With that said, I guess I don’t have a problem overall if a provider and I run into each other in public… but it might be situational. If I was at a work event I would at least acknowledge the guy but probably wouldn’t engage. Any other time I would have no problem with interacting out in the wild.

big-n-tall reacted to jackcali in Advertisers getting testy with lurkers. Tuesday at 02:51 PM

Another strategy is to put the providers you're following on your buddies list. Then, you can go to your buddies list and click on the "Buddy Activity" button. It shows changes to travel plans as well as availability and the posting of new pictures and new reviews. That way, you don't have to "lurk" on their profiles.

big-n-tall got a reaction from + Pensant in Advertisers getting testy with lurkers. Tuesday at 12:15 PM

Because some feel that you aren’t window shopping but are getting off from their pics with no intention to hire. So they’ll block.
I don’t think it’s personal. I think they get a lot of flakes contacting them, so they become rather jaded to anyone they don’t think is serious. @BuffaloKyle offered a good solution to avoid them knowing you are checking them out regularly.
As for the contact info, they usually have a number or messenger through the site, but it usually only can be seen once you log in. I have never encounter a providers ad that never had a way of contacting them (particularly after you logged in).
Also because they are trying to force people to use rent.men over rentmen.eu… rentmen.eu’s features are disabled and it doesn’t function like rent.men. The provider’s info may not be show up on the older version.

big-n-tall got a reaction from mike carey in Advertisers getting testy with lurkers. Tuesday at 11:43 AM

Because some feel that you aren’t window shopping but are getting off from their pics with no intention to hire. So they’ll block.
I don’t think it’s personal. I think they get a lot of flakes contacting them, so they become rather jaded to anyone they don’t think is serious. @BuffaloKyle offered a good solution to avoid them knowing you are checking them out regularly.
As for the contact info, they usually have a number or messenger through the site, but it usually only can be seen once you log in. I have never encounter a providers ad that never had a way of contacting them (particularly after you logged in).
Also because they are trying to force people to use rent.men over rentmen.eu… rentmen.eu’s features are disabled and it doesn’t function like rent.men. The provider’s info may not be show up on the older version.

big-n-tall got a reaction from kyleham in 411 Vengador in NYC Monday at 02:46 PM

He dances regularly for Adonis Lounge. A number of their dancers have been popping up on RM relatively recently. That's all I got.

big-n-tall got a reaction from DMonDude in Running into your masseur October 3

I don’t recall randomly running into providers out in the wild.
However, there are a few that I’ve become rather close with and if we’re in the same town but don’t have time for a hiring situation we have sought each other out, to at least say hi.
The most recent time this happened was in July. I was in San Diego and one of my close regulars was dancing there. He had a brief opportunity to meet and I went to see him. We gave each other a hug and kiss talked a bit. Hugged each other goodbye and he was on his way back to his dancing gig.
With that said, I guess I don’t have a problem overall if a provider and I run into each other in public… but it might be situational. If I was at a work event I would at least acknowledge the guy but probably wouldn’t engage. Any other time I would have no problem with interacting out in the wild.

big-n-tall got a reaction from + azdr0710 in Available for videos October 3

It could mean a few things. …that they are available to film for studio porn/fan content or for private sessions or maybe they click it as a ploy to get more interest. It’s best to ask the provider directly because only that individual can give you the answer of what it means to them.

big-n-tall got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Manny-Sean Cody October 2

I talked about my experience with him and trying to meet, previously. It should have been a warning sign. He looks like his pics for sure. However, the experience was lackluster to the extreme. I think he’s a nice guy, but the Manny/Bruno Baxter you see on film… that personality wasn’t remotely there. Don’t expect him to put any real effort into the encounter.
As a frame of reference, I have hired porn actors many times and only 2 others (besides Manny/Bruno) were a disappointment. Those were definitely outliers in my experience.
And yes he was escorting for years… even before porn actors on Sean Cody were allowed to openly escort. He stopped openly escorting and seemed to retire from it. I meet him during that “retired” time.

big-n-tall reacted to Buff Daddy in Adonis and Buffdaddy NYC September 30

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big-n-tall reacted to LookingAround in % of clients who are straight September 28

Interestingly I've been asked my orientation several times at the men's spa where I go for massage and I think it's because I always got a high score on straightacting.com back when it existed 😂😂😂. I think they were trying to figure out my story. So when I told them I was a gold star gay they were really surprised. Lol

big-n-tall got a reaction from williamv in Derek Bolt Finally Escorting September 26

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big-n-tall got a reaction from + Just Sayin in Who makes the first move September 25

So far, in my experiences, the masseur makes the first move. During a massage laying on my stomach, with arms at the side, is not the most convenient position to touch someone. The masseur will usually touch me in a certain area, put their private area directly in my hand, brush their privates near my face, kiss or whisper in ear, rub their erection between my cheeks, or a combo of all the preceding.
Of the masseurs I've met, only 2 were waiting or willing for me to make the first move. BlissBodyWork told me after our session, he couldn't get a read on me. He didn't know what I was up for until he turned me over and saw that I was aroused. Where by I really played with his body before he started playing with mine sensually/erotically. He was maybe the 2nd masseur I saw. I was a bit green about what to do in a sensual/erotic massage. I've been trying to see him again but our schedules never work out.
The other guy, IntimateTouch, has sadly retired. I don't know why but we seemed to have a very good connection. He was very affectionate. I think he hugged (and growled) with everyone, even with first-timers, when they met. However, after the first time, I would kiss him and we would make out fully... which sometimes led directly to sex before the massage. I think we had more sex than massage time. God... that man was so fun and so sexy. I miss him.

big-n-tall got a reaction from + bkwiseass in Derek Bolt Finally Escorting September 25