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    big-n-tall reacted to Nightowl in Do you ever question it?   
    You’ve probably seen comments here like ”Your mileage may vary.”. There’s a lot of truth in that.  Different people often have different experiences with the same provider.  Those clients aren’t necessarily lying if they write glowing comments about someone that you weren’t impressed by.  
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from Topform in 411 on Paulvv in NYC   
    He's not new new, but has been advertising for at least a year. He used to go by Markusc (on Rentmen and I think Rentmasseur). He took his ad down for a month or two and came back with new ads with different names on both.
    With that said, I hired him for an sensual/erotic massage. It was a decent massage that became very erotic towards the end. He looks just like his pics and has a beautiful body with amazingly smooth skin. When I met him he didn't have tha shoulder chest tattoo. English clearly isn't his first language but we understood each other verbally for the most part.
    I had planned to hire him as a provider, but that's when he took down his previous ad. So I never got the chance. If he comes back my way I plan to.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from MassageCommunityMember in What gets you going in a massage?   
    A few things... usually when they touch or rub around my lower back... can set me off. Also if they start rubbing their faces against mine. The other thing that not everybody does, is when they use their whole body to massage me... gliding from the top down and I can feel their dick slide between my ass cheeks as they slide down.
    One guy drives me nuts just by a look. Usually when I'm already aroused and he would flip me over, he'd get this glimmer in his eye, smile devilishly, growl, and start touching my erection. Soon as he does this if he wasn't already erect, it usually made him hard instantly. A shame he is retired/on hiatus.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from Luv2play in Overnight preference   
    For me, it depends on a number of factors.
    One of my frequent regulars, when he comes to visit me, I'll try to book a hotel with multiple beds or separate rooms. It's not that I don't like cuddling next to him, but I know he works hard at his day job and I want to be in as much comfort as possible when he visits. He seems to appreciate this a lot and shows it. We have gone on trips places where we share a bed and that works out too.
    For me, my biggest issue is I can run hot. Being snuggled up to someone all night, if the room isn't cool enough, can be unbearable. Although some guys love that I am so physically warm and it makes them want to snuggle more (especially in winter). 😱 😆
    If I'm sharing a bed, I make sure it's the largest the hotel offers. I will definitely cuddle/snuggle but I can't do it all night usually. A large bed allows us to have our sides, but we can cuddle or whatever else any time.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from + SidewaysDM in Who WOULD you pay $1000 for one hour with?   
    I'm going to add another... Jeid Vine.




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    big-n-tall reacted to sjmuktop in When do you consider your client/provider a regular?   
    Client here.
    I suppose after I've been to see an escort maybe 3 or 4 times, and with every intention in my mind of seeing him many more times after that; that is when he has become a 'regular' to me.
    I've had a number of regulars over the years, and have a couple of them at the moment. One of them I have been seeing since early 2018, and the other I've been seeing since early 2024.
    Do I treat my regular guys any differently to any of the other escorts I hire who are not regulars? Nope. The non-regulars receive the same level of respect, kindness, courtesy, and gratitude from me as my regular guys do. 
    What is different is the dynamic that exists between me and my regular guys. What I mean by that, is things like the fact that I can have banter with my regular guys that I wouldn't be able to have with new hires. Also the way I would interact with the regular ones is like how I would interact with old friends. There is familiarity, long and well established rapport, and a general feeling of total ease and comfort. In other words, you 'know' your regular guys, and this is reflected in the dynamics during interactions. 
    Now, this is purely anecdotal, but I also find that it isn't unusual for guys who you've been hiring for a long time (maybe once you've been hiring them regularly for many months or for more than a year), to be OK with letting you see them for a lower rate than they would charge to newer or less frequent / irregular clients. I would never expect that from any of them, but it is appreciated whenever a guy allows me to pay for a session at a reduced rate from the one that he advertises on his Sleepyboy or RentMen profile (suppose it's rewarding customer loyalty, in the same way that traditional businesses sometimes offer loyal customers discounts on products / services). 
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    big-n-tall reacted to + JamesB in RentMasseur Review Backlash   
    If you were paying him what he asked for, why would he be disappointed?
    If you were to pay a lower fee to another provider, will he then lower his fee?
    Tell him to grow up or find another client.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from + Just Sayin in When do you get aroused during a massage?   
    It depends... mainly on what the masseur is doing and where he's doing it. It usually doesn't happen until I'm laying on my back.
    If he's kneading deep into any part of my body and its causing even the slightest discomfort, I'm not aroused. If I'm aroused before then I'll lose it once that deep massaging starts.
    My erogenous zones are on or near my head. So if he's gently playing with my ears; massaging my neck; breathing heavy on my neck or ears; or gently brushing my lips... I'm up. Shea in Orlando was amazing at this.

    If the masseur rubs/brushes my nether regions frequently... it can happen. Or if the guy uses his whole body and rubs up and down my body while I'm laying on my stomach... it can happen.
    The one masseur, who no matter what he did when he did it, I was always immediately aroused, sadly retired. I was aroused just greeting him at the door. I mean he would embrace you with a deep gripping hug and growl in your ear.
    To each his own, and different people will be aroused by different things during a massage.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from Redwine56 in When do you get aroused during a massage?   
    It depends... mainly on what the masseur is doing and where he's doing it. It usually doesn't happen until I'm laying on my back.
    If he's kneading deep into any part of my body and its causing even the slightest discomfort, I'm not aroused. If I'm aroused before then I'll lose it once that deep massaging starts.
    My erogenous zones are on or near my head. So if he's gently playing with my ears; massaging my neck; breathing heavy on my neck or ears; or gently brushing my lips... I'm up. Shea in Orlando was amazing at this.

    If the masseur rubs/brushes my nether regions frequently... it can happen. Or if the guy uses his whole body and rubs up and down my body while I'm laying on my stomach... it can happen.
    The one masseur, who no matter what he did when he did it, I was always immediately aroused, sadly retired. I was aroused just greeting him at the door. I mean he would embrace you with a deep gripping hug and growl in your ear.
    To each his own, and different people will be aroused by different things during a massage.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from liubit in Overnight preference   
    For me, it depends on a number of factors.
    One of my frequent regulars, when he comes to visit me, I'll try to book a hotel with multiple beds or separate rooms. It's not that I don't like cuddling next to him, but I know he works hard at his day job and I want to be in as much comfort as possible when he visits. He seems to appreciate this a lot and shows it. We have gone on trips places where we share a bed and that works out too.
    For me, my biggest issue is I can run hot. Being snuggled up to someone all night, if the room isn't cool enough, can be unbearable. Although some guys love that I am so physically warm and it makes them want to snuggle more (especially in winter). 😱 😆
    If I'm sharing a bed, I make sure it's the largest the hotel offers. I will definitely cuddle/snuggle but I can't do it all night usually. A large bed allows us to have our sides, but we can cuddle or whatever else any time.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from + SidewaysDM in Overnight preference   
    For me, it depends on a number of factors.
    One of my frequent regulars, when he comes to visit me, I'll try to book a hotel with multiple beds or separate rooms. It's not that I don't like cuddling next to him, but I know he works hard at his day job and I want to be in as much comfort as possible when he visits. He seems to appreciate this a lot and shows it. We have gone on trips places where we share a bed and that works out too.
    For me, my biggest issue is I can run hot. Being snuggled up to someone all night, if the room isn't cool enough, can be unbearable. Although some guys love that I am so physically warm and it makes them want to snuggle more (especially in winter). 😱 😆
    If I'm sharing a bed, I make sure it's the largest the hotel offers. I will definitely cuddle/snuggle but I can't do it all night usually. A large bed allows us to have our sides, but we can cuddle or whatever else any time.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from Dolman in 411 on Roxas_caelum   
    Instead of assuming... ask him.

    Many on this forum make assumptions and never progress to any meet up because they believe something they never do anything about to verify.
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    big-n-tall reacted to + azdr0710 in Overnight preference   
    another person in my bed??.....hell, I don't sleep well if another person is even in my house!......
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    big-n-tall reacted to Reggyreg56 in 411 on Roxas_caelum   
    Yes, you're right. Actually I reached out to him a short while ago. Lol
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from DMonDude in 411 on Roxas_caelum   
    Instead of assuming... ask him.

    Many on this forum make assumptions and never progress to any meet up because they believe something they never do anything about to verify.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from + Pensant in 411 on Roxas_caelum   
    Instead of assuming... ask him.

    Many on this forum make assumptions and never progress to any meet up because they believe something they never do anything about to verify.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from mike carey in 411 on Roxas_caelum   
    Instead of assuming... ask him.

    Many on this forum make assumptions and never progress to any meet up because they believe something they never do anything about to verify.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from Danny-Darko in Who WOULD you pay $1000 for one hour with?   
    I'm going to add another... Jeid Vine.




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    big-n-tall got a reaction from 56harrisond in When do you get aroused during a massage?   
    It depends... mainly on what the masseur is doing and where he's doing it. It usually doesn't happen until I'm laying on my back.
    If he's kneading deep into any part of my body and its causing even the slightest discomfort, I'm not aroused. If I'm aroused before then I'll lose it once that deep massaging starts.
    My erogenous zones are on or near my head. So if he's gently playing with my ears; massaging my neck; breathing heavy on my neck or ears; or gently brushing my lips... I'm up. Shea in Orlando was amazing at this.

    If the masseur rubs/brushes my nether regions frequently... it can happen. Or if the guy uses his whole body and rubs up and down my body while I'm laying on my stomach... it can happen.
    The one masseur, who no matter what he did when he did it, I was always immediately aroused, sadly retired. I was aroused just greeting him at the door. I mean he would embrace you with a deep gripping hug and growl in your ear.
    To each his own, and different people will be aroused by different things during a massage.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from + azdr0710 in JuniorAZ   
    I haven’t met the provider but I’m always skeptical when a new poster out of the blue tosses a bomb about a provider and doesn’t have some type of explanation or follow through. I’m not saying all newbies are suspect but clearly sometimes people come on here with vendettas.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from Poppie in Who WOULD you pay $1000 for one hour with?   
    I'm going to add another... Jeid Vine.




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    big-n-tall got a reaction from Boink in Who WOULD you pay $1000 for one hour with?   
    I'm going to add another... Jeid Vine.




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    big-n-tall got a reaction from + bkwiseass in 411 on NoelB in NYC   
    Well his ad says he join RM Dec 28... if real, he's too new to get any proper feedback from the forum.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from pubic_assistance in 411 on NoelB in NYC   
    Well his ad says he join RM Dec 28... if real, he's too new to get any proper feedback from the forum.
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    big-n-tall got a reaction from caramelsub in Who WOULD you pay $1000 for one hour with?   
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