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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + Charlie in Age and attitudes on nudity
I will add, it's a very American behavior to be afraid and/or intimidated by public nudity.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + Charlie in Age and attitudes on nudity
100% spot on.
I work out at shirtless gyms, but still see a ton of guys stay covered up on the weight floor.
It's their prerogative, but it's the same strange feeling I get from guys who come into steam/sauna in clothing (fucking gross) or shower in their underwear.
It just seems like so much work to avoid being seen naked.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + Charlie in Age and attitudes on nudity
If you're lucky, you get to a point in life where you just accept who you are. You stop doubting, picking apart and finding fault with what you see.
It's what I call the 'fuck all' moment.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + Charlie in Age and attitudes on nudity
Nudity isn't generational. It's about confidence and some maturity.
Ever seen a 20-something in a bathhouse? They have zero game.
As we get older, we learn who we are and we get comfortable with ourselves.
Sadly, we can't all be old souls.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Age and attitudes on nudity
The fun thing about the environment is that it's not really in-your-face sexual, but since it's all naked guys, there's something inherently sexy about it.
It's a gigantic tease without being as overt as a gay bath.
I also tend to pick my group carefully when it comes to inviting them to Kspa. Not everyone is cut out for it.
The really fun part is scheduling the virgins a scrub and seeing how they fare
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Age and attitudes on nudity
If you want to quickly get used to being naked for long periods of time, I'd suggest visiting a Kspa.
You'll get over it within the first five minutes. Then, it feels perfectly normal.
I've taken several friends who thought they'd hate it, but ended up loving the experience.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Frankcal in Age and attitudes on nudity
Jesus, you're being a priss.
I bet you're a real hit at parties and cocktail conversation.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Age and attitudes on nudity
When I travel, I aim to lift at gyms that allow no-shirt.
A lot of indoor/outdoor facilities have no problem with it.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from MRK in STD Testing
This is very, very smart.
I applaud anyone who understands that if you're having sex regularly, a yearly STD check is nowhere near enough.
I too get STD panels done every 30-45 days. You can never be too 'in the know' when it comes to your health.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from gdphilly in Is cum tasty?
I don't think it's about taste as much as it's about an exchange of power.
A guy who swallows a load isn't doing it because he's a Michelin inspector.
He does it because he knows his place.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Hen in Roman Todd is now available
Never confuse the art with the artist.
And why would this be shocking from a grown man? They do it all the time. An abuser is an abuser.
I have zero tolerance for this kind of shit and it's commonplace in that industry. Both gay and straight.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Danny-Darko in Asking a provider’s political affiliation?
If the escort is smart, he reads the room quickly and adjusts.
Cutting one's nose off to spite your face is often considered, and this is a technical term, a fucking stupid move.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + claym in 411 - Matty West
The real story in this thread is that MCR was called out on what appears to be his repeated bullshit and then ghosted the board after another escort (Angus Steven) came out with a correlating story to Matty's.
Always two sides to a story kids. Never take an anonymous troll at his word.
As for Matty, this guy looks like fun to me.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Pd1_jap in Any Recent Experiences with Rainer?
This. Less than a dozen posts and already a sniper. That's cause for question.
It also doesn't help that some of these replies sound either drunk or like they were put into a blender and someone hit the 'frappe' button.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from pubic_assistance in You nut fast? Is premature ejaculation a turn on to some bottoms?
Bottoms need to know how to get a dick in (by pushing out) and when to amp it up with a little strategically placed squeezing.
A truly skilled bottom can get my load in under five minutes.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Cock ring for longer session
This. 100%.
I like the feel of a heavy steel ring, but like you, it tends to make me cum very quickly when wearing it.
I need to get used to the feeling of it on a more regular basis to numb myself out to it a bit.
Wear it to the gym, etc. Not just for when I'm going to fuck.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from TorontoDrew in Asking a provider’s political affiliation?
If the escort is smart, he reads the room quickly and adjusts.
Cutting one's nose off to spite your face is often considered, and this is a technical term, a fucking stupid move.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in Gentlemen, gentlemen, gentlemen...
Sometimes an established member needs to remind the class of the cardinal rules.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from spidir in Toronto provider detained by US Immigration and refused entry
If you give them reasonable cause- any reason at all- they will push it. That's coming or going.
Luckily, as a US citizen, you cannot be denied entry into your own country.
I travel extensively and have for many years without issue. Global Entry background checks. SENTRI checks. I'm always hyper-aware of what I have on my person, my phone, my laptop, etc.
I would suggest to any other working guy who travels to do the same.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Rod Hagen in Weird experience as a provider I had today.
Four posts and one massive conspiracy theory.
Any proof for that claim?
Vice doesn't want clients. They never have. They go after street trade and the guys they see as also pushing drugs or pimping others.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from harlow in Weekend Expectations
1. Rate covers time. You're also expected to pay for airfare (if flying him somewhere). And yes, that rate should mean that his time is exclusive to you and only you (unless ya'll discuss otherwise).
2. The answer to this can be all over the board. Just talk with your potential date and see what his personal time needs are. For me, I hit the gym daily and that's a minimum of an hour. It also gives me a chance to quickly make private calls and return any text messages.
3. My advice to an escort is don't give a client a discount if you're not going to also give them the usual 110%.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from BonVivant in Hiring in Puerto Vallarta
PV ain't the deal it used to be. Same for CDMX.
Mexicans are raising their rates to match the massive influx of American escorts who vacation/work there on the constant.
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+ BenjaminNicholas got a reaction from Whoisyourdaddy in Weekend Expectations
Sorry you had to deal with all of that.
And based on your experience, perhaps this pic of Conner is just a little too on-the-nose...