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Argh why do escorts know this site?  We need to ban them.  LOL

We met up and had an excellent time. PM for details

Fuck that dude.
He's dead to me. 
Love you @SFChinois

It's always upsetting to be rejected like that by an escort or someone on the apps. I almost always (unless I forgot to) let the escort know I was fat when arranging the time together. I remember one reasonably popular escort from years ago -can't remember his name-said he had been fat as a child. And he couldn't deal with fat clients. My ego didn't feel great. But I was glad he was honest about it. It was far better to be rejected beforehand than with them there in front of me.
 
Luckily I'm not hiring now as I'm even fatter these days. It might (probably) would have happened anyway, but being on daily prednisone for 8-1/2 year has definitely not helped. 
 
Funny occurrence-years ago I hired a somewhat famous Belgian porn star for a weekend. I have his real name in my old Expedia Account. But I can't think of his porn-de-plume. I won't post his real name.  I think he worked for Falcon. Long time porn watchers may remember him. I believe he was from the Flanders area.
 
Anyway I was used to delaying meals in order to keep appointments because of the job I had at the time.
 
But when I was arranging the weekend, I had told him I was fat. To get the most out of our non-bedroom time I had scheduled a busy weekend including innertubing down the Guadalupe River in New Braunfels, Tx (by the way I took multiple escorts there over the years.  I think he was the only one not to enjoy it. He told me Europeans weren't into nature-or some crap like that. I said what about those sex scenes in places like the Grand Canyon. He told me that was different.), and probably an evening at Esther's Follies in Austin (the cities are about 48 miles apart).  I didn't starve the guy, but we did have places to be.  And there may have been long intervals between eating.  I could tell he wasn't happy. And at one point, he said to me when you told me you were fat I thought we'd be eating more regularly.  😂😂😂

Had a very sad encounter with this escort https://rentmen.eu/DanielTwinkk.  I do understand there is discrimination in all parts, but I do know it is very prevalent in the gay world (race, body type, age). However, I am always surprised when it happens to me.  LOL. I had messaged him and we had a very nice text convo about what I wanted etc.  He was fine and he said let me go clean up.  Then when I ask about how much more time he needed he asks to see photos.  I am always wary , but I did.  He wanted nudes, face, dick.  Then after 5-10 mins, he goes I think I have a client.  Umm wasn't I your client?  I can say that I am not out of shape and quite workout toned, but it is always a bummer when this happens.  It def makes you think...  Oh well. 

A link is always helpful.
https://rent.men/BreedemZay
 
His last 2 reviews in RM:
 
 

I highly recommend Fierceking

For my recent milestone birthday I rented out a hotel suite in WeHo, hired several gogo boys to dance, invited over a bunch of hot guys and had an orgy. One of the best birthdays I ever had. 

I honestly don't remember.   It couldn't have been absurd, because I won't pay ridiculous fees.   If I have to guess, I'd call it in the area of three bills.   I do recall that he wasn't a clock watcher.

It's almost as if people like different things and your idea of a dream profile is probably wildly different to OPs.

https://rent.men/Fierceking
very nice guy also! 

I had an amazing escort in San Francisco, named David.  We would have sex at Blow Buddies (sex club in SF, now closed).  It was so much fun.

That reminds me, I have to hire the right 2-3 guys to relive an outdoor cruising fantasy I had that got ruined in real life.  

Active only,  3 Bills

So which VPN are people recommending?  I’d like to see the comments 

Had another great time with Maus this past weekend.  Even though I only see him once or twice a year, the conversation and sex pick up right where we left off!  He continues to deliver with new ways to use his XL appendage each time 😊 

holy cow!....all the current buzzwords of the modern advertising and marketing world!!......"curate", "bespoke", "elevate", "vibrant", "experiences"........in fact, I wouldn't be surprised if AI had a hand in creating his ad text! 

Damn! Another pretty cock 

I saw Hunter recently at an event with nude male dancers. He looks great, better than the photos on his RM profile. Fun personality, open to all kinds of fun and willing and able to please the client for sure. I don't believe anyone's age on RM, so the numbers don't influence my decisions. I base my picks on the face and body, and of course recommendations like the one by TooSchoolForCool a few posts above. 

We must convene a meeting of the Saturday Evening Fine Arts Club to bring out the best in patrons. 

Hey guys - There is new provider in Los Angeles that I cannot recommend highly enough: Middleasternfit: https://rent.men/Middleasternfit
I gave him 5 stars in my Rentmen review, and here is what I said in the Rentmen.eu review (where you can write more):
 
I’ve had some great and memorable experiences before with some really wonderful escorts, but Middleasternfit is in a class by himself. He is passionate, sexy, and playful. He is a great kisser. He has an amazing, tight body. He has a huge, thick cock, and he sure knows how to use it. 
The man is an incredible lover. The sex was hot and intense. And it was also intimate and connected and sensual. He made the sex feel less like an encounter with a stranger and more like honeymoon sex.
Middleasternfit  is also very warm and thoughtful. He knew my birthday was coming up, and he greeted me a gourmet chocolate treat, and a few other surprises. It was such an amazing gesture, and says a lot about how attentive he is. 
I had an amazing, unforgettable time with Middleasternfit . Book some time with him. You’ll be grateful you did.
 

Would be nice to beleive that, but sadly not so. It may not be the fault of the kids today, sure. But the internet has made them grow up faster than their brains can handle it. Also the lack of company loyalty witnessed by their parents generation has killed any work ethic most may have had. Add to that the epidemic of single parents and elimination of shame in anything (living off the government, stealing, sense of entitlement), and it's a pretty bad situation. 

Sounds like you got a chorus of great advice and support. I know you dodged a bullet.
When I was in my late 20's, I had this thing for skinny, younger, masculine twinks, barely out of high school, but definitely over 18. I remember the feeling in the groin when someone fit the ideal, and the mind unveiled a fantasy like no other. Back in the day, a popular place to find someone was in and around seedy 42nd street. Boy do I have stories.
When I think of those stories today, I question my sanity. I could have easily been killed, or at least stabbed, many times. The mind at 19 is just way too unstable, especially for sex work. Today's 19 seems nothing like 19 of the 70's. Today's young bitches don't even pretend to know how to act. There may be a few good apples out there, but you shouldn't kid yourself. Playing with fire will more than likely get you burned.

Anyone?
Strange he's been around a while but no reviews.... Still, he's a hottie!
 
https://rentmasseur.com/crishype

Inspired by @7829V 's reporting, I thought I would share my experience at Mr. TJ's Only Boys Spa in Zona Centro yesterday; it was a delightful way to spend a part of the day.
I took the San Diego Trolley to the end of the line at San Ysidro, walked across the border and took an Uber to the Zona Centro location.  I had made an appointment for 11 AM, but arrived maybe 25 minutes earlier than that; the entry was was shuttered but in several minutes a young man arrived to open the spa for the day.  When he had done so, I told him I had requested a Turkish bath and a 60-minute massage; I'm not certain if he was aware of that, but it was fine with him, and I paid 2,000 pesos ($113) with my credit card.
The young man, Yahir, guided me to the massage room to change for the Turkish bath; he gave me a towel to wrap around my waist and a pair of sandals; that bath itself was luxurious; water, soap, scrubbing, repeat.  After a shower, we went back to the massage room; where Yahir, now nude, gave me what I thought was a good therapeutic massage with wonderful erotic touches (I couldn't help but grin at the time and I am grinning now as I write this!).  The session did turn into a deli experience; Yahir was so sweet that I wanted to adopt him and bring him home!  I had planned on tipping him $40, but I was so happy with the session that I gave him $60; he gave me a big smile.
Yahir, who I later learned was 25, had better skills in English than I had in Spanish, but that did not detract from my session in the least.
After lunch at Caesar's Restaurante on Av. Revolucion, I walked around a bit with my camera and, since I was dreading Friday afternoon lines going back to San Diego, I walked back to the port of entry, paid $20 for a bus to take me across the border, went through customs and took the trolley back to San Diego.
Yahir and I were alone the whole time, and that was fine; the place, as indicated above, is not fancy, but it is clean and I felt comfortable the whole time.
I'd encourage those of you who are interested in an adventure to consider this if you are visiting San Diego.  (I am still grinning!)