RacerXLA

holy cow!....all the current buzzwords of the modern advertising and marketing world!!......"curate", "bespoke", "elevate", "vibrant", "experiences"........in fact, I wouldn't be surprised if AI had a hand in creating his ad text! 

Damn! Another pretty cock 

I saw Hunter recently at an event with nude male dancers. He looks great, better than the photos on his RM profile. Fun personality, open to all kinds of fun and willing and able to please the client for sure. I don't believe anyone's age on RM, so the numbers don't influence my decisions. I base my picks on the face and body, and of course recommendations like the one by TooSchoolForCool a few posts above. 

We must convene a meeting of the Saturday Evening Fine Arts Club to bring out the best in patrons. 

Hey guys - There is new provider in Los Angeles that I cannot recommend highly enough: Middleasternfit: https://rent.men/Middleasternfit
I gave him 5 stars in my Rentmen review, and here is what I said in the Rentmen.eu review (where you can write more):
 
I’ve had some great and memorable experiences before with some really wonderful escorts, but Middleasternfit is in a class by himself. He is passionate, sexy, and playful. He is a great kisser. He has an amazing, tight body. He has a huge, thick cock, and he sure knows how to use it. 
The man is an incredible lover. The sex was hot and intense. And it was also intimate and connected and sensual. He made the sex feel less like an encounter with a stranger and more like honeymoon sex.
Middleasternfit  is also very warm and thoughtful. He knew my birthday was coming up, and he greeted me a gourmet chocolate treat, and a few other surprises. It was such an amazing gesture, and says a lot about how attentive he is. 
I had an amazing, unforgettable time with Middleasternfit . Book some time with him. You’ll be grateful you did.
 

Would be nice to beleive that, but sadly not so. It may not be the fault of the kids today, sure. But the internet has made them grow up faster than their brains can handle it. Also the lack of company loyalty witnessed by their parents generation has killed any work ethic most may have had. Add to that the epidemic of single parents and elimination of shame in anything (living off the government, stealing, sense of entitlement), and it's a pretty bad situation. 

Sounds like you got a chorus of great advice and support. I know you dodged a bullet.
When I was in my late 20's, I had this thing for skinny, younger, masculine twinks, barely out of high school, but definitely over 18. I remember the feeling in the groin when someone fit the ideal, and the mind unveiled a fantasy like no other. Back in the day, a popular place to find someone was in and around seedy 42nd street. Boy do I have stories.
When I think of those stories today, I question my sanity. I could have easily been killed, or at least stabbed, many times. The mind at 19 is just way too unstable, especially for sex work. Today's 19 seems nothing like 19 of the 70's. Today's young bitches don't even pretend to know how to act. There may be a few good apples out there, but you shouldn't kid yourself. Playing with fire will more than likely get you burned.

Anyone?
Strange he's been around a while but no reviews.... Still, he's a hottie!
 
https://rentmasseur.com/crishype

Inspired by @7829V 's reporting, I thought I would share my experience at Mr. TJ's Only Boys Spa in Zona Centro yesterday; it was a delightful way to spend a part of the day.
I took the San Diego Trolley to the end of the line at San Ysidro, walked across the border and took an Uber to the Zona Centro location.  I had made an appointment for 11 AM, but arrived maybe 25 minutes earlier than that; the entry was was shuttered but in several minutes a young man arrived to open the spa for the day.  When he had done so, I told him I had requested a Turkish bath and a 60-minute massage; I'm not certain if he was aware of that, but it was fine with him, and I paid 2,000 pesos ($113) with my credit card.
The young man, Yahir, guided me to the massage room to change for the Turkish bath; he gave me a towel to wrap around my waist and a pair of sandals; that bath itself was luxurious; water, soap, scrubbing, repeat.  After a shower, we went back to the massage room; where Yahir, now nude, gave me what I thought was a good therapeutic massage with wonderful erotic touches (I couldn't help but grin at the time and I am grinning now as I write this!).  The session did turn into a deli experience; Yahir was so sweet that I wanted to adopt him and bring him home!  I had planned on tipping him $40, but I was so happy with the session that I gave him $60; he gave me a big smile.
Yahir, who I later learned was 25, had better skills in English than I had in Spanish, but that did not detract from my session in the least.
After lunch at Caesar's Restaurante on Av. Revolucion, I walked around a bit with my camera and, since I was dreading Friday afternoon lines going back to San Diego, I walked back to the port of entry, paid $20 for a bus to take me across the border, went through customs and took the trolley back to San Diego.
Yahir and I were alone the whole time, and that was fine; the place, as indicated above, is not fancy, but it is clean and I felt comfortable the whole time.
I'd encourage those of you who are interested in an adventure to consider this if you are visiting San Diego.  (I am still grinning!)

Despite zero feedback I tried and had fun.  Responsive and punctual!!

I was fortunate, all 7 of mine in 2025 were winners!

My worst experience turned into my best. One of my favorite providers (who I hadn't seen for years) came to town. I scheduled him two days out (giving myself time to totally get over a cold). The day before, he texted to cancel--he had decided to leave town early. The man that I scheduled instead was incredible, and I've seen him two other times. 2025 was a good year.

I had an experience with a provider in Madrid (I won’t name names publicly as he tends to visit this forum but happy to DM to whoever is thinking on visiting Madrid) that was a huge turnoff. The guy is gorgeous but he was so much into himself. He kept saying “don’t you think I’m good-looking”, “don’t you think I’m hot”, “ain’t I one of the hottest guys you have ever been with”, “ain’t you lucky to be in the presence of this body”, “did you ever think you’d be with a guy like me”, “guys like you cannot get guys like me so enjoy this body”. He kept looking at himself in the mirror and saying “fuck I look hot” “fuck if I could I would fuck myself” “don’t you wish you could have a body like mine”. Dude that was the biggest turn off. I know it’s transactional but still you want the fantasy too… after a while I couldn’t get it up with all the comments. Total mood killer. 

I will share mine. It gets scatalogical *again* , but thankfully it wasn't as bad as the 2024 incident.
A very sexy provider with a stunning face and a bubble butt was in town, so I made an appointment with him at his place, so I could top him.
I made it to his apartment, and we started foreplay. He then wanted to sit on my face, which I love, so we did that.
Let's just say that, with my tongue still inside of his hole, he shot out leftover douchewater. It was definitely purely accidental, as he was very apologetic about it.

Limited experience last year and the one disaster I had was with JakeofStateFarm from Tampa (name change since then to JakeLTyler.  A total hustler who is not interactive nor provides any real service.  Totally str8 even though advertises as gay.  Learned my lesson the hard way.  Total waste of time and money.

This is like the "Razzies," the list of worst movies that comes out after Oscar nominations.

Yeah sure haha. He's Houston, Texas based i believe, but travels all around. I saw him in L.A., but as of this comment he's in Seattle. https://rent.men/Eleizertop

Sign me up for Nightwing cosplay. I have red hair so can be his Barbara Gordon. LOL
As a Gen Xer, Burt Ward's portrayal of Robin in the old Adam West Batman series was part of my queer awakening. 

MANY people (clients, escorts, etc) have been, and will continue to be into cosplay!!
To me it's no different than any other role play including office scenarios, furries, leather, doctor/patient, etc!
To each there own, IMO

I lived in LA for a while and hired a lot lol. These are some of the best and the ones I’d frequent:

https://rent.men/SethNorthwest
https://rent.men/BrockBanks
https://rent.men/Fedz
https://rent.men/Cade_Maddox - expensive af but worth it every time. 
https://rent.men/ErosElite
https://rent.men/Sandinolatin
https://rent.men/RobearWoods
not in your age range but honorable mention:
https://rent.men/ParkerMatson

obviously goes for whatever you are at - but I would do due diligence on some of the guys you engage with LA is a big place and there’s a lot of providers. While like 80% of my experiences were positive there were some not so great ones that I could have avoided if I would have done a bit more research (or knew about this forum lol) 

beautiful bum! 

Avoid him at all costs. I made a deposit (not $500). Then he started insisting on wanting a longer session, which I did not. I repeatedly told him that I do not like haggling as it's a huge turnoff. But he kept going.
Then, he wanted to change the time. I let him know I was no longer interested and would appreciate my deposit back. He insisted he wanted to keep the appointment. He's incredibly entitled and irritating to interact with. 
Thankfully, I had never given him my address or my real number because he continued to contact me long after I cancelled. Eventually, I had to block him on my phone and Rent.men. I have no idea how many people he rips off with this game he plays, but I wouldn't go anywhere near him. 

I’m a known trusted member and I’m saying don’t do it girl. He is definitely in no way shape or form worth a deposit. And I cannot emphasize enough, how terrible his hair looked, and how insistent he was that his hair looked awesome. He kept claiming that it was for auditions. Unless he was auditioning to play a meth addict, or the victim of a beauty school perm disaster, he looked horrific in terms of his hair. Nice body. Handsome face. Decent height. Ok dick.
 
But I mean you would be embarrassed and I mean EMBARRESSED  to be seen with him in public in terms of How bad he was dressed, groomed, and did I mention his hair? I mean, freakishly bad. And as I said, I made a point of telling him I want him to not look that way the next time I saw him… And he showed up looking exactly the same and insisted that he looked amazing. It was delusional.
to be clear, I’m not saying don’t hire him. He might show up and look like a runway model that day. But if you pay deposit and he looks the way he looked when he came to see me you will regret having paid that deposit.

meh.  was not great.  Met him for a massage and decided recently to try for deli since that seems to be more his speed.  
Was really bad.  Started with loud techno music to "set the mood" and really didnt' offer anything. 
Would not recommend or repeat.  

I have been hiring since early 20’s.  First it was hustlers in the parks or cruising areas that just made things easy when I was in the military.  Once I was out AOL came along and it seemed easier and more of a sure thing than the bars.  Eventually that morphed into the really great days of Craigslist and Backpage. The options on finding high quality real time guys has definitely suffered. I have always just found it easier and less stressful and I will be the first to admit paying for it is a huge turn for me. I am not someone that needs a “connection” to have sex and enjoy it and for the most part prefer things more impersonal and never do the boyfriend thing.