Personally, I sympathize a bit more with the original poster. I had a similar reaction - a porn star I'd lusted after for years put up an ad, was coming to my area, but his ad and pictures talked a lot about fisting. I'd wonder if this person would be really into what I enjoyed, which is much milder than fisting. As someone said above, a professional escort would be able to adapt; but they're not all professionals out there.