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I guess everything is YMMV.
I hire him every time he comes to town.
He’s usually fresh out the shower and is always squeaky clean (although he doesn’t use deodorant, which I don’t mind), 
He does have good skills and the massages usually exceed time because he’s quite thorough (from head to every single toe.
We always end up having good conversations about everything from sports (especially tennis), and even sports betting. 
I find him to be a cool guy overall. And always have a great time.
This is truly an example of YMMV and preferences of the customer too.
Personally, I like the scruffy “Boho” types. 
 
 
 
 

One of my favorite,  I see him everytime he is in Dallas.  When you first meet him could use more social skills.  I love his looks.  After the first session I was a little bit on the fence.  Tried him again and I was hooked.  I think he is a little shy.   Definitely not a cookie cutter massage,  one minute he is working on you back and the next working on you feet, but it works for me.  Now we have great conversation, he is nude and come with a HE.  I can only speak for my sessions.

Yeah he’s a must for me every time…we have great chemistry and candidly I see him more for “fun” than massage. He is a hippie/granola type dude but he’s definitely not straight…

Jeremiah is one my favorite providers.  Also, in my top 5.  

Wow. He’s on my top 5 best experiences I’ve ever had. 😯

With the caveat that I live in a society where tipping is not the norm, I have the view that an escort sets their rate and that's what I expect to pay. I see a tip as something that I pay if I think they are charging below the going rate for the market, or if they astound me with the experience.

That's terrible for you, think I'll pass. Thanks for the feedback!

I’ve visited him within the last few months.  I’d been on his table a few times years ago when he used to live here.  This time the session wasn’t much of a massage and turned into me doing most of the work.  Based on this I wouldn’t repeat.

I have been to him twice for massage.  Very nice guy, looks like his pictures.  Mike gives  very nice massage full hour massage on the bed with MT and HE.  I paid $200.  I experienced what I would call an erotic massage.

I have been to him twice for massage.  Very nice guy, looks like his pictures.  Mike gives  very nice massage full hour massage on the bed with MT and HE.  I paid $200.  I experienced what I would call an erotic massage.

Fresh breath is extremely important! I always use mouthwash before seeing clients, even if it’s not going to involve kissing (I love kissing but some clients don’t want it) there’s times your face is close so it’s important to smell fresh.
Some people are naturally clumsy and that goes for kissing too. I agree with @Shawn Monroe that some guys kiss badly, maybe because they’re inexperienced at it. I’ve had clients lunge at me mouth open which is quite disconcerting. Those guys tend to be over excited even from the start so it’s challenging to control the situation. Say we have 90 minutes and 10 minutes into the massage they’re wanting to kiss and are ready to cum. Cool down!!
I have a client who was like that every time, he would turn up so aroused and liked to start with a kiss and that got him even more excited. I suggested a way for him to better enjoy the massage. Now he unloads in my mouth at the start, we kiss and share his load, then he’s ready to relax for the massage. It’s a happy starting (he gets a happy end too). 

I think that the second point is the vast majority. If I had to put numbers on your list of four things, I would say:  5%. 75%. 15%. 5%.
Kissing... real kissing... is something very, very hard to fake. You might be 'straight' or not attracted to men, yet always able to get rock hard and fuck. But IMHO, kissing is the real tell when it comes to the provider's true sexual orientation. 
I started hiring back about six months ago and had a friend of a friend give me some tips before I jumped in these waters. His biggest piece of advice? Make sure your provider is gay or genuinely bi, but you really want someone gay. It'll be way more enjoyable all around. 
His advice was spot on. I've only since hired five guys. Two bisexual and three gay. Both of the bisexual guys were a bit 'mechanical' in the motions. All three of the gay ones kissed with a fucking passion that made me weak in the knees. 

It wouldn’t bother me either. One of my clients replied, when I asked him how he’d like to pay “oh, cash…it’s always cash only for my dealer, my cleaner and my hooker!”. I was glad to be in such exalted company.
I did remind him however that I take credit cards (in fact you just slide the card between the cheeks of my bum…no…I do have a proper card reader but I think a bum card reader would be a wonderful thing wouldn’t it?). He’s a regular client so I guess he feels comfortable to joke like that, I’m glad. Although I prefer the term sex worker because that’s how I describe the job. 

Yikes… i don’t know if it is the same provider… but the one i was planning to engage was turned around recently and is banned from using ESTA. He mentioned his “friend” was banned for 5 years from entering. So, yeah… it’s happening. I did tell him to remove my text messages prior to boarding though. 
Now i have cash for his 2 overnights’ burning a hole in my pocket… time to visit Adonis
 
 

I like to try out a client’s nipples. You can very quickly work out if they’re a turn on for him. For some it’s instant reaction, for others….nothing.
Sensual massage is an exploration; you try all sorts of things and see what reactions you get. Sometimes it’s the most unusual things, like sucking a finger, licking an armpit, a slap on the bum or just the lightest kiss on the back of his neck.
Throw in surprises and unexpected touches and read how he responds. 

I think this could become its own gay porn genre.
A video title would be: "My straight Turkish barber gives me massage and lets me taste his Baklava"
Turkey it's now top priority on my bucket list. I just researched and the hobby is completely legal there.
I just need this Pandemic to be over as they have still have tourism restrictions. God dammed Antivaxxers!
 

I’m in love with the barber.

I went to him a few years ago. Nice massage, tight body, small package. 

So I went and saw https://rentmasseur.com/adabandyou. 
 
He has several good reviews on RM and I am not sure why. 
 
Pros 
Friendly
Clean Apartment and easy location
Either oil or lotion options depends on preference
 
Bed or table but I doubt his table could support more than 170 it was very entry level table. 
Cons
No technique self taught. Went from no pressure to way to much pressure and sometimes rub then just randomly press. It was like I was on a rollercoaster of techniques and none of them went together.
0 sensuality and I mean 0. Nude massage yet somehow felt clinical. 
I am just amezed he has so many positive reviews because usually people of this level have none. I admit he is very friendly and If I was just grabbing a drink with someone he would be great for that. 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

My personal trainer hugs me everyday. Twice. And he touches my ass, legs, back to feel the muscles that I should focus when doing the movements. During squats he positions behind me… he’s very handsome and a great ass. But he has a girlfriend that is also a trainer. Some say the gf might be trans. I don’t know. But I love my trainer. His hourly fee is 75 / hr I believe. 

Your syntax is a bit confusing.  You left them thinking "what just happened".  So is it you who are doing the thinking or them?  
I prefer it when my guys stammer a bit at the end  or, even better, when they stagger a bit,  on the way out and say something such as. "I wasn't expecting that.".   Because of my age and physical appearance, it is not surprising to me that they are coming in with low expectations. They have looked at the cover and thought "Meh"  but then they are surprised by the book.  I long ago stopped surprising myself with consistency but that does happen as well.  
As to the original question, I think it is very important for me to be guiding what goes on with an escort.  I frequently do not know exactly what I want until I want it.  So sometimes an escort will walk in and I can't help but push him against the wall and start right in with deep hard kissing, lots of body pressure and a rapid removal of clothing.  Other times, I like a drink, a bit of conversation, a gentle kiss and to take his hand and guide him to the bedroom. Slow deep kissing and a tantalizing removal of his clothing. Slow start with added intensity as the session goes on.  
The point being, if I don't know what I want, how can the escort know?  I have got to show him.  
Usually on first contact, I tell the escort, I do not know what is going to happen when you get here so we will figure it out together. " Is there anywhere we can't go?"  Usually I will mostly respect those boundaries, but I must admit to finding it a challenge to have the escort expand his limits, just as much as I enjoy having him expand mine.  

Actually, I hired him in March and we had a nice session.  Nice body on this dude, delicious cock and was a good top for me.  I would repeat for sure if I was in Dallas.

💯 agree with the comments above!
 
Had the opportunity to recently connect with him and it exceeded every expectation and more! Hope to do it again in the near future!

I saw him a week ago and left a happy man.  He is a very nice guy and nice looking.  Excellent massage from head to toe.  I experienced HE and MT.  I will definitely go back.

That really depends on what you're looking for and extras if any. 
For sure an incredible therapeutic massage and he doesn't use the massage gun on everybody, but he will use it if you complain of muscle issues that he can't get out using his hands etc.  
Super nice charming guy and knows how to give a great massage.  Real personality with a great smile and pecs. I've seen him multiple times and would repeat but not necessarily because of extras.  He has great energy in my opinion.