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PREACH! Learned that one the hard way. More than once. Just a slow learner, I guess.

Wow. 89. Pretty damn amazing. So glad he was able to take the novel "Ordinary People" and turn it into a great movie. As an actor, he may have never been better than in "The Sting". And what physical beauty! RIP, Robert Redford.

Like @purplekow if they are flipping the bird in photos I move on. Also, if the posting suggests that the provider wishes to be “worshipped”, I know that I will be expected to do all the work and I go to the next. (Nothing wrong if you wish to worship or be worshipped; just not my thing.) More than words if I see neck or face tattoos and/or gauged ears that’s another “pass”. You know what I would like to see? A smile. Smiles are so sexy! Plus underwear and/or swimsuits; sometimes (for me) it’s more erotic what you can’t see versus what you can. That’s enough for now.

I used to drive my parents crazy telling them to “Kiss mah grits!” My mother told me that I didn’t know what that meant and to stop it. My father used to ask my mother, “Where did he pick THAT up?” I loved Flo! (Alice was too serious; Flo was more fun.) Polly was nominated for a Tony playing “Big Mama” in “Cat On A Hot Tin Roof” and while I didn’t get to see her in it I can totally envision her in the role. RIP, hon.

I’m no doctor but this concerns me a little. If you’re not yet 40 that seems too young to be getting up 2-3 times a night to pee. Prior to 40 - hell, prior to 50 - I was still sleeping through the night without nocturnal bathroom visits. Sure, 8 hours dry became 7, which later became 6. Now at 61, 2 times to pee is normal, 3 if I had iced tea at dinner. “Edge and Vitality?” Pshaw. Fund your retirement, keep (or get) your credit card debt under control, get 6 months of expenses in reserve, make sure you have at least 1 good suit in your closet (don’t forget a white dress shirt, conservative tie and lace-up dress shoes) and f*ck (or at least cum) whenever you get the chance. But talk to your primary care physician about all those nighttime bathroom visits. At your age that doesn’t add up.

Looking good, Lieutenant! A Sailor in dress whites can still get me hard.

Took me a minute but now I get it. Although I believe Rose was nude. Except for the heart of the ocean. Still ...

I have to agree with you on that. 😀

I am fascinated by the exchange and conversations contained within this thread about this particular man. And I’m asking myself why I’m so intrigued. Perhaps I need a hobby …

“Kissing” has been added to his “likes”.

DAMN! This guy works on 2 levels; pits and treasure trail!

Like @Alchemy, I, too, enjoyed the details.

Ah. I wasn’t looking at it completely from the provider as hotel guest (incall) point of view. My bad. Upon reflection I can understand the concern. A provider inviting a variety of men to his hotel room could invite more scrutiny. Again, the conduct of both provider and client are key. If they are not calling attention to themselves, if the other guests are not being disturbed, and if the provider is current on all hotel charges, then the hotel should have no room for complaint nor any reason to take action. The hotel staff and security can “suspect” all they want. Believe me - a barking dog or noisy kids are going to draw more attention than a well-behaved man welcoming male guests in 1- and 2-hour time blocks. And don’t forget to tip housekeepers - ten bucks or better - as that will buy you a lot of goodwill.

My father was in the hotel biz for 25+ years, many of those in management. He once told me that as long as your actions do not disturb the other guests, and as long as your conduct and appearance are acceptable, then hotel personnel will leave you alone. In hotels with key-activated elevators, you go meet your provider in the lobby. These guys are pros (or should be) and they know how to conduct themselves without drawing attention or attracting scrutiny. “Discretion” is the key word here. Also, a number of my hires have shown up at hotels in a sport coat or blazer; dressed like that you won’t register suspicion. Even when carrying a massage table. (Tip the bellman twenty bucks and chances are he will walk your provider to your room AND carry the table.) Veteran hotel employees have seen it all; they know who’s who and what’s what.

The last time I saw hair like that Barbara Mandrell had a variety show on TV.

OH MY GOD! THERE’S 4 OF THEM! Maybe I shouldn’t drink so much …

Damn! Thatsa meaty man-ass!!

Hey, Sailor! Buy you a drink?

Hmm. I think I’ve stayed at that Courtyard by Marriott. Both the room decor AND the man look familiar …

@BenjaminNicholas Thank you. That was something that I needed to read this morning. That is some good advice, not just for provider/customer situations, but for life in general. 😀

Jesus! Look at his tan line! Where does he store that thing when he’s in a Speedo?

Wow! Can that … can that be real? Damn!

You didn't ask this question of me so I hope you don't mind if I post a response. Any time I'm asked a question that I do not wish to answer I respond with, "Why do you want to know?" (That shuts down most people.) I use that same answer in a workplace or professional setting when I'm asked point-blank if I'm gay. (On one occasion I was asked if I was gay by a co-worker in front of our boss. Before I could answer my boss said, to my co-worker, "If that were any of your business you would already know that answer to that question. Get back to work.") When asked by a total stranger I usually reply, "Forgive me, but I don't know you."

I think we can all agree that we all need to be careful and cautious whether we’re hiring or whether we’re hooking up.

@samhexum 😀 well-played