MikeBiDude

"You seem normal."

Now boys and girls, to get this joke,
put on your best mock French accent and read outloud fast...

I'm very pro-counseling, but between the unilateral sexual shutdown and the "get out and leave your dogs" approach, you are having a "Scrooge"-type glimpse of what your future relationship could look like. Counseling would be a great avenue to discuss what "go find someone to play with" really meant and what your ground rules should be going forward. However, a law office is the only place to discuss being kicked out and having your dogs stolen. I have two friends who were middle class professionals (earning $50-$60K per annum) partnered for about 10 years to upper class professionals earning about three times as much. My friends' investment in legal counsel in far less acrimonious situations really saved them financially and psychologically. You are starting off in an acrimonious situation and you should consult counsel ASAP, for your own mental health as well as your financial health.

"Looking forward to seeing you at 8pm for an outcall. At 7:45 pm, I'm really excited to see you and have a great time. Can we do 11 pm?"

Me: (smiling) Why the extra fee tacked on? It seems like you're hustling me.
Him: (laughing) Well I'm a hustler and that's why they call it hustling, it's what I do.
Me: (straight faced)
http://cdn2.crushable.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/Frank-Underwood-This-is-the-part-where-you-leave-GIF-from-House-Of-Cards.gif

As a licensed Couple and Family Therapist, I have spent many years with clients who have literally dragged their partners into therapy - demanding that their PARTNERS CHANGE! It doesn't work that way. You are only responsible for one person in this life... and that's YOU. Sometimes, if you make changes in your life, your partner will also change, but don't count on it. I encourage my clients to say the newly-revised SERENITY PRAYER:
 
God, grant me the SERENITY to accept the people I cannot change.
COURAGE to change the person I can.
And the WISDOM to know..... it's me.
 
Good luck on your journey.

This forum has brought me a lot of new business since back when I wrote that post and I participate almost on a daily basis. I guess that's why it says "Master" under my name now.

I guess I didn't recognize Daniel with dark hair and "veni vidi vici ", I like the blond look much more

I guess I didn't recognize Daniel with dark hair and "veni vidi vici ", I like the blond look much more

+1 to the 100th

+1 all night long

lmao...Wow, tough room. I don't care, I'm with Topseed...
 
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Topseed Knight
I'd pound his ass into the sheets.

that's daniel

Anyone been in touch with or experienced this San Diego gentleman?
https://rentmen.com/College_Guy/

Well, I mentioned I've been texting him - and I must say that although our convos were friendly and responsive - his level of excitement in setting up a meeting was low. Maybe his ad got more response than he intended? Maybe he decided he doesn't want to do this work anymore? Maybe he found "one" that's taking care of him? Maybe he'll be back!!!

I understand the desire to find who is at blame in this terrible incident, but I really feel that right now our energy is better spent asking "who needs our help" versus "who is to blame". It does appear that the owner was negligent in many ways, and that will be addressed, but it doesn't appear that this was an act of violence or intent. I'm just feel that compassion is more important than condemnation.

A non-age shaving escort is the exception, truly a rara avis. There are a few, but I have found most escorts I've gotten to know well enough admit to shaving anywhere from 5 to 15 years off their real age, in other words, just as many years as they think is believable!
 
TruHart1

Anyone got some Food ?
 
http://68.media.tumblr.com/b2e711f3b392823fdadeff0f12e8aa29/tumblr_og51gbFG9X1scfjd9o1_500.jpg
 
 
" I'm a bit Hungry TOO! "
 
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I have a review submitted but not published, him as an escort not masseur. Also I left a Rentmen.com review

One of my favorite pics
http://108.imagebam.com/download/JXJAnalmi22e3safoovl7A/28004/280030079/Austin%20Wolf-13Armond%20Rizzo-1.jpg

Short guys are my preferred match bc I'm short myself and we just fit really well together. I've gone on "safari" for this exotic creatures before (for the PC police that's a joke; I don't hunt people...)
 
Anyway, Chicago is by far the best city for shorties. If you don't mind Latinos: Uriel, CoryTaylor, Alexanderxx, and RomanEmperor. I like MarioLatino in NYC and JackNimble in Atlanta. BravoDelta I try to catch when he travels. Could not agree more with Dr Freud about RafaelLords, although I haven't seen him since he relocated from Miami to Ft. Myers.
 
Good luck! - your neighborhood slut

The first half is my point exactly. I'm sufficiently old school that there are times when I think it appropriate to wear a jacket.

Without perusing everything posted here in the last couple of days, though I've read some of it, may I add a plea for forbearance and tolerance? (Which it feels like I've done a lot of lately.) It's great to dress up for the opera and treat it as a special occasion! But it's also great to like opera and go there regularly straight from work, or stretch one's budget to buy tickets, or want to be comfortable while enjoying opera.
 
At the end of the day, it's about enjoying opera, not what one wears to attend a performance. (Or at least it should be.) Otherwise one risks suggesting that there's only one right way to enjoy opera, which risks turning off any new or younger attendees who are going to think, with some justification, that operagoers are a bunch of out-of-touch fuddy-duddies.

I'll have to agree to disagree @jimboivyo since I believe like @sutherland the MET needs asses to fill seats to survive, whether those asses belong to a well-dressed Michael Lucas or a casually dressed Austin Wolfe! Both asses quite impressive, BTW, even though the hotties in question both call themselves tops!!!
For me the elitist attitude of some people, many of whom never attend the opera at all, is very old fashioned and out-of-date, mainly because I have believed for many years that opera needs a wider appeal in order to not become an endangered art form.
 
[Edited to add: The MET's official dress code has been quite relaxed since the late 1960's so that's how old-fashioned the elitist viewpoint is for attendees of that "august" opera house!]
 
TruHart1

I'm just guessing, but when there is silence, one of two things:
 
- Masseur is really good, member wants to keep it a secret
 
- Masseur is terrible, and member doesn't want to be cast as a Negative Nellie