MikeBiDude

I hope you had the frozen custard too!  I think I prefer that more than their burgers 

I had the same issue for the longest time. One hour usually too short but two hours can sometimes be way too long. Someone on here suggested inquiring about a 90 min session and pretty much every provider since that has been ok with it. I usually will first ask a provider's one and two hour rate and then offer whatever the middle is of the two rates.

I have a lovely regular meeting with a guy I met online.  He’s 20.  He said up front that he’d never accept anything from me.  I made him accept a birthday gift a few months ago though - a camera he wanted.  It’s just the mutuality of the situation.  

It appears he has brought a sizeable "roll" with him.

“Alfie” needs to great a grip on his current conditions. And shilling for him here isn’t at all attractive.

“Alfie” needs to great a grip on his current conditions. And shilling for him here isn’t at all attractive.

* Failing to prepare is preparing to fail.  I'm prepping.
* There's an Elevator
* In contemporary times, it's a losing gamble to expect good behavior borne out of your generosity.
All that said, thank you :-)

One can almost - repeat... almost - give Alfie a pass on having a sense of entitlement due to his physical beauty. 
Bozo has vivid recollections of years ago when Alfie and his brother Mr. Biggs worked at the NYC stripper/nude events. When in town, they were regulars at both Adonis and Spunk (Bozo isn't sure whether either of them ever worked for @Buff Daddy). They also worked at Johnsons in Florida and in Adonis in LA. They also appeared frequently at parties and special events around town - both private and public. When those two boys perambulated around a room naked, or in their briefs, heads turned, customers gawked, eyeballs popped out of sockets, and mouths drooled.
Their "look" was so different than the other Spunk/Adonis/Johnsons working boys. Two young, handsome, clean cut, fresh faced white boys with classy British accents. Both had smooth, lean, muscular bodies not tarnished by unsightly ink. They had the all-American A & F look in a sea of bearded, tattooed Dominicans. That "look" with mass appeal, generated a lot of revenue for each of them. A lot. And it enabled Alfie to reside in Trump Tower (rent free?) for a while.
If Bozo was the object of all of that attention and affection with people throwing money at him, and not having to reciprocate much, Bozo would also likely have a swelled head, and sense of being "special" and "entitled". People like Alfie don't take public transportation when they are used to being squired around town in a limo or UBER.
And you say that Alfie is now "penniless"? That is hard to comprehend. Where did all of that $$$ go? Bozo would be shocked if either of them ever left an Adonis or Spunk event with less than $700 or $800 in their pockets - and that's on a bad night. If Alfie is penniless, it is both very sad, and VERY poor planning.
My, how the mighty have fallen.

BTC
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It only matters if it matters to you. Confidence is far more attractive than physical looks. People are attracted to the thing they want most and usually that’s a sense of personal security and confidence that says “what you think of me is a non factor in my life”. Plus it helps if you take a semblance of care of yourself. You don’t have to be pretty but you shouldn’t be giving “im a mess” vibes either 

Well into my fifties, and outside of any sort of business arrangement, I’ve had young men in their early twenties hit on me online and had those turn into successful meetups.  The young guys who are into older guys really are out there.
I read a piece several years ago written by a woman that worked in one of Nevada’s legal brothels.  She said that learning to be turned on by her own body by masturbating around mirrors a lot and having mirrors in the room where she entertained clients was a key for her to enjoying sessions with a lot of men who she otherwise wouldn’t be attracted to.  
Outside of paid arrangements, I’ve had great sex encoutners with people who I liked and connected with but wasn’t physically attracted to.  

I’ve often had excellent sessions with newbies; in fact, often better than with the “well-reviewed” ones.