Wings246

Given the context of the interaction, this safe word may not be too safe. There are plenty of opportunities to (mis)construe it as an invitation rather than a cease and desist. After all, it consists of ”top,” ”pit,” ”ass,” and ”hole” -- if you know what I mean. 🤭

This is not descriptive enough. 217 can be pure muscle mass or "something else"...... 🤪

Yes, "peer reviews" should be conducted in the utopian world, but in reality, they are not necessarily completed in all cases and they are not necessarily useful either. You have to put a lot of faith and trust in someone whose identity is covered / under disguise. For instance, I won't be too surprised if you tell me there are providers here on CoM who have multiple aliases/accounts to post positive reviews of themselves (as clients so as to bolster their profiles). The same can very well be true on RM. This issue has been discussed ad nauseam on this forum. Just imagine how ridiculous this scenario can be: a prospective client is contacting another "fake" client (who is actually the provider of interest) to discuss the hiring experience......

I came across this product when surfing the internet aimlessly the other day: https://peachymen.com/ It sounds magical and too good to be true. Has anyone tried it? If so, do you have any info and/or personal experiences to share?

Q: How do you balance/maintain your personal romantic relationship(s)? How do you separate (sex) work from real-life (sex) situations? How do your real-life romantic partners feel about your work? I believe if anyone seriously invests the time and energy in studying the countless topics here in CoM, he can probably write a nonfiction, how-to book about the various aspects of sex work, from both the providers' and clients' viewpoints. For the creative type, he can even fictionalize all the discussions found on CoM. CoM is truly a not-so-hidden treasure chest.

Same here. Is this available somewhere?

Here are my criteria, most of which are subjective and not objectively measurable on RM profiles. So it requires some independent research on my part. Disclaimer: these are my personal preferences only. There are no right-or-wrong answers. Please don’t judge/criticize me. 1. Age — psychologically & emotionally (not necessarily physiologically) at least 35, but as close to my own age as possible, +/- 5 years standard deviation. This facilitates my imagination of a “real” BFE. I’m aiming for maturity. I’m looking for someone to take care of me; I’m not at all interested in babysitting because there is too much of that already in the real world. 2. Gay >>>>>>>>>> Bi. Straight is a hard stop. I know all providers are acting on the job, but GFP is just way too much acting. 3. Athletic to muscular build — the key is proportion though. A bulky chihuahua and a stick-figure giraffe are equally unappealing. 4. Conversational skills — see criterion #1 above. I typically book 2-hour appointments. The ability to sustain a decent adult dialogue is crucial. Nothing kills the mood faster than awkward dead air. 5. Personality — warm, approachable, and mild-tempered. Strangely enough, I find providers who are simultaneously angelic and devilish (in words and/or in action) utterly irresistible. 6. Race/Ethnicity — I know this is a borderline taboo subject, but I prefer a provider who is NOT of my race/ethnicity. I want someone different from me. Unfamiliarity is exhilarating and enticing. 7. No tattoo — it is a distraction. Why would you add graffiti to an otherwise perfectly sculpted piece of artwork?

I'm always intrigued by the possibilities behind the definitions of "average" vs "well-endowed." I understand everyone has a personal standard for length and girth. Would you mind sharing your preferences @Alabastrine @Muscleking?

Episode 6 is what I have been waiting for all along. Although the plots and subplots are somewhat predictable, the acting is superb. I'm impressed by the supporting and side characters too! I didn't expect the stories to carry so much emotion. However, for the series to peak at the penultimate episode, is it too little too late? By now, I'm afraid a lot of audience have lost interests and given up already. Judging from the previews of the finale, it seems like the last episode will simply be a frantic wrap-up of all the loose ends. I hope I am wrong.

That’s a very perplexing encounter. I’m not trying to be judgmental or cynical here, but have you considered that he might have an ulterior motive in touring your home? Were there any valuables on display? Did he seem like he was taking mental pictures of your floor plan? Again, I may be overly pessimistic and cautious; however, has it crossed your mind that you may need to heighten your home security measures as a result of his visit?

It’s not so much about lust/desire; it’s more about timing/convenience. Most people work during daytime. For me, work and its associated stress are the biggest boner-killer. It’s more favorable to have fun with a work-free mindset. Therefore, late afternoon / night / weekend / vacation hours are more optimal. Of course, the client’s fun time is the provider’s work time. This conflict partially explains the mismatch between the clients’ and providers’ wishes in terms of appointment time.

I have the same experience. It appears most, if not all, of the previously locked videos are now available to basic members (e.g. me). The problem is that some of the videos, even though clickable, show up as black screens with sounds only.

It's not necessarily a direct hyperlink per se, but the URL is listed under the description section: "... Thousand of pictures at www.RafaelWorld.com..." That's how I got to his bio page.

Isn't that the universal truth for all human relationships? Nobody wants to deal with flakes, but they exist in every corner of the world and every stage of life (in school, at work, in business / familial / romantic relationships, etc.). It only means that they value their time, resources, and needs above yours. I don't know how to avoid them because they are inevitable and sometimes you are thrust into their lives involuntarily. I can only blacklist them after I suffer my losses.

If you visit his own website, which is embedded in his RM ad, he lists his birthday as 7/18/1978 (age = 47). That's why I don't take RM profile descriptors too seriously. RAFAEL ALENCAR - ABOUT WWW.RAFAELWORLD.COM