sam.fitzpatrick

I've not tried it yet, but if you are going to keep on masks, how about role playing a medical scene? Two doctors giving each other physicals?

I have a soft spot for the Foundation supporting a local 501©(3). That foundation was created by my father in the early 70's and it continues to grow. It supports the local chapter of a nationally recognized organization. In addition, I support the local United Way - - - it evolves its areas of focus based on the community's feedback.

When I take my walk on the trail that runs through my subdivision, I don't wear a mask, but I do keep on in my pocket to put on in case I stop to chat with someone. And I don't wear a mask on my patio. However, last week I visited the open air mall for the first time in six months and kept the mask on at all times.

Interesting cast. Few names are familiar to me; however, I'm a long-time fan of Anne Heche. And I'll hope that Jesse Metcalfe makes it through the latin dances where he dances with his shirt open.

For me personally, most of the time (outside of PS Weekend) I hire an escort is for an overnight session. However, I have enjoyed not having anyone with me at the main events organized by Oliver as I feel it lets me mingle more and get to know folks better. I may have a shorter appointment with a provider sometime during my time in Palm Springs, but usually, I keep Saturday and Sunday open. I just wanted to post this to let you know it is fine to come to the event solo, but it is also acceptable to bring a companion along.

Last Thursday marked the 10-year anniversary of this thread. In his original post, Jackhammer wrote, "With the recent path my life has taken, I have found it helpful to try to focus on upbeat things, especially humor (a relative term to be sure). Some of my close friends have taken to sending me jokes. I thought you might like to see a few. If there is interest perhaps I will post some more along the way. " It is amazing how many times I have come to this thread for a chuckle. Sometimes it was to help relieve stress and other times to get new material to share at a monthly poker game. It is a great tribute to Jackhammer that this thread has continued after his passing. Thank you Jackhammer! You are missed.

@Mydavid Is sex the only change in your life since the start of the pandemic? A friend was telling me he's getting up during the night to urinate since the pandemic started rather than sleeping through the night. It took him a couple of weeks to realize that when working at home, he always had a beverage with him; whereas when he was working in the office he only had a beverage at lunch.

Did you insert any of your body parts in the mechanic's anus or vagina? If not, then the criminal charges cannot include rape. (At least in Ohio.) The legal argument that would be made to counter your point is that the guy was always a jerk and the partner's lack of recognition of that fact does not revoke consent.

Having served on a jury to decide a rape case just a couple of months ago, I've come to understand that each state in the USA has its own definition of what legally constitutes rape. One case might be rape in Ohio, but not meet the definition of rape in Delaware. (or vice versa) I get how this case could be defined as rape. It may have been an easier criminal case to make than criminal fraud.

@BeefyDude - Via rent.men or rentmasseur.com? I had the same thing happen in February (rent.men) with an escort I saw on Saturday - someone I have previously hired, so we communicated via phone. The funny thing is that rentmasseur.com accepted a review I submitted for the provider I saw on Friday with no problem.

If names and locations are shared, how will you get an unexpected experience?

There are several major events in the Palm Springs area in the spring. Just about any weekend that is chosen would have a conflict with something. Oliver picks a time that works for his schedule and in my past discussions with him his primary concern is making sure to avoid Easter weekend.

I have had several four-handed massages. For several years I saw a couple for tandem massages about every six weeks. The massages were very good. One was licensed and many times, the massages were at least partially choreographed. There's something wonderful about getting you scalp massaged by one guy to relax you while the other is applying deep pressure to get a knot out our your calf. I have found that while I prefer a 90-minute massage when with one provider, I prefer an hour session with the tandem massage.

I have shared with three friends: A gay friend who asked me why I traveled to often to a specific city. Another gay friend who was commenting that his massage provider was no longer available and needed a substitute. He knew I frequently got massages. When I was hesitated providing a name, I explained that my recent massages had lacked some of the technical skills he was desiring, My personal trainer when I brought a visiting escort to the gym for my workout.

My recommendation is that if the tattoo has personal meaning, age should not be a factor. For example, I have a former co-worker who had first tattoo in his late 50s - - it was the name of his grandson placed over his heart.

I appreciate that rent.men ads include the date the photo was posted. (I realize some ads have 'new' photos that were previously posted and reposted to get a more recent date stamp.) I think it is especially helpful when there are photos that span a couple of years and a guy's look has changed significantly - such as a different hairstyle or color, addition or less facial hair, or different tattoos. Helps me especially with the traveling guys that pass through town every six to twelve months.

I had this very thing happen to my mother this week. One of her friends had tired to call her and wasn't able to reach Mom, so the friend contacted me to request that Mom call her. Turns our her friend had simply transposed two of the digits in Mom's phone number. Perhaps he tried to call you and the call wouldn't go through or one reason or the other.

Or consider flying into Ontario - it is an easier drive to PSP than the one from LAX.

Thanks Charlie. It is wonderful having so many quality mentors in the caucus!

On Thursday, March 12, I left the office and arrived home. I was scheduled to take the next day off. But after a call at 9:00 that morning letting me know that our team was going to begin work from for the next week to 'test our abilities to all work remotely', I was opening my laptop and working from home to address some of the emerging concerns. Before the next week was over, our entire company was moving to work from home. After about four weeks of the work from home requirement and working every day including weekends between March 9 and Easter, I realized that my frustration levels were rising. While I could get the job done, it was not as efficient and in many situations as effective as I was when the entire team was working form the office. We were all addressing various COVID issues needed for work in addition to many of our regular job functions, working extra hours, and would easily go a week without talking to my boss or any peers in my department whereas I was talking to most of them daily prior to us all being in quarantine. All communication was being completed via instant message or email, staff meetings were canceled and things were being deferred. By mid-April, what we initially thought might be 30 days of working from home was clearly going to extend at least through September. So in early May I informed my boss that I would be retiring and my last day to work would be August 7. I was planning to work another two or three years before then. I'm now on day four as a retiree and adjusting to a life without a daily schedule.

I don't know of DTW specifically, but I know there are individuals that have attended from CMH, ATL, DCA, and MSP. In other words, it isn't attended only by guys from the west coast.

Distinguished Forum Member Oliver rents a home in Palms Springs for a couple of months in the early part of the year. Over the years, he has hosted a pool party and invited readers of this Forum to attend. This is Oliver's event and not an event sponsored by this Forum, although the moderators graciously have seen fit to pin this message at the top of The Lounge. This is an event attended by both clients and providers. The events for the weekend typically include two primary scheduled events: a dinner on Saturday at a Palm Springs restaurant and a Sunday afternoon pool party. Although many attend both events, there are those that are unable to attend both and attend only one. Recently, dinner on Sunday evening at another local restaurant has been added, although it tends to be attended by fewer individuals, as many want some time to unwind after a day in the sun. For those not local to Palm Springs, many choose to stay at one of the gay resorts in town. Also, many posters choose to gather for in smaller groups for drinks, other meals, or exercise.

My first concert was The Manhattan Transfer on its Bodies and Souls tour. I didn't have much for an entertainment budget in college, but once I heard they would be performing on campus, I skipped Sunday dinners (only meal not covered by my dorm's meal plan) until I had enough to buy tickets.

This summer, I've been going freeball more frequently, especially when I anticipate being home all day. However, I always had underwear on when I was working in the office.

I'm warming up my vocal cords now!