sam.fitzpatrick

Mostly, the 71 do not get completed, even with the cheating. My patience wears out after 45 minutes or so.

Yesterday I went shopping and as I approached the area where paper towels and toilet paper were stocked, I was relieved to see that the shelves were fully stocked. Then as I got closer, I was disappointed to discover that I was going need to buy generic as the Cottonelle that I prefer (nor any other brand) was in stock. As soon as I can find the Cottonelle, I will be restocking the guest bathroom reserve supply with the generic. (Not that a guest has used the guest bathroom since February.)

I'm assuming that you mean other than seeing his mug shot as part of the evening news. If so, then no.

One thing I'm trying to do is a crossword puzzle several days a week. So far, I'm 1 for 72 in being able to complete one without "cheating."

BVB was one of the first members to send me a private message when I began posting. His warm outreach helped me quickly realize how much benefit I could receive from staying connected to the forum.

Accidently left porn (not erotic art) out in my residence where visitors have seen it.

@Coolwave35 gave a great summary of events - probably could have even given a few more details without crossing the line. @Hello - It took me a few sessions to figure out how to keep the videos on my screen and read the comments posted by the other participants. Reach out to me if you need help figuring that out. Based on what I read there, I would hope that Joey woke this morning flattered by the positive comments there.

Just remember - there will be a few folks on to keep you honest! ?

I grew up in Indianapolis. It is the primary city in Marion County. But there were also three other cities within the county lines: Lawrence, Beech Grove, and Speedway. Basically the city of Indianapolis grew around those cities, but the cities themselves have never been dissolved. Several years ago, many functions that were duplicative between the city and county were consolidated into one uni-government entity, such as the city police and the county sheriff. However, there are still some services, primarily schools and fire departments that are run by the nine townships within Marion County.

I suspect that with the success of individuals working from home, we'll see more flexible travel and as such, gay activities will be even more accessible. Assuming that high speed internet is readily available, guys could more easily work during the summer on Fire Island or Provincetown, the fall in Key West or the spring in Palm Springs.

Never have I ever gone streaking.

After this past weekend, it has no longer been a few years and my opinion has not changed.

Joined the mile high club.

Agreed. It was nice to meet y'all. It is always interesting to meet others from the Forum. I was impressed by the diversity of the dancers for the evening. There should have been a little of something for everyone. And I thought I had done well getting dances with seven.... Why do I not remember this? Perhaps I was otherwise occupied at the time.....

I've never been to a bathhouse. I've heard via word of mouth that there are some open. A couple of weeks ago I friend suggested we go to Club Columbus which is open at limited capacity and steam and sauna rooms remaining closed. (I politely declined.) http://www.clubsaunas.com/club_columbus/

Although I rarely send a pic (maybe three times in the last 10 years, and it has always been after the appointment is set) I do the same thing. I simple headshot so they the escort could identify me if we're meeting in a public place, such as the lobby of the hotel where I'm staying. These days, I'm using the same G-rated photo I use on the dating/hook up apps. Since that photo is already public, I figured I can explain any questions as being on my dating profile. Fortunately, I have not run into any questions.

Several years ago I scheduled an appointment with a guy new to the business. We were meeting at his apartment and he answered the door wearing a suit. Since I was not expecting it, I found it very enticing.

Several years ago, I had a guy that would shower with everyone he saw, both before and after the massage which was always a two-hour appointment. Since then, I've had two masseurs offer to shower with me after the massage.

Yes to both Uber and rental car. It depends on what other things you are planning to do while there and where you are staying. In most cases, the bars are close enough to walk if you are staying in the Warm Sands area or Uber is available for longer trips. If you are staying at one of the resorts where other Forum members are, many often carpool together to the Saturday dinner and Sunday's pool party. I personally usually get a rental car as I often stay for a longer period of time and take a day trip to visit relatives in a nearby town.

I purchased my ticket and will be flying in for the weekend.

I was on swim team in high school and like @KrisParr I also managed a couple of the teams in other sports - freshman football and track for a couple of years. Then being in marching band and pep band, I of course attended football and basketball games. In college, I participated in several intramural sports, always as someone to fill an empty spot, not as a leader of the team: flag football, softball, and volleyball. And after graduation I played softball with a team of guys from work. But it has been over 20 years since I did anything more than workouts at the gym.

I am thankful for the owners of gay bars and resorts. They have overcome much in the past and the current pandemic is causing new and different stresses. Their businesses continue to let me get more comfortable being me and for that I will always be grateful.

Joe, I'm not sure about bringing more than one provider for an extended stay - - I've never done that. However, I have had an extended appointment with a provider and asked him to select someone to join us for a brief visit. As to the rest of your questions.... Perhaps a gay resort in Florida either in Ft. Lauderdale or Key West. In Ft. Lauderdale I enjoy Pineapple Point http://www.pineapplepoint.com/ and The Cabanas https://thecabanasguesthouse.com/. In Key West, Island House https://islandhousekeywest.com/ is popular as is Equator https://equatorresort.com/. This will vary by provider, but I always assume that the provider may want time at the gym as well as need to check in either with family, dog sitter, and check email. My most memorable experiences on long weekends have been unplanned - a good meal, a stop at a piano bar when returning to the hotel, or a sight-seeing stop recommended by the resort. One escort and I often remember the fun we had in a specific hotel room's chair while in Chicago. I find that my best weekends with providers have had good conversations prior to our time together to set some baselines for things such as dining needs, time apart, and frequency of intimacy. Discuss sleeping arrangements and needs. For example, I often only need six hours of sleep and will wake before a traveling companion so I often get out of bed and have a cup of coffee while my guest sleeps in. Discuss eating and dietary needs. Is a big breakfast needed or is he on a vegetarian or gluten-free diet?

Yes. I think one reason I enjoy it is that it keeps my legs wide open and allows my partner better access. And the rocking motion provided by the sling often allows the top to go deeper.

It has been a few years, but I have enjoyed every time I have been the bottom in a sling.