Luv2play

I agree you need some time to process the experience and time gives you the ability to put things in perspective. Your comment on the discount suggestion HD was first to bring up before your actual date took place may be something you want to mull over. I know that if I was in your position knowing such a guy, and if he turned my crank as he obviously did yours, maybe there would be a way to continue the relationship on a "client" basis but forgetting the discount angle. If he were to agree to see you at your home or at his I suppose, when you wanted a date, then assuming his rates were reasonable, I would see that as a win-win. All of this assumes he was being truthful when he first told you he had sex with men and women for money. As I see it, all the other "mind-fuck stuff" you could both just agree to put behind you. Of course this may not be possible if HD doesn't see himself in a provider role without all the other strings. It might depend on his financial situation, which would be a consideration on his part.

Like any social media site, the numbers are one of the most important factors driving its success . And what attracts numbers is the content of the site, and how the content keeps refreshing itself. People want to read the latest and we, the active members, provide that input on an almost daily basis. Without this activity, people would tend to drop off making as many visits and the site would wither away. That being said, there are various reasons people lose interest and become inactive. I was once one myself, which I have mentioned. But as long as there is the possibility they may return or inform others of our existence, I see usefulness in retaining them if in a separate category at least.

I would title the last chapter, Truth or Consequences. I know, all my titles are recycled but to my mind they capture the plot lines.

Well the fourth chapter would be titled " Before Breakfast at Tiffany's"

I would be interested too. He's on my radar.

I haven't met him yet but from an escort I have multiple experiences with, I hear he is great. I have been privy to some videos taken of these two escorts that would lead me to think he is a great top and bottom.

I do a lot of editing in one of my jobs. Reflecting on this a little more, I would break it into three chapters. The first the ball game title, the second episode back at the hotel with the shower scene, "In for a penny, in for a pound". And the third the roll over title. It would make a great short story.

Then if we want a title for the second chapter, it could be "Roll me over and do it again"

If we're looking for a title for this incredible saga, I would suggest "Take me out to the ball game".

I agree. We have to have some things left to our imagination. Let's not get too clinical

So far, it's got the makings of a best seller.

I actually knew that but the feeling of being lightheaded caused unpleasant feelings for me. My father had high blood pressure and would complain of feeling light headed sometimes which always scared me. His father had died at 46 and both his brothers in their 40s from strokes. It runs in the family.

Well I'll believe it when I see it. Most Canadians are opposed to an opening at this point.

I enjoy a multi episode play on TV, as long as I get to know how it ends. Kris has dropped a hint.😛

I'm not sure the analogy holds firm, pun intended. Having had two lakeside cottages on northern Canada, just before spring breakup, when the ice is dangerously thin, it makes all sorts of ominous noises. You don't want to test it at that time.

Thanks for the info. I am still wondering if it is possible for us to see the list of RIP members. Since I was away for quite some time I probably lost track of some whose passing was noted on this forum.

Didn’t Australia lose a prime minister swimming in the ocean? Obviously not Gough.

Would that be to non essential travellers like tourists?

I just looked for it under search but nothing came up. Can it be viewed and how?

Are their passwords inactivated? I assume all other aspects of their participation on this forum have been retained but don’t know if that is correct.

I was always more concerned about what poppers was doing to my blood pressure. They gave me such a sensation of blood rushing to my head that I thought I was going to burst a blood vessel. So I quit using them by the 1980's. It was around then that a sex partner spilled some in my eyes accidently while topping me. Did that sting! I was enjoying the sex until that moment. Glad I did as I also suffer from a number of eye issues and didn't need this as a further complication, if only remote.

I was one of those members that posted actively from 2002 for a good many years and then ceased completely over 5 years ago. I had my own personal reasons for doing so, mostly related to the fact that my life had taken a different turn and escorts were no longer a part of it. I came back a couple of years ago after this long hiatus. When I logged on I remember being somewhat amazed that my ID and password were still functional. It was a breeze to get started again. Of course, if they had been deleted, I could have come on with a new password and possibly new username. But being able to return as if nothing had happened to me was an experience like in days of old when a wandering son suddenly turns up again and is welcomed into the fold of the family unreservedly. I wouldn't object to creating an inactive list and if we find out someone has passed on, maybe we should create a third list, the "Pantheon of Members" or some such, to retain the memory of those who have gone before and are no longer with us. For this third category, I would suggest their passwords be deleted. For in-actives, I think their ID's and passwords should be retained.

He does have 7 positive reviews since February. Some of the reviewers seem very credible in terms of the other escorts they have reviewed on Rentmen.

I almost feel at this point that you are taking one for the team. The time is fast approaching and by taking us along on your journey so far. I think we are all invested in knowing the outcome. My last comment would be go with your instincts and keep a sense of humour. Good luck.

This is starting to sound like getting ready for a screen test. I think just taking the usual preps for a possible evening of bottoming and then acting natural is the best approach. I'm excited for Kris especially since my present circumstances keep me caged up because of the pandemic still raging here in Canada.