Luv2play

I think the question of offering a shower should be played by ear. If he arrives at your hotel or home looking wilted and sweaty, then offer the shower. I would say, would you like to take a quick shower? If you only have an hour appointment, you don't want him lingering there for 15 minutes. After 5 minutes, if he is still in there, join him there and say something like you must be having fun, can I join in?

At least send us a post from your honeymoon 😉

Good point. Straights might do that too. But maybe gays coined he phrase. I learned something new from this post but not sure how useful it is. If someone in the unlikely event offered me a Kentucky Klondike Bar or some treats at the Panamanian Zoo at least I would know how to respond without sounding stupid.

I wouldn't cut him off. If he still wants to see you at the gym, that is safe ground to let things develop naturally if Kris keeps the conversation low-key. The date they had could be just left in the background.

Definitely nice looking.

All you need to know is that he is packing 12 inches. Some Monster.😈

Years ago I had a roommate who was an escort. I had advertised hoping to get a student to take care of my dog when I was traveling for work and had had several students previously but they always were moving on. Anyway this guy hung around for a couple of years. He was unhappy with his nose which had a ski jump shape, turned up at the end. So he had a rhinoplasty and it really improved his looks for he was quite handsome and the turned up nose sort of made him look feminine. I drove him to the hospital and picked him up 6 hours later. When the bandages came off it was a complete transformation. Worth the $3500 at the time, around 1995. The last time I saw him he had moved in with a really old guy who was going to leave everything to him.

So what is the Panamanian thing-a- ma-gig?

I read all his reviews (5) and comments which are fairly revealing. Of the two less than 5 stars, his first review a couple of years ago and didn't specify why he was only worth a one star. Even he said his pics were accurate. The other less than 5, a 3 star, mainly complained he was a good top that would drill you for an hour if that's what you wanted (well, yes). In his case he complained he got less than an hour (somewhat contradicting himself). And one reviewer, who gave a 5 star, said while his pictures were accurate, he was more like 5'6'', since the client was 5' 8". He advertises as 5'10" so that is more than just a little exaggeration. If height is important and for me it would be as I am 5'11". Of course you have to read the reviews together with all the other info he provides in his ad before deciding whether to contact him.

I agree you need some time to process the experience and time gives you the ability to put things in perspective. Your comment on the discount suggestion HD was first to bring up before your actual date took place may be something you want to mull over. I know that if I was in your position knowing such a guy, and if he turned my crank as he obviously did yours, maybe there would be a way to continue the relationship on a "client" basis but forgetting the discount angle. If he were to agree to see you at your home or at his I suppose, when you wanted a date, then assuming his rates were reasonable, I would see that as a win-win. All of this assumes he was being truthful when he first told you he had sex with men and women for money. As I see it, all the other "mind-fuck stuff" you could both just agree to put behind you. Of course this may not be possible if HD doesn't see himself in a provider role without all the other strings. It might depend on his financial situation, which would be a consideration on his part.

Like any social media site, the numbers are one of the most important factors driving its success . And what attracts numbers is the content of the site, and how the content keeps refreshing itself. People want to read the latest and we, the active members, provide that input on an almost daily basis. Without this activity, people would tend to drop off making as many visits and the site would wither away. That being said, there are various reasons people lose interest and become inactive. I was once one myself, which I have mentioned. But as long as there is the possibility they may return or inform others of our existence, I see usefulness in retaining them if in a separate category at least.

I would title the last chapter, Truth or Consequences. I know, all my titles are recycled but to my mind they capture the plot lines.

Well the fourth chapter would be titled " Before Breakfast at Tiffany's"

I would be interested too. He's on my radar.

I haven't met him yet but from an escort I have multiple experiences with, I hear he is great. I have been privy to some videos taken of these two escorts that would lead me to think he is a great top and bottom.

I do a lot of editing in one of my jobs. Reflecting on this a little more, I would break it into three chapters. The first the ball game title, the second episode back at the hotel with the shower scene, "In for a penny, in for a pound". And the third the roll over title. It would make a great short story.

Then if we want a title for the second chapter, it could be "Roll me over and do it again"

If we're looking for a title for this incredible saga, I would suggest "Take me out to the ball game".

I agree. We have to have some things left to our imagination. Let's not get too clinical

So far, it's got the makings of a best seller.

I actually knew that but the feeling of being lightheaded caused unpleasant feelings for me. My father had high blood pressure and would complain of feeling light headed sometimes which always scared me. His father had died at 46 and both his brothers in their 40s from strokes. It runs in the family.

Well I'll believe it when I see it. Most Canadians are opposed to an opening at this point.

I enjoy a multi episode play on TV, as long as I get to know how it ends. Kris has dropped a hint.😛

I'm not sure the analogy holds firm, pun intended. Having had two lakeside cottages on northern Canada, just before spring breakup, when the ice is dangerously thin, it makes all sorts of ominous noises. You don't want to test it at that time.

Thanks for the info. I am still wondering if it is possible for us to see the list of RIP members. Since I was away for quite some time I probably lost track of some whose passing was noted on this forum.