Luv2play

I responded to your other post in the Deli section. Fond memories when the motel as sleezy as get out in 1980 when I stayed there for a week. As a Canadian I remember a British Columbia woman, who was a beautiful girl, was murdered in LA about the time I was there. Real Hollywood “noir”. I seem to remember her name was Dorothy Chandler but may be mistaken.

OMG I stayed at the Coral Sands on my first visit to LA in 1980. I still have vivid memories of my stay there. An old style motel built around a swimming pool. There were sleezy bars along the main drag, that ran east west just south of the motel (forget the name, Sunset or Santa Monica?). Got robbed one night by a pickup who took my cash but left the credit cards and a one dollar bill in my wallet, after I fell asleep after some great sex. se were the days...

I saw Eartha Kitt perform in Provincetown in the 1980’s. She was great and a big hit with the summer crowd of vacationers. Of course she sang her hit tune, I Need a Man, which spoke to most of us watching, except maybe the lesbians:)

Good to know. I flatter myself on thinking that at a certain age past 70, I still am somewhat attractive since I strive to maintain myself physically and mentally. If I met Tony in the flesh, who knows what chemistry might occur.

I thought we were to pass judgment on their services as professionals. Making ad hominem slurs don’t fall within that ambit, IMHO. But each to his own.

I made my own views known about Tony but I find your comments a bit too harsh, judgmental, and lacking in empathy. We’re all here to discuss what it is we enjoy about meeting with escorts, not passing judgments on them as individuals.

There are so many worthy charities to support but one has to make decisions with one’s limited resources. These decisions are influenced by our upbringings, I believe, and certainly that is the case with me. My parents had 4 children and while relatively affluent for the time in the post war era, they still needed to make sacrifices to send us all to the best private schools and universities available in Canada. We were also indulged in pursuing artistic, cultural or athletic endeavours according to our interests. I benefited tremendously from these advantages, as did my siblings, and today I see my giving as paying it forward to help others perhaps less advantaged than I was.

I’ve knowingly crossed paths with only one celebrity in my life and that was in the early 1980’s in St.Tropez when Bridget Bardot was seated with 3 of her friends at a table near me and my friend in a tiny restaurant in the old town. We were the only 6 guests seated at that point and no-one else was allowed in to eat following her arrival. So we had the whole evening watching her, discreetly of course, from several feet away. I speak French but she spoke in such a low voice I couldn’t make out a word she said. Her tanned face was incredibly wrinkled and she wore her grey hair in a pony tail. The glamour had vanished. She was living the life of a semi-recluse in St. Tropez and was into animal rights. I can only imagine what she looks like now.

I give between 5 and 10 percent of my after tax income to mostly local charities in my small town. Mostly in the arts and cultural fields (trying to address the starving artists syndrome which is real). Exceptions being my old school and university which are in Montreal since I am a strong advocate for education. With respect to the latter I earmark my donations for students who need financial assistance to attend these excellent learning centres.

Tony was one of my favourite porn stars years ago. It was only in the last couple of years I realized I could hire him to live out a fantasy of mine. But that fantasy was so many years ago that I have decided to let it remain as a fantasy only. (sigh).

I have just got back from Toronto where I was for a couple of days. I saw his ad last week but had already made 2 appointments which I wanted to keep. So now he’s on my list. He doesn’t list kissing in his ad. Anything you can add there?

I totally agree. I once hired an escort who advertised that he was a top exclusively and no kissing. While I would have preferred he was into kissing, I hired him anyways because of his excellent reviews and other attributes. Anyway once we started in he started kissing me, first on various body parts and then on my mouth. And then he started with the tongue action and went full bore on French kissing (my favourite type of kissing). Afterwards I asked him why he didn’t advertise that he kisses and he said he wanted to keep the option to himself whether he would kiss a client, based on oral hygiene (mine is great) and chemistry (I guess I fit the bill in that regard as well). Some of the escorts I have hired who list kissing only go through the paces with rather lackluster kissing. Life is full of surprises, some good, others not so good.

So that is about point one percent of the US population dead by the end of the year from this disease. A much larger number die from other causes in any year. Covid19 has disproportionately killed more elderly with underlying conditions. Many of these would die in the next year or so from these other causes. I try to keep these numbers in mind when assessing risks from exposure to the virus. I also look at my own country, Canada, which has much lower numbers but the same factors involved. And I take all the usual precautions we are told to practice. I have not stopped hiring, though, but I did until May to see what was going to happen To the trajectory of the disease locally. I space hiring apart, normally once a month and maybe two rather than one at a time. I have a good discussion before the session to ensure the escorts I hire are being cautious as well in limiting their exposure. So far so good. As someone said, living is full of risks and we have all learned in our lifetimes what risks we are willing to take in any particular situation. I personally think people who are moderate risk takers over a lifetime have been better able to navigate this new risk situation thrust on us out of nowhere.

At least he knew how to add.?

You’ve outdone yourself. Such a funny riff on Sinatra who made the song famous and Paul Anka, who penned the words.

Sleeze maybe???

I should add that I always choose good restaurants, not burger joints, and have found that when fine food is on offer, the escort tends to not watch the time and the meal often extends into one and a half to 2 hours without him looking at his watch or the door.

When I do shorter sessions, such as 1 or 2 hours, I will often offer the escort a lunch or dinner tacked on at the end, if the timing is appropriate. That is if the session starts at 11am or 6pm, for instance, I state up front what I am willing to pay for his time overall, including the dining option. As an example if the escort charges $300 an hour for his time, for 2 hours the rate would be $600, then I would offer $750 for 3 hours including the meal and any drinks, on me of course. They usually accept, I think because they need to eat around then anyway, and it gives them the opportunity to recharge their batteries, so to speak, if they wish to have another session later the same day.

Could be the escort will save the cum for the last appointment of the day. One can always hope.

I know my trusted regulars’ names and they know mine. With newbies, if I am in a hotel, I just give them my room number and tell them to ask the front desk to call up and I will go down to the lobby. If I have the time, I will sit in the lobby at the appointed hour and greet them since I have their face pic. I don’t hire without a face pic usually although sometimes the pic is rather obscure and the odd time I have reAlice’s on the first meeting why that was the case!

i was there only maybe 3 times but she had to keep control of the motley crew that frequented the place. It was near Times Square and in those days NY wasn’t”t as upscale as it is now. A lot grittier.

The name is off-putting but I like his profile. And he has a gorgeous manly physique. Yumm.

I remember her sitting at the booth at the entrance. Wasn’t she Greek? Looked like a tough cookie, anyway.

I found the dancers were ready to blow a load for me when the night was getting long in the tooth and they had already made enough $$ and the extra $100 I paid them meant they could go home (to their girlfriends).

Haha, yes indeed. Taking a dancer to the private booths involved a lot of saliva being slobbered on hot dicks. I first learned of the Gaiety gigs the French boys had when they told me about it. I was curious so dropped in on the Gaiety several times on visits during that time. While the dancers were hot and the shows were good (I even took my sister once so she could see what it was all about), the action between dancers and clients wasn’t as good as in Montreal in my experience. Although I imagine native New Yorkers probably did better.