Luv2play

I agree with wsc. You need to address your job situation with priority since your financial security depends on that. From what you said, being in your late fifties and with the same outfit for 35 years may make it difficult for you to be employed elsewhere should you be terminated in your current position. The other aspects of your life are all contributing to your sense of being out of control and you also need to address. Let those around you know that you are feeling the stress and are not superhuman. That way, if you are not always able to put them front and foremost all the time they will better understand your situation. If they don't , you need to be firm and do what's best for you. Don't feel you are indispensable in helping them. If you were to be run over tomorrow, they would have to get along as best they can. And they would.

When I responded to Charlie's post, I was thinking that the scene in a London disco happened sometime before Nureyev's decline towards the end of his life.

I'm also one who enjoys eating at restaurants while traveling, even when I was a working stiff. Of course, most of my professional working life involved international travel so the variety of national cuisines was always a treat. But I can see that for escorts who travel domestically, for those times, especially dinners, when the client is not hosting at a restaurant or in his home that includes dining, then going out to restaurants might get tiresome, especially if you are trying to economize. I imagine in most urban centres, there are plenty of stores where one can buy prepared food which can be pretty good. I know I have resorted to that particularly when it was close to the hotel I was staying in. I would then just take it back to my room and watch TV while enjoying a glass of wine and my meal.

This is a tricky question for me because , as a bottom, the escort's butt is not my primary focus. However, as I have often said on this forum, I appreciate a great butt on a guy (even on a girl too but that's besides the point). I love the feel and looks of a great male butt. In my time I even had a great butt and it's still not too bad. I even had an escort comment on it not too long ago (he called it a nice booty). But back to your question. I'm not going to name names but in my experience, one of the greatest butts I personally encountered turned out to be a dud as a top. I made up for it by giving him a nice rim job.

I would hazard a guess they were admiring Nureyev and envious of you.😁

You'll have a good time with Ben I think. I did and hope to see him again.

I've been to bed with two classically trained male ballet dancers and can attest to their firm muscular butts. Even as a bottom, I luv such butts.

How many people can say they danced with Nureyev? What were his moves like on the dance floor as opposed to the stage?

I thought your report was very funny.

I think you just got snowed. Lol

I can recommend TrueMagicBen who is currently listed on RM in PV. He's from Toronto where I met him. A real sweatheart.

I take it from your comment that the wind will kick up sand and create a dust storm, not unlike a snow blizzard. The last time I was in PS many moons ago, upon leaving a restaurant one evening and bidding goodbyes to our dinner companions who drove off in the wind, I remember their car disappearing into the gloom where their taillights were swallowed up by the dust. An eerie sight. Reminded me of Marlene Dietrich walking off into the sand dunes.

Sounds limited from his ad. Nice for muscle worship, if that's your thing.

I think you missed my point. I was just saying he is towing a different line than some of the clients who have met him. Chaq’un a son gout.

I think it’s just a question of which line he is towing. Lol.

Well, some of us commented back in December. I think living in a pandemic where people are dying every day of COVID has overshadowed AIDS which is mostly seen as yesterday’s issue. I said back in December most people don’t die of AIDS any longer in North America where treatments are available that also help prevent acquiring HIV. In fact the treatments are more effective than the vaccines for COVID. I don’t think it is helpful to rehash how people who acquired AIDS 40 years ago behaved at the time. Those of us who had friends who died then know that each one of them dealt with it differently and who were we to judge since we weren’t facing a death sentence. We were just scared sh**less.

I would cut the guy some slack. It’s not you particularly but your city that is not so appealing to him under the current circumstances. If you were having a great time at a party, would you want to leave early?

I agree in that I much prefer the light set low when in bed with a provider. Sex in broad daylight I find distracting. OK but not my favourite scene. But I don’t like absolute darkness either. I want to enjoy the visuals along with the sense of touch and smell etc. That is all the senses engaged.

Interesting you mentioned the Philippines. I was listening to a program on CBC radio about an immigrant to Canada from the Philippines and he related how much sugar features in their diet, even in spaghetti sauce. Amazing.

I remember that time vividly since I was starting to encounter friends and acquaintances coming down with AIDS. I also remember the Reagan Administration was very reluctant to come to terms with the problem or even acknowledge it existed. That little clip above represents pretty well the failure of US policy in the early days caused by what I believe was a general homophobia, as shown by the press gallery at the White House and the president’s spokesman, Larry Speakes.

I think we’re talking about liver here, and not from the grocery store.

I think lifestyles have changed markedly during my longish lifetime. More people are sedentary today than they were in the 1950’s when I was growing up. Cars are used much more even to get to the corner store. Television and other electronic devices are much more pervasive today and indeed intrusive in people’s lives. Also eating habits have changed a lot. Much more junk and processed food makes up a greater proportion of people’s diets. More dining out where food is served in larger portions and highly salted and more fat content. Most people don’t exercise enough and think watching sports on TV makes them a sport. All of this is leading to greater rates of obesity in most western cultures, especially the US and even here in Canada. Not sure what is going to turn this around. On the current trajectory, average life expectancy will probably decline.

Yeah absolutely. The only time a flight was cancelled on me was 35 years ago when I was at a Club Med in the Caribbean. I had to stay another day at the resort. No extra charge. Boo hoo.

I just watched several of his vids on Twitter, each over 8 minutes. One as top two as bottom (one with Max Konner) The guy is equally skilled as top and bottom. He's nice looking and has the kind of body I like. Definitely in the price range for his talent. Reminds me of Cade Maddox but he is not versatile. But he charges the same type of rates now too.