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I would say they are de jure vers/tops, meaning that’s what they advertise as but are de facto tops because that’s what their clients want. Whether they are vers with their boyfriends or casual non paid hookups is irrelevant to their business.

Well I am wrong then. But if I am right that many who advertise vers/top are doing mostly top service for their clients then they are de facto tops. So one could add them to the top category. 😆

Getting back to the original subject I think it is hard to make a move to another country unassisted. I only moved once for a four year posting overseas by my employer but that was a different matter. I knew it wasn’t forever but a good 4 year stretch appealed to me as sufficient time to get immersed in a different culture and language, although I could speak that fairly fluently already. Living there I acquired a live in boy friend so the assimilation was pretty complete with his friends combining with mine that I acquired on my own. All good things come to an end though and my job there ended after 4 years and my relationship with my bf a half year later.

Southern Ontario is parallel with Northern California. And grows peaches, plumbs and all sorts of other fruits which are now in season. Of course it doesn’t have the coastal climate but wine is grown seriously there.

I read about this a week or so ago in the NYT. Mini forests. Invented by this Japanese guy. Very interested as I had unconsciously done this on my town property 16 years ago. They were all saplings which I harvested from my country property. Today I have these different big compatible trees all happily growing skyward together ( about 18 to 22 feet) They now touch branches a little but that’s ok according to the Japanese originator. And they will become stronger as a result of their diversity and closeness. Sitting in my garden this morning with the wind rustling the leaves both deciduous and coniferous was wonderful to see.

One book I am currently reading is my own which is to be published this fall. I have spent over a year in writing it and the last 3 months in reading proofs. Getting down to the final proof in the next week and hope to have it come out in late September. It’s an historical treatise of limited interest but should do alright in the local market. I will do a book launch and it will be featured at our local museum, at which I am the curator. It’s my second effort at writing a book. My first was a self published family history. This latest I got a publisher to pay the costs. Satisfaction at the end of the day but lots of sweat invested in the research and writing. Got to get things right in a historical book as much as possible.

I saw a provider I have met 3 previous times over 2 years a couple of days ago. He advertises as vers/top. With me he is top but on our first date I hired him to top me and bottom for another escort I had hired for the night. He was great at both and we reminisced about it this time. I asked him how often he is asked to bottom and he said not too often. Of course his great asset is a huge dick 8 1/2 and thick. Hard to pass up.

I find the opposite. Ads can repeat on the next page, 1 or 2, usually not more and not always.

Bottom includes both vers top and vers bottom. Also bottom and vers. So it’s no surprise it’s the largest category. I still think top is the largest single category without any ad-ons, or perms and combinations as my math teacher used to say.

Arrested doesn’t mean guilty. Still, rough trade probably fits the bill. Proceed at your own risk.

You’re absolutely right. And I do shop almost every day and buy fresh food. Which I cook myself. When I go out to dine it’s always good restaurants . No junk food or very little if you consider pizza junk food. And then only seldom do I have pizza, Maybe once every 3 months. Don’t eat hamburgers and fries.

Interesting profile of Cade Maddox. Learned a few things about him. Wasn’t too turned on by his bf Kevin. He’s French Canadian from Montreal where I also grew up. Not my type of French Canadian though.

He has the BenSash seal of approval. 😂

Who has a dance pole in their living room? Lol

That’s probably my only option. I notice all the cute guys are working at the grocery store in my town.