BigAppleJay

Who knew bareback sex could trigger the philosopher, physician and beacon of virtue in us all.

Threads like this disgust me, yet proves that ALL men are shallow as hell, and if some trolls who ask for sympathy were “hot”, they’d be probably more bitchier, mean, stuck-up, and obnoxious than the “so-called-a-list”, guys that everyone gives grief to.
 
This escort more than likely looks just like the prototype of guys who are usually clients, yet those in his EXACT likeness are judging him.
 
Just remember that you get what you put out there, so the next time you have a negative experience with someone because of how old, fat, weathered, or unattractive you may be, just remember that you did the SAME THING to someone else.

Which is so ignorant because let me just say this....the guy who gave me the most money to this very day, is a tall, black man who was an executive for a football team who flew me to Arizona for a week. I have never made as much money in a week as I did with him...and I'm just going to leave that there.

I don't condone stigmatizing recovering addicts, but commenting negatively on those not wanting to hire those still actively using?
 
Oy. This over-political correct bullshit needs to stop.

I don't believe in the word "ugly" applied to anyone....even if they are hairy and overweight. That is painting with a broad brush stroke. EVERYONE has an attractive quality. I have been with overweight guys that have piercing blue eyes.....or a great smile....or a great southern accent. To me, everyone has some physical attribute that makes them beautiful, even if it comes from the inside and is projected out. To throw the word "ugly" at anyone that has a physical quality that is a turn off to you, and call them "ugly" is just plain wrong. I know this will sound cliche....but bring up Christina Aguilera's video on Youtube for the song "Beautiful" She totally nails it in that video about what I am talking about with the visuals and lyrics. By the way....amazing how in 2002 when that video was made she has such a pro LGBTQ message ....17 years ago she was way ahead of her time....she saw the beauty in all of us in the LGBTQ community in that video, just as we should see the beauty in everyone, too. (even if they are hairy and overweight) Watch that video and you will "get it"

that's not a fact, that's an opinion

Wrong, this somebody happens to appreciate a seasoned masseur who knows a man’s body and how to heal it and please it!

If there’s a screening process for giving someone a massage, they shouldn’t be a masseur at all.

Not sure how this thread turned into an evaluation of bigdale or whomever but let’s get back on track or close the thread. Personally I couldn’t care less about him.

It's typical of gay men to assign worth to a big cock -- something no one has any control over -- and reduce themselves to infantile begging.
 
A person may have major character flaws but they're ignored if he is hung.
 
Yes, back to topic. I'm average hung but lean so don't mind it in the "up" position as my torso creates a bit of a "slot" for it.
 
I hate feeling my dick and especially my balls crushed and some of my masseurs push down quite hard. Fortunately a lot of them also do stretching both face up and face down so the twig and berries get a chance to breathe.

What's with the implicit homophobia or sexism? That rant has nothing to do with manliness. Gender expression is completely indepedant from assertiveness.
 
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Draping is frequently a legal requirement that any legitimate massage professional will follow to remain legally licensed. Therapeutic massage helps hundreds of millions of people around the world. Highly trained body workers are a key contributor to the longevity and quality of the careers of high school, college, and professional athletes. They also help veterans live their best lives with the mental and physical injuries suffered in our wars. I could keep going for pages, but I hope my point is clear: spending money on a high quality massage is never a waste.
 
If all you've ever experienced from massage are the massuses and massuers found online or in cheap parlors, it's likely you've never had an expert massage in your life. I've been fortunate enough to find great amateurs who give decent massages with extras over the years, but for real massage, I always seek out a professional. If anything extra happens with them, it's purely a bonus to an already incredibly beneficial experience. Treat humans well and you'd be surprised by what's possible.
 
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WTF?? You sound like my father who spent a good portion of his life worrying his son is gay. For some of us, the mystery, the not-knowing, the unraveling (draping included), the teasing the masseur and discovery is the thrill and excitement we seek in going to known-to-be strictly legit masseurs or spas. It is in no way “frustrating or stressful.” The “ambiguity” is the essential part of the experience sought. And, when I seek this scene, a solid legit massage without an HE is not flushed money. This obviously doesn’t float your boat. Different strokes for different folks. But manliness is not in question.

Yep. Anyone who describes himself as "hot" I completely avoid. All I see is a primadonna with more issues then a news stand.

Oh please. Yes maybe in 1940 there's a story similar to this. In the real world today we now have apps like Grindr and scruff so there's no part of this world where a guy that describes itself like that cannot have an abundance of willing guys salivating at the thought of getting together with him.

Instead of bumping go see him and report back.

If therapeutic only, do not post provocative pictures of yourself which may mislead

I like tattoos on men because even as a small boy, I found them very erotic. I would get little-boy boners over tattooed men.

When I was young there was a guy down the street who had a tattoo on his bicep. He walked by our house every day going to the beach. Mid 20's, Italian and always wore a speedo. That is why today I love tattoos, Italian men and speedos. Not sure what the tattoo was of. Too busy staring at the bulge in his speedo!!:p:p

I seriously think this is going to take us back in time to when we used to look in the back of the gay local newspaper for massage print ads. These gay rags lost business when everyone went online looking for masseurs. Looks like they might get that business back. Ugh

did you see the replies to your October inquiry?
 
https://m4m-forum.org/threads/looking-for-monster-cock.129054/
 
or your January, 2016, inquiry which went on for 18 pages?
 
https://m4m-forum.org/threads/looking-for-the-biggest-cocks-monsters-only.110696/

Could you explain where your mind goes when you see "ask me" in someone's ad and what your exact concern is?

Not if you take responsibility for yourself and follow the same safer sex protocols you have always used. People are living in a fantasy world if they honestly think that guys who advertise as "safe only" are necessarily doing the same in their personal life. PrEP has changed everything.

I love how his ad says "safe only" and his vids are the exact opposite :-)

We should confine @stevenkesslar to the Politics forums. We do not want people in The Lounge coming from that shithole place. We should bring more people from the Arts forum instead.

We have a new police now, I see. The only think that matters is whether or not the inked one likes the image. If you think that you need to be an expert on whatever image you chose to tattoo on yourself, great. Apply that policy to yourself.