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Thanks. I think the issue I'm encountering is that there is no filter in RM's search feature for Indian or South Asian. They're all listed as either "mixed" or "other" and sometimes "Asian". Anyhow, thanks for the response.

Profile is almost 2 years old with no reviews yet, but the cake is looking delicious!  Anyone met with him?
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Spent this past weekend with him. WOW! Young and kind of new to the scene. But very eager to please. DM for details. Highly recommend! 
 
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If youre doing escorting you have to come to the fact that youre going to have clients in all types of ages and body types. Glad to hear that you havent came across anyone who is judgey, ive heard so many horror stories about clients being turned away after sending stats or pictures which is ridiculous! As for me ive always been attacted to older bears, When I was 21 by bf at the time was 28 (I thought was a much older at the time haha) and now im 32 and my current bf is 42 which is very much a bear. Im actaully afraid when I get to age 40 my attractionpool will start to dwindle haha. I very much prefer older clients as they are much more mature, sweet, and know exactly what they want!

I actually really get off on serving bigger men and older men.  
Very early in my escort life, I had a client in his 80’s.  I was admittedly a little unsure beforehand of how I’d react.  I’d always gotten off on age difference, playing with older guys, but this was extreme even for me.  Come to find out, this guy was one of my hottest experiences.  The gravitas he brought, and the breadth of life experience, made for a really intense sex appeal.  I still actively hope I maintain his level of sex appeal when I’m his age.   Ever since, I’ve actively pursued every opportunity I could to play with senior seniors.  
As for the bear aspect?   That wasn’t such a discovery.  I’ve ALWAYS been into big guys.  All the more to explore.  More places to bury your face.  😈 
I really believe you shouldn’t have any problem finding providers who are genuinely into daddy bears and grandpa bears. 
And please holler if you’re ever in NYC!  👋🏻 😏 

How about in the DC/MD area???

Pubic assistance said Asian Americans and blacks are told they are inferior to whites to varying degrees, or something along those lines. Which I disagree with. But he did say Asians and blacks are at the bottom of the gay dating pool, which I don’t think is completely accurate either. Some white men love Asian men, some love Black men. That’s the beauty of gay love. I truly believe gay men are less likely to have racial hang ups, and more open to interracial relationships, than their straight male counterparts.

I had a housemate in college that would joke about being arrested. 
"Whatever you say orificer," he would say. 😁
 
Never had a provider ask if I was.
Years ago I got pulled over for a brake light out, along the coast.  He was young, tall, handsome, boyish and surprisingly wore short pants.  I'll never forget how friendly he was.  If more clever I'd have dropped some kind of hint 😜 

Ugh. This jackass. 

Facts:
Police are not required to identify themselves as law enforcement, even if asked directly.
Police are legally allowed to misrepresent who they are when conducting investigations.
These tactics are common in sting operations, particularly in prostitution cases.
Relying on the misconception that officers must reveal their identity can lead to legal trouble. 
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I don't know why escorts ask or put in their ads no law enforcement.

Especially if he’s in uniform 😍

I hope people realize that undercover officers can and do lie when asked this question.
There is no rule that they have to identify themselves.

ME!

I would be happy to answer that in private. DM me if you'd like to know more.

Raceplay isn't something I'd say two total strangers should get into when there's money involved.
Whether you're the dom or the sub in the scene, you have to know a little something about who and why they're asking for it, as well as where the line is.
Is it a taboo?  No more a taboo than pissing on someone, scat, fisting, sounding, BDSM, etc.  It's just a verbal diversion from vanilla sex.
Like rapeplay, it's just theater.  Some actors are better at it than others.
 

Well....I guess he didn't understand role play / race play.
I had a fuckbuddy years ago...who had suffered some degree of racism growing up. He said he learned from an early age to view white people as superior and black people as inferior. As an adult he knew better but subconsciously he still heard those ideas in his head. So during sexual kink play, he enjoyed being held prisoner and humiliated and beaten by a white man while being used sexually. He says the fact that a white man enjoyed using his throat to cum-in was his safety. The fact that he was physically attractive to a white man reminded him that it was all a lie. That his "inferiority" was an illusion. He enjoyed how I would abuse him during sex ..and then tell him how beautiful he was after I shot my load in him a few times.
Then I would kiss him...and jerk him off. He would always cry while he ejaculated.
Powerful stuff.
But as I stated up thread ...tread lightly.
Its definitley not everyone's cup of tea.
 

Interesting, I thought he looked very much like his photos. He doesn't have any face photos, so I'm speaking about his body pics only, but I found his photos to be accurate when I saw him a few days ago.

Same here. I hired him last week and it was amazing. We had been chatting for a while, but our schedules just never lined up, and finally last week they did. Great communication; he asked what I was looking for and delivered it. His body looks just like his photos and he eagerly met my requests. We had a great (but short) conversation at the end; he has a very interesting background and has lived all over the place. I highly recommend him and I hope to see him next time he comes to town.

I just met him and had a great time. He has a sexy swimmer's (but slightly more muscular) build and is every bit as hot as in his photos. He wore a jockstrap and it looked amazing on him. I would leave a positive review on his RM page but I can't do that without a premium account.

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And, fwiw, I prefer not to see the guy's face. In today's environment, I think it's safer for the provider, and that makes me feel safer.

You keep saying you gave it an honest shot, but what you’re really doing is romanticizing paid intimacy because it lets you feel in control. That’s not vulnerability— it’s curated affection you can turn off the moment it challenges you. You didn’t feel “seen” because something real happened. You felt safe because you paid to avoid rejection.
You didn’t “try the friendship path.” You sampled it like a disappointed Yelp reviewer and gave up when it didn’t immediately give you what you wanted. Real friendship isn’t a transactional detour on the road to sex or romance— it’s connection for its own sake.
Saying people “only connect if you’re offering sex” is just a projection. Maybe you’re the one struggling to show up for people without expecting something in return. If you reduce every interaction to a reward system — where your time, looks, or libido should automatically earn you closeness — then of course you’re going to feel used, rejected, or misunderstood.
Friendship isn’t a means to an end. It’s the foundation of anything meaningful. If you can’t invest in that without strings, you’re not looking for connection. You’re just lonely and blaming the world for it.
You want the feelings of intimacy without the risk, the work, or the discomfort. But that’s not love. That’s fantasy. And until you stop treating people like mirrors for your unmet needs — expecting them to reflect desire or devotion just because you’re “hot”— nothing is going to feel real. Not dating. Not friendship. Not even the next massage.

What I have found is with some providers you can have an agreement and upcharge to have it happen.  Some just will not.
The best situations are when it just happens naturally because you have bonded so well with him.  Those are my favorites.

Looking for a top is a cinch, but finding a bottom by comparison involves much more investigation. Why is that? Too many people say you're a fool if you think you need to donate to be a top, as there are apps galore that can assist in a hook-up to locate an eager bottom, but being topped for whatever reason isn't the same. 
Isn't people's preference of position around 50 /50, or have we become "bottom heavy" over time? Some say it's a regional thing - "Everyone in L.A. is a bottom", etc. 
My own preference, which evolves with time, are "bottom /verse" providers, which in general means I'll almost definitely get to be the top, and probably afterward, they'll top me back. These aren't all that easy to find compared to strict tops.