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That really sucks, and I’m sorry that happened. You’re human, and you’re doing your best. In my opinion, it’s always so much better to give yourself the space to recharge and take a moment, especially in a field where intimacy—on any level—is being exchanged. Taking that time ensures you can show up fully present, and that’s what truly matters.

Sounds like quite the missed opportunity for National Geographic—and a loss for the rest of us. Clearly, some appendages deserve their own feature spread! 😉

Interesting profile. Handsome guy. Claims he doesn’t want time wasters, yet leaves three “Ask Me” boxes blank. It’s frustrating to have to ask questions that should already be included. No kissing. No boyfriend experience. Makes me wonder if he’s straight, but I hate making assumptions.

@Whitman you kill me with your finds! ❤️

Five languages, but somehow, the one most needed to communicate with the public remains a mystery.

This is the takeaway for me, and it’s so important. Patience really is a virtue. I’d rather a provider respond when they’re clear-headed than rush a response. There’s nothing more off-putting than reading a message that feels rushed, with misspelled words or signs of distraction—it’s clear they’re juggling multiple things. I can wait. When I’m working, people know they might need to wait for me, but I always make sure to respond in a timely manner, and when I do, they have my full attention.

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I really appreciate hearing this—it’s reassuring. I was very young when I first sought out the services of a provider. At the time, I was very naive, but I had a purpose and a reason for doing it. Now, at my age, with most providers being younger than me by a few decades, I’d be lying if I said the thought never crossed my mind: “I wonder if this man thinks I’m a loser or desperate for hiring sex.” “What’s wrong with you?” It’s a brief moment, and the thought passes, but it’s there sometimes. Judgment and shame are powerful forces, especially for men, who are often taught to suppress vulnerability and emotional needs. These feelings can create a sense of isolation and self-doubt, as if seeking intimacy or help makes us inadequate. But the truth is, there’s nothing wrong with being human, with seeking connection or whatever it is we need. What you said really resonates—breaking free from that judgment and shame is essential for healing, emotional growth, and genuine connection.

I can only speak for myself too, and can say I don’t either. In fact, I’m very grateful for you.

This raises an interesting issue about internalized biases toward transactional intimacy and how societal attitudes differ regarding it. Reversing the perspective—do you think some providers look down on their clients because they’re paying to have sex?

Around 1% of the global population speaks 5 or more languages fluently. Fewer than 0.01% of the global population speaks 10 or more languages fluently. The probability of someone being fluent in 16 languages is approximately 0.000001% to 0.00001% (1 in 10 million to 1 in 100 million). This makes it an exceptionally rare feat, achievable by only a handful of individuals globally. I guess it’s… possible. 👀🤭

Too young for my tastes personally. Other red flags I see too. But that’s just my opinion.

His profile does say “Toys,” so that explains the stuffed animals. 😂

I have no experience with this guy whatsoever, but I recall seeing this thread and pictures of the provider in sports gear who may be able to offer what you’re looking for. Some forum members mentioned in the thread may be able to opine, or you can reach out to the provider directly. Good luck. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/156044-nineinjock-near-nyc/?do=findComment&comment=2395918

God willing, I’ll still be here. And I hope that day never comes for you. Be safe, my friend.

A cock ring that goes around the balls can help with endurance by restricting blood flow, which can delay ejaculation and increase overall pleasure. The added pressure on the balls enhances sensations, making the experience more intense. A ring around just the shaft focuses more on maintaining a firmer erection. It’s all about personal preference. Try both to see which feels best for you.

You’re a glutton for punishment. Be careful with your heart.

Just make sure in advance the providers are into water play.

As long as you’re enjoying yourself, that’s all that matters. Personally, I prefer a bit more certainty. I do think, with the right provider, you can still experience the thrill and strategic play you’re looking for (seeing his mood, testing things, etc.).